It was an autumn evening, and the afterglow of the setting sun shone through the curtains on the floor of the living room. In this moment of silence, a woman named Zhang Yu sat on the sofa, staring at the empty room, her heart fluctuating.
Chapter 1: The Moment of Awakening.
Zhang Yu, 32 years old, is a working woman with a successful career, and her past married life has been her support and harbor. However, the trick of fate caused her to lose her husband in an accident. In the shadow of grief, she felt as if she was shrouded in a thick fog and could not find her way forward.
Chapter 2: Lost Minds.
As time passed, Zhang Yu felt the pressure from relatives and friends, who whispered things like "it's time to remarry" in her ears. Gradually, she was drowned out by the sound of urging her to marry, and began to rush to find the next one to rely on, so she hurriedly married a man who seemed to be reliable.
Chapter 3: The Fog of Marriage.
Newly married Yan'er, Zhang Yu thought she had found the other side of happiness. However, everything has changed. Life after marriage is full of quarrels and misunderstandings, and the originally good expectations become slim. In a heated argument, they decide to separate, and their marriage is on the verge of breaking down.
Chapter 4: Humble Flattery.
After separation, Zhang Yu fell into hesitation and panic. In order to save this relationship, she blindly bowed her head and admitted her mistakes, humbly ingratiating herself with the other party, and trying to move the other party with her own efforts. However, she gradually realized that such an approach was only fueling the other party's power and making the other party more disdainful of her.
Chapter 5: Realizing the Truth.
In the loneliness of the middle of the night, Zhang Yu began to reflect on his marriage. She realized the truth of marriage and understood that blindly admitting mistakes and currying favor would not solve the problem. She realized that marriage was an equal relationship, not a master-servant relationship. She decides to get rid of her humble role and pursue true happiness.
Chapter 6: Five Considerations.
In this process, Zhang Yu realized five key precautions in marriage:
01 Don't be humble and flattering: Zhang Yu understands that humble flattery will only make the other party look down on her more, so she began to emphasize equal communication and respect for each other.
02 Don't complain and blame: Zhang Yu learned to avoid blindly complaining and blaming, but to face problems rationally and solve the troubles in marriage with the other party.
03 Don't make casual promises: Zhang Yu recognizes that casual promises are just false comfort, and she decides to show her change through practical actions.
04 Don't damage the other party's reputation: Zhang Yu understands that it is not worth the loss to save the marriage by damaging the other party's reputation, and she focuses on maintaining the image of both parties in order to build more trust.
05 Don't ask for helpers: Zhang Yu understands that marital issues are a matter between husband and wife, and she avoids involving other people too much to prevent more confusion.
Chapter 7: A New Beginning.
After hard work, Zhang Yu and her husband re-established trust, and they began to welcome a new beginning in their marriage. This is a story about the breakdown of marriage and the rebuilding of reason, which makes people think deeply about the true meaning of love and marriage. Zhang Yu's experience enlightens us that love needs reason, and marriage needs equality and respect.