"How old is your son, so he's in a hurry to buy a house?You can't buy it, if you have money, buy it for your eldest brother's family first, it's time for him to say kiss!”
We plan to buy a house in the county seat, our daughter is about to enter junior high school, and our son is about to enter the first grade, so we want to buy a house in the county seat and let them go to the county seat to study together.
In the past few years, my husband has been working in other places, and I have served my two children at home, planting more than a dozen acres of land, and doing handicrafts to earn pocket money when I am not working.
The two of us are frugal and desperate to earn money, just to give our children a good life and a good education.
We didn't hide it from anyone when we planned to buy a house, and even asked for other people's opinions to try to step on the pit as little as possible.
Unexpectedly, the first to stand up against it was my parents-in-law!
On the weekend, we planned to go to the county seat to visit and look at the house, and my father-in-law came to my house with a straight face: "I heard that you two want to go to the county seat to buy a house?"”
I said go check it out first, and buy it if it's suitable. He said, don't go, it's a waste of time!
You don't know that now the house has lost money, and you will lose it when you buy it!Isn't it good to have those two money in the bank and eat interest?
My husband said: "Niuniu should go to junior high school, Erbao should also go to the first grade, the county is better than the home school, I want to send them to the county seat to study." ”
My father-in-law said that if you don't buy a house, you can't studyIt's only a few dollars to rent a house, and it's only a matter of a few years for children to go to school, and it's worth buying a house!
My husband and I didn't speak, buying a house was something we had been thinking about for a long time, and it can be said that since the birth of our daughter, we have been thinking about buying a house in the city.
My father-in-law scolded me at my house, saying that we had money to burn, and said that if you buy a house, there will be difficulties in the future!
Before leaving, he also warned us not to think nonsense, to make money, if you are really rich, you can help your brother more, don't know what's good, and then ruin the light!
How did we buy a house and it was ruined?My husband and I said, "My father-in-law doubts our ability and thinks we don't have the ability to make money!"”
He said let's go to the county seat first, and when we come back, I will make it clear to them, and we will be able to take them over to enjoy the happiness in the future!
We took our children to the county for a day to play, and also went to see a few real estate, but buying a house is not buying cabbage, it is not so easy!
As soon as we got home, my mother-in-law came and asked us what we were doing, and there was no one for a day.
I said that I was going to play with my children, and my mother-in-law pouted and said, I heard from your father, you two plan to buy a house!You don't look at yourself and what conditions you have, can you afford to buy a house?
My mother-in-law's obviously derogatory words made me feel very uncomfortable: "What conditions do we have, why can't we afford to buy a house?".”
I deliberately said that today Erkun also said that we bought a house and want to take you to enjoy happiness!
My mother-in-law said, I can't enjoy that blessing!According to me, don't buy that house, save some money and wait for Jiajia to go to school when she grows up!
Jiajia is my son, and he will only be in the first grade next summer, which is an important reason why we want to buy a house.
We talked to my mother-in-law for a few words, and then gave her the cake we bought, and she said that we, don't think about it, just think about making money now!
When the child is older, he can go to school for him to go to school, and then buy him a house and marry a daughter-in-law if he doesn't go to school, you have spent all the money now, and you will use the money in the future, and if you can't take it out, it should be difficult!
My mother-in-law said that reason, but my husband and I both feel that we are still young, even if we buy a house now, we will raise our children well in the future!
My husband is in a hurry to go out to earn money, and he doesn't want to be at home for too long. So for several days in a row, the two of us ran to the county seat almost every day, and finally fell in love with a house.
The house was bought by the owner as a wedding room, and the decoration was very good. The homeowner said that they planned to hold a wedding on National Day because he was admitted to the civil service in the urban area, and his fiancée also found a job in the urban area.
They are going to sell the house and go to the city to buy a house. My husband and I liked it so much that we booked it.
My parents-in-law didn't know who I heard about it, so we booked a house, and ran to my house again, and said angrily: "Didn't I tell you that you can't buy a house, how did you say that you bought it again?".”
I said, we have been planning to buy, this is just optimistic, the house is not expensive, it is decorated, even the furniture is available, and you can live in it after completing the formalities.
How old is your son, what are you buying a house for?When he grows up, this house is old, and he doesn't want you to buy another house if he gets married!”
Buy it, buy it, I haven't been able to earn money for a house in the past ten years. "My husband doesn't care too much.
You patronize yourself, you don't look at your brother's two sons, the eldest is 17 years old, he has no money to buy a house, you have money can't you stick to your brother's family first, let him buy a house for his son first. ”
The eldest brother's family didn't buy a house, and it didn't matter to us, although they were brothers, but we lived our own lives, and we didn't borrow money from him to buy a house.
The eldest brother's family has two sons, and the younger son was also born after letting go of the second child. I often say, I am not as blessed as you, and my husband's daughter will give birth to a son.
The eldest brother and his wife are also very capable, a few years ago they built a two-story building in the village, when the father-in-law and mother-in-law were very happy, saying that the eldest brother has the ability, and the child was only 10 years old to build the house.
Your son is still young, and it is not too late to buy a house in another 10 or 8 years, you help your brother first, give him the money first, let her buy a house, and then earn money to buy your own later. ”
My mother-in-law asked us not to buy a house, but to give the money to the eldest brother's family first, and let the eldest brother buy a house
Mother-in-law said, you think it's weird, it's your brother's hard-earned house to build, why do you live in it?
I said, then our money is not blown by the wind, but also our hard work, why can't we buy a house, and we have to pay the money to the eldest brother's family first?
My mother-in-law stopped squeaking, turned around and left, I really don't understand, I earned my own money to buy a house, and I didn't ask them for a penny, why are my parents-in-law still unhappy?