There is a saying that says:
"Good love is to identify a person, all the good, just want to give her. For each other, there is always clear love, sincere liking, and blatant favoritism. ”In love, some men will express their love in various ways, not necessarily all of them are beautiful, but as long as they love with their hearts, they will definitely show something in some small things.
Especially the following three little things, if a man "calculates" you in these aspects, then it means that he loves you to the bone and can't be wrong.
"Calculated" in health
In the TV series "Meritorious", when Li Tingzhao learned that his wife's team was going to do human clinical trials of drugs, he immediately asked to be the first to sign up for his wife.
He said: "You are not in good health, you see that you have been eating for a while, like counting rice grains, and the rash on your back has not gone down for half a year. You're still bleeding from your nose. You see your husband and me, I have to take care of the children again, and I have to do all the things at home, and my body belongs to Class A and A. You listen to me, let me do it for you this time. ”
Someone once said
Someone who really cares about you, whether you are tall or short, beautiful or ugly, will only care about your health, not your appearance.A man who truly loves you will always pay attention to your physical health. He may often remind you to drink water, eat, sleep, or even force you to rest when you stay up late at work.
These seemingly tedious little things are actually him caring about your body and hoping that you can stay in good shape.
If a man cares about and cares about your body, everything is based on your physical health, it means that he really cares about you and really loves you.
"Calculation".Calculate in money
In the TV series "Good Things Come in Pairs", Gu Xu found that Lin Shuang, who had been secretly in love for many years, was troubled by divorce, and in order to help Lin Shuang return to the workplace, he was willing to lower the product ** and cooperate with Lin Shuang's ex-husband's company.
Not only that, seeing that Lin Shuang and his daughter were kicked out of the house by his ex-husband Wei Ming, he gave a small villa of his own to the mother and daughter to live in, and also cooked for Lin Shuang and took care of the children.
Writer Suzen said:
"Money is a very valuable asset for men. And a man is willing to use this precious capital on a woman, proving that he has the sincerity to invest in this relationship to the end. ”Love is a kind of giving, which requires us to give each other support and help materially and spiritually.
A man who loves you will be willing to give his time and money for you. However, if a man only pays lip service to you but is not willing to spend money for you, then he is not a man who truly loves you.
"Calculate" in relationships
In "Shining Her", Guan Wen and Ding Ning are a pair of former lovers who met in the workplace after many years of separation. Guan Wenming obviously did not let go of his feelings for Ding Ning, but he refused to accept Ding Ning's confession openly and secretly. And Ding Ning's protection and possessiveness of Guan Wen have reached the full level, as long as a man dares to approach Guan Wen, Ding Ning is regarded as a rival in love.
Once, in order to expand his business, Guan Wen took annual leave to accompany a manager to travel to Yunnan, Ding Ning mistakenly thought that he was pursuing Guan Wen, and immediately chased him to the airport to block the two, looking for various reasons to go with them. Guan Wen was a little happy in his heart, and in the end, the two reunited.
Zhang XiaoxianIn"Farewell Song".Inside said:
If women are good at turning love into jealousy, then men may be good at turning jealousy into love. ”A man who truly loves you will want you to keep a certain distance from other men. He may often pay attention to your dealings with other men, and even show some "jealousy" when you are in contact with other men.
These seemingly cautious actions are actually that he cares about your emotional state and hopes that you can stay single-minded and not be disturbed by others.
Conclusion:
Zhang Xiaoxian once described the taste of love like this:
"Falling in love with you, I have experienced the taste of longing, the sorrow of separation and the torment of jealousy, and the endless possessiveness. ”If a man "calculates" you in the above three small things, then it means that he loves you to the bone and can't be wrong.
Although these small calculations may seem insignificant, they can make a woman feel the sincerity and love of a man. Women should cherish the love and dedication behind these small calculations, and respond to men's love with their hearts.