In this world, there are many relationships between men and women that should not happen, but they do happen.
Human beings, after all, are emotional animals. Before you meet that special person, you can say conclusively that you will not betray, you will be able to be open, and you will be able to have a clear conscience.
But once you meet that person, all your principles and adherence may be wiped out in an instant.
Feelings are sometimes so unreasonable, unmoved, that is, unmoved, once in love, it is unstoppable love. Of course, the vast majority of people are able to stick to their bottom line, know the role they play, and the responsibilities and obligations they bear.
Especially after having a lover or getting married, even if you meet someone who makes your heart beat faster, you can hold back your emotions, withdraw your soul, and not easily think about it. But there are also some people, who know that it is fire, but they are still like moths, and they have to pounce on it.
Although no one is a prophet of life, he does not know what will happen in the future. However, everyone should be kind to their own life.
In fact, if a man and a woman are in love, but each has a family, remember 3 points to be happy.
1.Defend the bottom line of crossing the lineTo tell the truth, even if it is a loving couple or couple, it is difficult for some strong people to have only one person in each other's hearts for the rest of your life.
After all, two people who love each other and stay together for a long time will always have disputes over firewood, rice, oil and salt, and there will always be a lot of friction.
After all, no matter how perfect a person is, there will always be shortcomings in his body, and the more he gets along day and night, the more he can find the shortcomings in the other party.
After a dispute or conflict, it is not a heinous sin to occasionally rest on other people. But if you just think about it in your heart and haven't really taken a step, you still won't hurt others too much, and you can still warm your own years.
Therefore, if a man and a woman are in love with each other, but each has a family, remember one thing and keep the bottom line that crosses the line to be happy.
On the other hand, no matter what kind of affection you have, if you cross the line and have intimate contact with each other physiologically, the consequences will definitely be much more serious than you think.
2.Don't use the joint property of the husband and wife to please each otherWhether it is fair love or sneaky feelings, after all, they can't escape material support.
If you are still single, your money is up to you, even if you spend all your savings, even if you are in debt, you don't need to be responsible for anyone.
But if you are married, then your money is not exactly your money, but also the property between your husband and wife, and the confidence of your family.
Therefore, if a man and a woman are together, but they each have families, remember one thing, do not use the joint property of your husband and wife to please each other, or even shake the foundation of marriage and family life, you can be happy.
On the other hand, as long as the money is still there, and it can even continue to create more money for your marriage, the marriage can continue. Anyone who empties his family wealth must be ruined and losed.
3.Don't forget each other's original intentions
Humans are purposeful animals. Especially as a married person, they should be very clear in each other's hearts what kind of role they are playing, and what kind of demands they have in the face of the person outside of marriage.
If it is true that marriage makes you feel like a year, and you can't wait to change someone and start a new life, then moving towards this goal with each other can be regarded as being responsible for your own life. But if you just want to have fun, then don't fake the show and sing.
In fact, if a man and a woman are in love with each other but have their own families, remember that you must never forget your own original intentions, but if you can always agree on the nature of your emotions and your vision for the future, then you will be happy.
On the other hand, he just wants to have fun, but you want to take root with him, such a story, the further back you go, it will definitely be a plot that hurts each other.