Junior high school is the adolescence of children's growth and development, many children show rebellion and disgust at this time, some children even skip school, parents are very anxious when they can't find their children. There is a reason why children skip school, parents should not rush to beat and scold their children at this time, but communicate with their children to understand the reasons and help them solve the problem. So, how to cultivate children's love of learning and Xi?How to educate junior high school students who skip school
1.You can try to communicate with your child to understand the reason for skipping class, and if the communication is not good, you can try to understand the reason from the side, such as with teachers and classmates, and the method should be appropriate.
2.Tell children the importance of learning Xi, parents should guide children to have problems, do not beat and scold children, tell the truth, and explain the importance of school learning Xi, so as to cultivate children's character of abiding by the rules and loving Xi learning.
This is the case for our children, who are not interested in Xi at all, so their grades have not been able to improveIt wasn't until the Xi planning done in the Tutu classroom that the results were obviously much better, and there are actually tricks in each subjectThe child is interested in learning Xi, and the parents are finally relieved!
3.Parents should be mindful of who their children are friends with. As the saying goes, "If you have company, you will be red". If the child's friends skip school and are afraid of Xi, the children will influence each other and discuss what to do about skipping school and how to lie to their parents.
4.Pay attention to the child's learning Xi, find out the problems in the child's learning Xi in time, and give guidance. If the child has difficulties in learning Xi, you can give the child targeted guidance, so that the child can understand his own problems and find solutions to solve them, so as to improve the child's interest and ability in learning Xi.
5.Let children develop good XiXi learning habits, such as completing homework regularly, formulating Xi learning plans, controlling Xi learning time, avoiding too long Xi learning time, insisting on learning Xi every day, and improving the efficiency of learning Xi.
How to cultivate children's love of learning and Xi?Where do junior high school students skip school and generally go?
1.Play with friends: Children often enjoy playing with friends, so they may choose to go to a friend's house or other places to spend time with friends when skipping school.
2.Playgrounds or parks: Playgrounds and parks are places where children enjoy activities, and they may choose to skip school to go to these places to play, relax, or find excitement.
3.Video arcades or internet cafes: For some children, video games are one of their hobbies. As a result, they may choose to skip school to go to a video arcade or internet café and enjoy the game.
4.Dormitory: As you should know, the door to the dormitory is usually closed when students are in class. Usually no one will go to the dormitory to check!And then there are a lot of students who just take advantage of this loophole. Sneak in before the dormitory teacher closes the dormitory door, and then hide in the dormitory to sleep!Therefore, the dormitory is also one of the first places for junior high school students to skip school!
5.Toilets: In junior high school, many students developed the Xi of smoking. There are many students who can't help but want to smoke during class. So choose to skip school, and then find some more hidden places to live your addiction to smoking. Among them, the toilet is one of the first places for junior high school students to skip class and smoke!
Children skip school, are tired of school, don't want to go to school, how to guide parents
1.Know why: Communicate openly with your child about why they are skipping school and not being in school. It may be because of Xi stress, relationships, family problems, etc. Only by understanding the cause can we find a solution to the problem.
2.Build trust: Build a trusting relationship with your child and let them know that you are willing to listen to their thoughts and feelings and support them.
3.Adjust expectations: Adjust your child's expectations appropriately to avoid putting too much pressure on them. Encourage them to work hard, but also accept their shortcomings.
4.Enhance Xi interest in learning: Try to find Xi ways that children are interested in learning to improve their interest in learning Xi. For example, through games, practice, etc., they can be more engaged in learning Xi.
5.Pay attention to your child's inner needs: channel his emotions in a timely manner. In daily life, we can pay attention to our children's emotions and encourage them to talk.
That's all for how to cultivate children's love of learning and Xi sharing, help children express their inner worries: for example, "Are you worried that if you don't do well in this exam, your parents will blame you?"You can rest assured, learning Xi is a long-term thing, as long as you study seriously every day, one or two test results do not mean anything, don't put too much pressure on yourself.
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