The middle-aged woman took her second husband to visit her second husband, but she drove him away, crying that she was embarrassed.
Aunt Su is 62 years old this year. During the Spring Festival this year, she plans to take his wife Grandpa Zhang, who has been married for more than a year, to have a look. Although her husband was reluctant at first, Aunt Su thought about it, she was married, so why should she go with her husband to see it. However, as soon as he arrived, he was chased away by his wife's relatives. Aunt Su snorted and said with tears in her eyes: "Aren't I asking for hardship?"
When Aunt Su was 62 years old, she said: "I originally wanted to go to a relative's house with Lao Zhang to get closer, but who knew that I was snubbed and driven away." "What's even more infuriating is that my wife blames me for not going with her. She really couldn't figure it out, should she go to her husband's house?
Lao Zhang and I met while dancing in the ballroom, and it has been almost a year now. Lao Zhang is very tall, more than 1.8 meters, used to be a teacher, and is very handsome. He makes me like it. The most important thing is that I have a pension of about 5,000 yuan every month, and I live with Lao Zhang, so I don't have to worry about my livelihood anymore.
Lao Zhang agreed to associate with me at my constant request. We got our marriage certificate, and then I lived with Lao Zhang. Lao Zhang's house is quite large, with four bedrooms and two living rooms, but when I first moved, all kinds of messy things were piled up together, and I wouldn't clean them up at all. It wasn't easy, it took me a week to clean up the house.
Usually Lao Zhang took good care of me, food, housing and housing, and went out with me to play, all of which were handed over to him. However, I didn't waste his time, I made him a meal and made a meal. I sometimes feel as if I've become his babysitter, but he's paid for it anyway.
In fact, I thought that if I could keep Zhang's house in order, I could also help him take care of Zhang. But the problem is that Lao Zhang really has a lot of relatives, and when it comes to the Chinese New Year, there will be no one in the house, and all the care work will be handed over to me. I still remember that on the National Day last year, there were too many people in my family, and I had to cook for more than 10 people by myself, which was very tiring, but I still survived.
Lao Zhang's relatives were very enthusiastic, calling "sister-in-law" one by one. This gave me the illusion that they had a crush on me and accepted me. It's such an idea that made me follow Lao Zhang without any hesitation, and then there was such a thing.
Originally, I wanted to spend the New Year with me, but I didn't want to be with them, so I spent the New Year with Lao Zhang. During the Chinese New Year, relatives and friends in the neighborhood came. I became a waiter again, but this time, I didn't cook it myself, but Lao Zhang took us to a restaurant, and it turned out well. In the evening, I sent the drunken old Zhang home, cleaned up a little and fell asleep.
On the second day, Lao Zhang got up very early, got up early, and then went out to make New Year's arrangements for his relatives and friends. It seems that he did not intend to take me away. I felt something was wrong, so I asked, "Who do you want to meet?""Later, I learned that these people were from the neighbors, and their children had come to our house several times, so we knew each other well.
At that time, I had a mess in my head, so I followed Lao Zhang over. The reason is very simple, they used to come to my house as guests, but I haven't come to the door yet, and everyone knows each other and meets them, so I don't feel embarrassed. Lao Zhang reluctantly agreed, saying that I would bring trouble to the family in the past, and I didn't say anything, just hurriedly cleaned up and spent the Spring Festival with him.
I feel that we are all a family, and I will do whatever he does, and I must be by his side. Let him go on his own while I am alone at home waiting for him, so what's the point?Besides, I am a person who loves to be lively, I have lived in his house for so long, and there is no one around, so I will take this party today to get to know some people.
Lao Zhang sent me to his hometown first, he was an old man in his eighties, and his home was very lively. Lao Zhang carried a large bag of gifts, and we knocked on the door, walked in, and celebrated the New Year with everyone. At the time, I really didn't expect so many people to be here, and I didn't know who they were. Lao Zhang greeted his relatives cordially and chatted, while I was nervous on the side.
The people next to me asked me about my identity, and Lao Zhang was very bold and regarded me as his wife. At that moment, I noticed that the people around me were a little embarrassed, maybe I was too careful. Anyway, at his uncle's house, they just came in to say hello, and the rest of the time they ignored me.
