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My name is Li Ping, I am 60 years old and I am a retired worker. I have a son, Bubu, who is 35 years old and has a family and has his own job and life. My ex-wife and I divorced Bubu when she was 10 years old, and then lived alone for many years. After getting married, I gave the old house under my name to my son Bubu, and moved in with Li Feng. The two of us have a pension together, and life is very nourishing. Li Feng has a cheerful and lively personality, and often takes me to the park to dance and sing in the piano room, and life is full of fun. I also often cook something delicious for her, and we have a very loving life. On such a day, one day, Li Feng suddenly felt unwell and dizzy while cooking. I rushed her to the hospital for examination, and the result of the examination was gallstones, and she needed immediate surgery to remove the stones. This is a blow to our retirement life, as the cost of surgery is very high and it costs us a lot of our savings. 
I thought we could sell the old house in my name and use the money for surgery. I have given the house to my son Bubu, but at the moment he is still living in an apartment, and the house is empty and unoccupied. I can negotiate with him that he will sell the house temporarily, and Li Feng and I will pay half of the cost of the operation. Who knew that Li Feng disagreed, she said: "That house is obviously yours, why do you want me to pay for it?"Can't you just come out with more?The value of the old house is so high, it is always enough to pay for the operation. I explained, "Fengfeng, I gave the house to my son, and he won't agree to sell it all." It is most reasonable for both of us to pay for it, and you have to be responsible for your own illness. Li Feng's face suddenly became ugly: "I married you back then, but I never thought that one day when I got sick, you would still hide it and not treat me!."We got married, and what is yours is mine, how did it become your son's?He hasn't paid for his retirement yet!”
Seeing that she was emotional, I was also very anxious, and my tone was a little heavier: "Fengfeng, calm down." We are indeed a family after we got married, but this matter has to be reasonable. You also know that young people are selfish now, Bubu is still young, my house is left for him to retire for, you can't help but leave him a way back. "Heh, your son, you can retire by yourself!Anyway, it's your responsibility to get sick right now!Li Feng said with a stiff neck. I saw her attitude, and I was also angry: "Li Feng, you are too unreasonable." I'm also thinking about my family, how can you only think about yourself?Take 10,000 steps back and say, even if I sell the house, I can afford half of it. You have to pay for it yourself, and we'll share it. "I don't!All day long, son and son, I am your legal wife!If you don't want to fix it, we'll get divorced!Li Feng said angrily. 
Li Feng was silent, his face still ugly. I continued to persuade her: "Fengfeng, calm down, let's discuss this issue properly." I can propose to my son to sell only part of the house, so that he will not only have the foundation for his retirement, but we will also have the money to have surgery. I can cover 70% of the medical bills, you can contribute 30% of your savings, and we can borrow some money from relatives, we can always make up enough. Li Feng didn't speak, and angrily walked to the balcony to smoke. I asked her to be alone and go to the kitchen to start cooking dinner. When I was cooking, I was worried about Li Feng's illness and sad for her vexatious attitude. I've been married for a few years, and I've always been very good to her, but I didn't expect that when she was sick, all she thought about was money, and she didn't care about my feelings at all. While thinking wildly, Li Feng suddenly walked in from the balcony, his face was full of tears, and his tone softened: "Lao Li, I'm sorry, it's me who is not good, I lost control of my emotions just now." Let's stop arguing, you're right, we should negotiate the best of both worlds. ”
I put the dishes on the plate, walked over and hugged her, and whispered, "Fengfeng, don't cry, I understand you, as long as you figure it out." I was also wrong, I shouldn't have just mentioned divorce, we will get through this. "At dinner, we calmly discussed the cost of the operation. Li Feng said that she could use some of her savings first, and after I discussed with my son to sell half of the house, we would each contribute a corresponding share. I'm glad she understands my struggles. In this way, Li Feng quickly underwent surgery, and everything went well. I took her home and took care of her, and finally waited for her to be basically in good health. During this time, I often thought that disputes start when we both stubbornly stand on our own grounds. In fact, as family members, we should think about problems from the other person's point of view, and be more considerate and supportive, so as to tide over all kinds of difficulties. Just when I was blaming myself, Li Feng was also reflecting: "Lao Li, I've embarrassed you." I shouldn't just think about myself, you've always been kind to me, and I should be grateful. If we encounter any problems in the future, we will sit down and talk about it, and we can't quarrel. I nodded, my heart softened. 
After a period of time, Li Feng was successfully discharged from the hospital, and I continued to take care of her diet and daily life at home. It cost a lot of money, but I was glad to see her get back to health. We decided to make ends meet, and I would continue to work for a few more years, and the medical bills would be like my usual savings. When I think about that dispute now, I'm glad it made our relationship stronger. We learn to understand and tolerate each other's needs. In this later life, you are the happiest to be with you. In this way, as the days passed, Li Feng's life and I gradually returned to the right track. Li Feng's body is getting better and better, and his personality has become more and more gentle, and he will often say soft things to me, and he will be more filial and intimate to me. I'm also reflecting on myself. After all, when people reach old age, Li Feng and I are in a state of blindness. I shouldn't have brought up divorce easily because of her momentary willfulness, how much damage it would be to a woman in her twilight years. I have to learn to be more tolerant and understanding of Li Feng, although she is 10 years younger than me, she is also an old lady after all. 
The children have also started a family, and the love of children cannot be forced. Li Feng and I depend on each other for our lives, and we are the real confidants. I can't owe my wife because of my son, and I have to think about this relationship at all times. At noon that day, I specially made a few dishes that Li Feng loved to eat, and also prepared chrysanthemum tea and fruits. When she got up to eat, I smiled and said to her, "Fengfeng, let's eat, I have made what you like to eat, let's make up for our bodies." Li Feng sat down happily and said while eating: "Oh, Lao Li, you are too good to me, I am so ignorant, I quarreled with you before, don't hold a grudge anymore." Let's live a good life, and I will be more filial to you. I held Li Feng's hand and said, "Fengfeng, I just want us to take care of our bodies as soon as possible and live a happy life in our old age." We are an old couple, there are still many places we haven't go, and there are many things we haven't done, so let's work together. ”
Uh-huh!Li Feng said happily. After lunch, Li Feng had to wash the dishes and brush the pot. I saw that she was still weak, and I was busy trying to help. She insisted on doing it herself, saying that it was compensation for neglecting me before. I reluctantly asked her to do it, but I still helped wipe the table and wipe the floor on the side, for fear that she would be too reluctant. After finishing the housework, Li Feng said that he would call his children to report their safety. I said that I also had something to discuss with them, so I dialed the children together*** Bubu and his daughter Xiaofang were very concerned about Li Feng's body, and chatted for a long time. Li Feng was very happy. After hanging up**, Li Feng said to me: "Hey, the children now have their own families and careers, and we two old ones have to rely on ourselves." Lao Li, we want to spend our old age together, and I will cherish you more. ”
I was also very touched and deeply realized the meaning of supporting each other with my wife. I held Li Feng's hand and said, "Fengfeng, the new year is coming, let's go for a physical examination together, and then plan the next life, I will always be with you." "I spent the Spring Festival with Li Fenghong, and it was the Qingming season again. I proposed to go to visit my parents' graves, and Li Feng readily agreed. On the day of Qingming, the two of us got up early, prepared offerings and tools, and took the bus together to the ancestral grave in our hometown. Li Feng held a cloth bag in his hand, hooked shoulders with me along the way, talking and singing, very happy.