The Chinese New Year is the time when every wanderer returns home, and it is also the most lively time in the countryside. Everyone rushed back from all over the world to get together and talk about family life and the outside world. Inevitably, there will always be a mention of who "mixed up". So, how to accurately tell if a person is really "mixed well"?In addition to the superficial material and image, what are the deeper indicators?
People who mix well often have deep feelings for their hometown. They are willing to invest in their hometown, support local construction and education, and hope that their hometown can develop better. And those who only pay lip service to "love hometown", but do not actually take action, are likely to "mix badly" or do not really understand the importance of hometown.
A person's moral character and cultivation can be seen to a large extent from his attitude towards his elders and juniors. People who mix well, no matter how beautiful they are outside, will still respect their elders and care for their younger generations when they return to their hometown. They will spend time with their families instead of just throwing away a sum of money and leaving.
In rural areas, a person's social circle often reflects his social status and influence. People who mix well usually have a wider and high-quality social circle. They are able to build good relationships with all kinds of people, whether in business, politics, or culture.
For many people who have gone out from the countryside, agriculture and land are their eternal emotional bond. A person who is truly "well mixed" will not only care about his own economic interests, but also about the development of the countryside and the future of the land. They may try to introduce advanced agricultural techniques and management methods to help modernize agriculture in their hometowns.
A person who is truly visionary and ambitious, not only focused on the present, but also focused on the future. They will have a clear plan and vision for their hometown and their own future, and they will work towards it. Such a person, no matter what position he is in now, deserves our respect and expectation.
Rural cultural and educational resources are relatively limited, but that doesn't mean they're not important. A person who "mixes well" usually attaches great importance to culture and education. They may fund the construction of schools or libraries, or bring in external resources to enrich the cultural life of the countryside. They understand that culture and education are key to the long-term development of a community.
With the advancement of urbanization, the environment and ecology of many rural areas are under threat. A person with a real sense of responsibility and foresight will care about the environment and ecology of his hometown and actively participate in conservation actions. They may advocate for sustainable farming practices or support local environmental projects.
Money and power are touchstones, capable of testing a person's character and principles. People who mix well usually have a healthy and peaceful attitude towards money and power. They don't sacrifice principles for money and power, and they don't use money and power to suppress others. Instead, they will use these resources to contribute more to their hometown and society.
In these rapidly changing times, the ability to embrace new technologies and knowledge is crucial. A person who "mixes well" usually has an open mind and is willing to learn and try new things. They may bring the new knowledge and techniques they learned in the city back to the countryside to help their hometown keep up.
Last but not least, a person who really "mixes well" will have a strong sense of social responsibility. They understand that their success is not just a matter of the individual, but also of society. As a result, they are actively socially responsible, whether it's through charitable donations, supporting local businesses, or participating in community building.
In general, judging whether a person is "mixing well" is not a simple matter. It requires us to observe and understand with a more comprehensive and in-depth eye. Only in this way can we truly discover those who are both internally and externally enriched, who are both materially rich and spiritually fulfilled.
So, when you go home for the Chinese New Year, you might as well pay more attention to these details. You will find that judging whether a person is "mixed well" is not as simple as looking at the surface material and image. The real "mixing well" is to cultivate both inside and outside, not only material wealth, but also spiritual enrichment and emotional return.