Adolescent children are already very aware of the experience and feelings of "self". If children's perception and evaluation of themselves is basically obedience to ** opinions, then adolescent children are completely different. They have developed a keen interest in themselves and are keen to think about their strengths and weaknesses. They seem narcissistic, but at the same time they often exaggerate their flaws and end up frustrating with their imperfections. In order to guide adolescent children well, it is necessary to understand the changes in their adolescent child's self-awareness.
Parents over-praise their children and emphasize self-confidence, which will make children lose their objective understanding of themselves and become arrogant, conceited, vain, and exaggerated, which are all manifestations of children's narcissism. A narcissistic child will see himself in an inflated way and will eventually hit his head in the face of the facts.
1. Actively guide children to become confident.
Adolescent children's inferiority complex is a psychological imbalance such as weakness, incompetence, and lack of energy after they feel inferior to others after comparing themselves with others, and it is a kind of self-awareness or self-denial of children's own abilities and qualities. On top of that, low self-esteem can also have a serious impact on children. Therefore, parents must pay attention to the inferiority complex of adolescent children and make them confident and courageous. In order to eliminate the inferiority complex of adolescent children, parents should actively encourage and guide them, and cultivate their self-confidence in life and Xi.
In addition, parents should encourage their children to socialize more with others and not close themselves offAt the same time, in the process of interacting with others, correctly recognize the strengths and weaknesses of oneself and others, learn more Xi the advantages of others, and improve one's own shortcomings, so as to gradually eliminate the inferiority complex.
2. Don't overpraise.
Narcissistic people generally have a strong sense of superiority, their self-confidence is far higher than that of ordinary people, and they crave the admiration of others. This kind of psychology can induce children to develop aggressive behaviors and psychological problems. One of the main reasons why adolescent children become more narcissistic is the excessive praise of their parents. Therefore, if you want your child not to be narcissistic, don't praise them excessively.
Adolescence is the most beautiful stage of life, as precious as a diamond and as beautiful as a flower. Parents should understand their children's true thoughts, communicate correctly with their children, and correctly guide their children to spend this special period happily, then they will welcome their children to a better life!