Someone who truly loves will meet in a dream;Truly loving someone will miss it day and night, and will directly turn it into action.
When a man is moved, he will take the initiative to contact his beloved woman, not necessarily to chat or meet, as long as there is a connection, know what the other party is doing, what the mood is, and be satisfied.
However, a reader asked me a question: Why do men take the initiative and then suddenly stop taking the initiative?
This phenomenon is really confusing, and it is easy to understand that men are very ** or men do not love and other relatively negative behaviors.
Of course, there will be such a phenomenon, but don't be too pessimistic.
If a man offers you a woo and suddenly becomes cold, there must be other reasons, and they are not all expressions of love. Most likely one of the following:
Such a phenomenon often occurs in life:
If you love to do something, you will recklessly put all your passion into it. If you find yourself doing what you've been doing turns into a repetition day after day with nothing new to gain, it can make one wonder if it's worth sticking with it, or question what the point of sticking with it is.
This is true in entrepreneurship, and it is also true in love.
It is undeniable that men will contact you at first because of novelty, and when contacting you becomes a daily habit, they will be confused for convenience and do not know why they want to contact you and what results they want to achieve with youWhat will happen to your frequent chats?
Chatting with you with questions, you can't calm down and think, and you can't find the answers you want.
Just like the road of growth, if everyone does not know how to reflect, the effort will become a mechanical repetition, and there will be no big breakthrough.
The man no longer contacts you because he gives himself time and space to think carefully about your relationship, for example: he will be clear about his feelings about you, and he will also think about what stage your relationship is in, etc.
When he figures it out, he'll keep coming to you.
Love is the spice of life, an important part of life but not all, especially for a man, in addition to love in his life, more important is career.
After all, a person's energy is limited, and you may not remember to contact you when you spend too much time on other things.
For men, career pursuits are an important part of life and inevitably take too much time.
As the saying goes: when a man holds a brick, he cannot hold you. Indeed it is.
is like Chen Yu in "Thirty Years Old", when he and his wife are not married, they will prepare for overwhelming romance, take the initiative to contact each other, and even snuggle together during meals.
After getting married, Chen Yu's enthusiasm was not as high as when he was in love, and he even postponed his date with his wife, which made his wife very angry. Multiple contradictions converged, and the two had a big quarrel and finally decided to divorce.
After the divorce, his wife Zhong Xiaoqin realized that her husband did not love her, but put all his energy into his work and worked hard to earn money in order to better support the stability of this small family.
Even in the relationship stage, men do not have the foresight to spend all their time on women, especially when work is busy, and a lot of investment is a common thing.
However, being really busy and not wanting to talk to you under the pretext that you are busy with work are two different things, and you must make it clear.
Love is like a scale, and people on both sides of the tray need to be equal in order to ensure a long-lasting relationship. This reciprocity refers not only to the reciprocity of the level of competence, but also to each other's intentions.
If a man has a positive attitude towards you, but no matter how much the other person gives you a response, this phenomenon is like a basin of cold water poured into the water, and no matter how hot the fire will be extinguished.
I've seen a little **:
Men are very fond of women and will do almost anything she asks for. Only women enjoy the dedication and beauty of men, but not only do not give men a clear answer, but also take men's contributions for granted, without any respect and cherishment.
Men choose to give up and no longer take the initiative to contact women, and women are also a little unaccustomed to asking men why.
The man said that if there is a distance of 100 steps between two people, if one of them takes the initiative to complete 99 steps, and only the other person is unwilling to go out, then there is no need to continue to insist, not love, but at the same time love, give the other party a chance, and also give yourself dignity.
If a man's efforts are exchanged for your ambiguous or even cold attitude, don't expect the other party to maintain their original enthusiasm. Passion can only last when it is rewarded, otherwise it is easy to extinguish.