If the relationship is calculated at the beginning, it is often difficult to last. An eight-year relationship ended because of the bride price, and the man felt that paying the bride price would make him lose too much. From then on, the woman became realistic and began a blind date journey, while the man quickly looked for a new love. Such an ending makes people sigh: Can the end of the relationship really be so easy?
In this relationship, the man and woman had a good time for up to eight years. However, because of the bride price, this relationship finally came to an end. The man may feel that he has to pay the bride price after talking for so long, which makes him feel unfair and even a little loss. However, did he ever think that this relationship has become a Xi and dependence on each other under the precipitation of time?
After the woman's relationship was frustrated, she chose a more realistic attitude. She embarks on a blind date journey, trying to find a new emotional home. But the man quickly came out of the pain and looked for a new love. Is this really appropriate for him?
The ending of this relationship makes people think: What is love?Is it a deal that calculates gains and losses, or is it purely sincere?Perhaps, true love should be unconditional dedication and mutual understanding and support. If everyone can treat each other with a sincere heart, then the relationship can be long-lasting.
My boyfriend and I were in love for eight years and eventually broke up because of the bride price. The boyfriend felt that the eight-year relationship cost 160,000 bride price was too much to cost. Zhou Peng and Wang Jing are both born in the 90s, they have known each other for eight years, and their relationship has always been very early. However, the husband and wife are in trouble because of Zhou Peng's family financial situation. Zhou Peng is a native of the city, his family conditions are average, and because his brother owed foreign debts when he got married, he has not been able to buy a house.
As they grew older, Wang Jing's parents put forward an ultimatum about their marriage, asking Zhou Peng to buy a house or break up. Faced with the difficulty of buying a house, Zhou Peng proposed to let Wang Jing and him pay a joint down payment, and then repay the mortgage together. However, Wang Jing's family is not wealthy, and as a working girl, she cannot easily come up with the down payment she needs.
Wang Jing's mother also reminded her that the family had divorced many of her brother's marriages and could no longer support her dowry. As a result, Wang Jing rejected the offer to make a down payment jointly. Zhou Peng tried to solve the problem by sharing more responsibility for the down payment, but Wang Jing still firmly disagreed. In the end, Wang Jing proposed that the children who could not make a down payment, but wanted to reduce the bride price, and asked that the property be registered in her name.
She is worried that there will be no property security in her marriage, especially considering Zhou Peng's family situation and unknown factors after marriage. After reaching this point, Zhou Peng decided to buy a house, but Wang Jing's insistence put him in a dilemma. A conflict has completely confused the future of their marriage.
Zhou Peng insisted that if Wang Jing wanted to add a name without paying a penny, it would be a fantasy. Not only did he feel that this was an unrealistic idea, but his parents would not approve of it. He sighed and said, "Isn't this when we will become fools?"
On the issue of the down payment, Zhou Peng proposed to discuss letting Wang Jing take a part less, and he would take a part more, so that even if he added his name. However, in the end, Zhou Peng asked Wang Jing to take out 100,000 yuan and himself to take out 300,000 yuan, but Wang Jing resolutely disagreed. It turned out that Zhou Peng's family conditions were limited and he could not pay a down payment of 450,000 yuan. Therefore, they discussed letting Wang Jing and Zhou Peng share the down payment together, and then repay it together after they got married. The mortgage on the house will be written on the down payment of Zhou Peng and Wang Jing. Name.
However, Wang Jing did not agree with this initiative. Because she is a girl who grew up in the countryside and works for a living, she can't come up with a down payment of more than 200,000 yuan. Moreover, her parents are not willing to give so much money for their daughter. Wang Jing's mother once told her that her brother's marriage had emptied the family's funds and would not lend her money to marry her.
Wang Jing's insistence, Zhou Peng suggested that she take less down payment, but Wang Jing still refused. In the end, Wang Jing said that she could not get a down payment, but she could ask for less bride price, and insisted on adding her name to the real estate certificate, otherwise she would not be able to talk about marriage.
Zhou Peng reluctantly accepted this condition, but insisted on repaying the loan together after marriage. Wang Jing agreed to repay the loan jointly, resulting in a default between the two parties. Since the purchase procedures could not be handled quickly, the two parties decided to obtain the certificate first and save the issue of adding names to be resolved later.
Before receiving the certificate, the two parties were closed due to the bride price. Wang Jing's family asked for a bride price of 1666.66 million problems, and Zhou Peng felt that this population was too high and did not match the local Xi disputes. As a result, the two sides had intense training and finally chose to break up.
Unexpectedly, less than a month after the breakup, Zhou Peng actually got the down payment in person, got engaged to a girl five years younger than him, and was about to hold a wedding. Wang Jing started the blind date, and the requirements for future partners are lower, as long as there is a full house and car, and the bride price does not exceed 150,000. However, it is easy for her to find the right one, and one can't help but wonder if she has been repaired now.
The story teaches us: feelings cannot be measured by money, and do not see marriage as a transaction, let alone as an exchange of benefits. When it comes to marriage, we should cherish our feelings and not let money relationships become an exchange of interests. The story of Zhou Peng and Wang Jing provokes people to think deeply about the relationship between feelings and money. Different readers may have different opinions, welcome to leave a comment to share your insights.