Don't waste your tongue on someone who doesn't deserve it
Some people will inevitably encounter accusations and misunderstandings from others, but they don't have to argue and talk back immediately, which will only deepen the conflict and affect their inner peace.
Blindly arguing is easy to expose one's weaknesses and be attacked, rather than justifying oneself with practical actions.
Win without fighting. As long as you stand on a higher vantage point to defend yourself and wait for others to experience and know the truth, this kind of effort is profound and fruitful.
Instead of wasting time arguing about whether someone else is wrong, you should cultivate yourself well to show yourself.
There are always differences between people, and it is easy to cause discord, but there is no need to lose one's concentration for one or two people who have different views.
Worthy people don't have to talk too much, instead of wasting energy on educating others, it is better to focus on their own inner cultivation.
Some people are destined to fail to reach a consensus, and even take advantage of endless arguments to deliberately make enemies.
Does this kind of person deserve our attention?
Of course, time should not be wasted arguing with them about justice, and there is an option to skim gracefully.
It is impossible for everything to go smoothly in life, and to replace arguments with silence about people or things you don't like.
There are some things that make us unhappy, but we don't have to be critical of them, and we don't have to argue with others.
Staying silent will avoid a lot of unnecessary complications.
And silence often contains a high level of wisdom, so that the opponent cannot take any advantage from us.
It is normal for people to always want to blame each other in the face of other people's mistakes or misleading in order to show their own legitimacy.
But you don't have to put yourself in an unhappiness or crisis because of someone else's mistakes, you don't have to "punish" yourself.
Everyone has mistakes, treat others with tolerance and tolerance, and also leave yourself the opportunity to listen and be considerate of others.
Discord is not the same as submission or servitude, but rather a nobler stance towards others with kindness.
Sometimes the wiser choice is not to argue, but to stay away from people and things that drain our positive energy.
A mature and rational person should choose when to argue and when to avoid arguments in order to maintain peace of mind.
For those who are overly emotional or have negative and paranoid positions, we don't have to engage in any energy-hungry arguments and clarifications.
It is a wise decision to stay away from them and avoid being spilled over by the negative emotions of others.
As one grows older, a mature person no longer fuss about other people's judgments and misunderstandings, nor does he seek the approval of the whole world.
Truly mature people no longer need to fulfill their sense of existence by arguing and attacking.
He is self-satisfied in his heart, and no longer has troubles caused by his own opinions colliding with others.
On the contrary, he treats the differences of the world and the differences of the world with tolerance and generosity.
What is very commendable is not the victory of the debate, nor the surging sense of justice, but the ability to maintain the sea needle in the heart under any circumstances.
Many people who quarrel are often like this because they are not yet mature.
A truly mature and wise person has been able to maintain tranquility in the midst of all kinds of external provocations, not to fight with others, and not to be annoyed and angry because of other people's misunderstandings.
This is the manifestation of true maturity - mastering the realm of not arguing, ignoring and not being angry.
There is no need to show disgust or hatred towards people who are not interested, as long as you treat them with reasonable indifference.
When we meet people who hate or hate us, we don't have to change because of that.
Smiling and ignoring is more mature than showing dissatisfaction with a look or words.
Treat others with a peaceful attitude, this is the realm advocated by "winning without fighting".
Inner tranquility can cope with all external waves, and there is no need to deliberately "turn your face".