I was alone in the corner, concentrating on **, and there was an eerie atmosphere in the air. They were talking next to me, and I sat silently alone, suddenly thinking of my parents who had not been home for many years, and that family affection had long been weakened.
We stayed here all morning, so we made an appointment to have lunch, and of course I followed. Among them was Lao Zhang, and some other friends who often came to my house, but unfortunately, they were all around the same table, and it was only me and a group of women around the table, which made it even more awkward.
The people at this table were chatting, and I was sitting there eating like a shy little girl. At that time, I was really sorry that I wanted to communicate with the people around me, but I felt like an outsider and didn't know how to speak. I really regret why I came here.
After eating and drinking, everyone was able to leave. Before we set off, Lao Zhang exchanged a few polite words with them. When I left, I felt refreshed and thought it was time to go back. As a result, she was told that she was going to spend the night at another uncle's house. I wanted to go home, but Lao Zhang asked casually, "Do you still want to go?"”
His question stirred up my rebellion, and I was determined to go. I resolutely refused to go back, thinking to myself that even if I didn't have dinner with Lao Zhang, I could at least sleep with him for one night. Lao Zhang didn't refuse, because he thought that there were not many people in the uncle's family, even if it was, it wouldn't be a big deal.
However, as soon as we arrived, we saw that the uncle's house was full of people and crowded with people. As for Lao Zhang, he himself doesn't know very well. So, I just walked in and greeted a group of people I didn't know, as if I had arrived at his uncle's house, and I was asked about my identity, and then I was embarrassed.
What embarrassed him even more was that there were so many people in the family that there was no place at all, and all the sofas were already occupied. They had no choice but to bring some benches, and we sat down there and talked to them. Dinner was also held there, but I was a little overwhelmed by the crowds.
It wasn't long before the lads took their leave, and there was finally a little room in the house. However, there are so many people in a three-bedroom apartment, where is there a place to sleep?Or making the bed in the living room or something, I was a little worried at first, but after a while, I didn't have to worry so much.
I was concentrating on **, when suddenly an uncle I didn't know came up. His gray beard made him look like Lao Zhang, who was about the same age. He ran straight up to me and kept asking me questions about when I met and how many years they had been married.
Suddenly, he glared, grinned, and said, "Lao Zhang said that there is no place here, let you go first." As soon as I heard this, I wondered in my heart, did this come out of Lao Zhang's mouth?I immediately looked at Lao Zhang's location, and saw that he was chatting with friends and relatives and didn't pay attention to me.
It seemed that he felt a little embarrassed, and when the middle-aged man saw that I hadn't left yet, he yelled at Lao Zhang: "Lao Zhang, your wife is coming back, you can help me call a taxi and bring her back." As soon as the words fell, Lao Zhang hurried up, and said to me as he ran: "I said not to let you in, now it seems that you really want to come back." ”
I walked out of the house in a daze, and Lao Zhang scolded me and asked me to take a taxi. This baffled me as he asked me to come back, but he put the blame on me. Lao Zhang also sensed that something was wrong, and hurriedly said: "You didn't let me go back at all, I understand now, it must be the ghost of that uncle." ”
He deliberately said that Lao Zhang wanted to send me away, but in fact, he didn't want me to stay any longer, so Lao Zhang and I had a misunderstanding. I was so angry that I stamped my foot and flicked my sleeves to rush up and question the old man. Lao Zhang hurriedly stopped me: "He asked me to come back, so don't make trouble." "Lao Zhang told me that this is his brother, and I can't get along with him. He patiently coaxed me and told me not to worry too much.
With mixed feelings, I boarded the taxi and headed home. What's going on?Why can't I go over to pay New Year's greetings, should I be treated like this because I am married to Lao Zhang for the second time?I felt very wronged, so I gave my child a ** and cried about what happened to me. Seeing my son turn over another 500 yuan red envelope, my mood finally improved a lot. However, I will take this experience to heart.
Maybe I'm wrong, how can a second-married wife be so valued?But I figured it out, from now on, Lao Zhang will be in charge of me, and when a few of his relatives come over, I won't be so entertained. I also want to save face, how can I let others take care of it?