My name is Wang Fengying, I am 28 years old, and my husband and I met when we were working in other places. His family conditions were not good, his father died when he was 16 years old, but he was a very responsible and kind person, which made me deeply attracted to him.
Although his body is thin and small, only more than 90 pounds, I saw his tenacity and perseverance, which made me feel distressed and admired. His old house has collapsed due to disrepair, and he can only live with his uncle.
If I marry him, we won't have a place to live. It struck me as both realistic and brutal. My father saw that I was so determined, and in desperation, he put forward two conditions.
One is that I have to be a son-in-law, and the other is that our children have to have my family name. I know it's a difficult decision, but I'm willing to make sacrifices for love and family.
I comforted my husband and said that as long as the child was his, it didn't matter whose surname it was. The most important thing is that we are always together. My husband held my hand and said everything is up to me.
He told me not to be afraid of anything as long as I was there. That's how we got together, no lavish weddings, no three golds. It's just that my dad invited some relatives and friends to come over for dinner, even if he got married.
A year after we got married, we had a lovely son. Although the child has my surname, my husband doesn't care, he says that as long as he can be with me, he will be satisfied. My father is a very strong man, although my husband came into my house, he looked down on him from the bottom of his heart, and even often gave him a look.
After dinner that day, my dad sat on the side smoking a cigarette, and I was about to clean up the dishes and chopsticks, while my husband sat on the sofa and coaxed the children. Unexpectedly, my dad banged the table in front of my husband.
My husband seemed to put the child in the stroller as if by inertia, and then quickly came over to clean up the dishes and chopsticks, saying that I would take the child and he would clean up the ...... himselfOnly the husband hurriedly put away the leftovers on the table, and then was busy in the kitchen.
Unexpectedly, my father accused me again, and said to my husband in an educational tone, "You should wipe the floor and table cleaner first!."I'm sitting here looking uncomfortable!
I wanted to refute it, but I remembered that my father was the head of the family, so I didn't want to make him angry, so I couldn't help but say nothing.
I walked into the kitchen with the child in my arms and accompanied my husband to wash the dishes while coaxing the child. Seeing my husband's smile, I was instantly relieved. What I want to tell my husband is that I don't want him to suffer any grievances, and to tell him that I will always be on his side.
But on my father's 70th birthday, I did something that made my relatives and friends stunned. That day, my husband and I went to the market early to buy vegetables, and it took a day to make two large tables of good food.
In the evening, relatives came one after another, and everyone toasted each other and sent blessings to my father. But in the process of eating, I realized that I couldn't find my husband. Thinking about eating, he can go to **?
As a result, I searched all over the room, upstairs and downstairs, and at the door, but I didn't see my husband's shadow. Unexpectedly, when I opened the kitchen door, I found my husband sitting alone next to the stove, eating alone.
I couldn't help crying at that moment and asked my husband what he was doingHow do you hide in the kitchen alone to eat?As a result, my husband smiled and said, "Oh, there are not enough stools, it's okay, I'll just eat here alone."
In the face of my husband's humility, I am angry and annoyed!I told him that today was my father's birthday, and if he, as the only son-in-law in the family, didn't show up, how would people feel?
As a result, my husband said that he couldn't drink and couldn't chat!I said who said you have to drink and chat before you can eat at the table. Today, I'm going to let him go out to dinner. So I pulled my husband into the living room, and my relatives and friends laughed and said, "Oh, a big man is still shy!."
and not the bridegroom. At this time, my dad quickly put down the wine glass, glanced at my husband in disappointment, and then said lightly, shrinking his head and shrinking his head to shame!
In my anger, I slammed the bowl in front of me to the ground, and said to my father with tears streaming down my face: "Dad, did you ask Xiaojun to go to the kitchen to eat?".Do you think he's embarrassed by his door-to-door son-in-law?
This is already the second time!Today I solemnly tell you that Xiaojun is my husband, my lover, and the father of my children. I will not allow anyone to insult his human dignity, including you.
If you don't respect him, it means that you don't respect my daughter, and I can only take Xiaojun and the child out to fend for myself. Relatives and friends came to comfort me and told me that my father should respect my choice.
If you are destined to be a family, you should respect and understand each other. If you think of your son-in-law as a son, your son-in-law will also think of you as a father in the future. The relationship between people is mutual, and I hope he can understand this truth.
Seeing that all my relatives and friends were helping me to talk to my husband, I held my husband's hand tightly and told him to keep his head up confidently. In this home, I wouldn't let anyone bully him.
After this incident, my father's attitude changed, perhaps because I was his only daughter, and he was afraid that I would be angry and ignore him. He even said that the head of the house should be handed over to us.
I told my husband that as a man, he should shoulder the burden of the family and that the position of head of the family should be given to him. Unexpectedly, when my husband saw my father holding him in such high esteem, his eyes turned red with excitement in an instant.
He told me that he would be the head of the family, and with my father's support and my encouragement, he became very confident as a different person. Later, my husband and I contracted a few acres of land and started growing beans, peanuts and sugar oranges.
Although it was very hard, in just a few years, we finally repaired the house and had a little savings. What I didn't expect was that because of the land expropriation, we received 800,000 yuan in compensation.
My husband and I were so happy that we didn't expect luck to come to us as well. So, I encouraged my husband to get his driver's license and promised him to buy a car.
Now, our family has a house and a car, and no one looks down on us anymore. And my father began to look at my husband with admiration. My husband told me that the person he wanted to thank the most was me, and it was I who never gave up and silently encouraged him, so that he became confident and moved forward.
I told my husband that we were a family and that I would be on his side at all times. I hope he will always be confident in the future, and I believe that we will be happier and happier.
Therefore, a happy life is created by diligent hands, and at the same time, people must have self-confidence, believing that as long as they are not defeated by life, they will one day create a world of their own.