My mother is capable and capable, but she is sick, and my father doesn't care about anything, and he can eat and drink when he is old
The ancients said: "Those who are capable work hard, and those who have the ability will be blessed;."The slothful are sickly, but the lazy will suffer. In my family, this old adage is perfectly interpreted in my mother. My mother is a strong woman who is capable and capable, and she is the helmsman of the family, whether it is housework or field work, she can stand alone.
My mother is not only proficient in household chores, but also good at dealing with interpersonal relationships, and gets along with her neighbors in the village. She not only got along well with her uncle's family and uncle's family, but also solved the problem of her grandparents' pension. At home, I follow my mother's advice when making major decisions. Don't look at her as a woman, but when it comes to handling affairs, she is better than any man. As the saying goes, "women don't let their eyebrows go", my mother is exemplary.
In the average family, men are considered the breadwinners, but in our family, the opposite is true. My mom was the one who held up the sky and stood up to the sky, and my dad didn't do anything. Let him do the housework, a big man scratches his ears and cheeks;Let him work in the fields, drink tea for a while, go to the toilet for a while, and rest for a while. Others have already harvested the wheat harvest, and he is still nagging there.
When I was younger, my dad played cards and said he was going to the bathroom, but he often disappeared. In my mother's words, "I can't count on your dad, I can only rely on myself." So, my mother took on the burden of housework and farming: laundry, cooking, cleaning, fields, weeding, pruning, sowing, everything she did. When the villagers mentioned my mother, they all gave her a thumbs up and praised her skills.
As my younger siblings and I grew older, so did our needs. My mother found it difficult to support her family on farm income alone, so she tried her hand at business, selling eggs and vegetables. She Xi went around learning business skills from her neighbors, but neither the residents of Shiliba Village nor anyone else who studied Xi could not surpass my mother's business achievements. This is because my mom is a good communicator and is loved by shoppers. She never cares about even the occasional loss, so her business is doing very well.
In stark contrast, my dad was lazy. He always went to play cards when he had eaten and drunk, and was indifferent to the growth of me and my younger siblings. Luckily, my mom got my grandma to take care of us.
As time went on, my younger siblings and I grew up, and my mom and dad decided to go to the city to work. My mother became a sanitation worker, and after several years of hard work, she even became a team leader, managing several people. Her ability is highly regarded by her leaders because of her excellent ability to deal with problems and she has never caused trouble to her leaders during her work. Therefore, when my mother proposed to resign, the leader specially retained me.
In the past few years that my mother has worked, she has not only supported her family, but also saved more than 100,000 yuan. In contrast, my dad spent all the money he earned while collecting scrap. My dad didn't give the money to my mom, and my mom didn't force it because she knew my dad as a person.
Now, my mom and dad are in their twilight years, approaching their sixties. My mom just came back from town last year. However, as she grew older, her physical condition gradually declined, and she often felt backache and needed to rely on medication to relieve it. My dad, on the other hand, was relaxed and leisurely when he was young, but his body was still strong, he could eat and drink, and he slept soundly.
Observing the experience of my mother and my father for half a lifetime, I can't help but think: Will people who are really capable and capable be happy?My mother, capable and talented, suffered from physical ailmentsMy dad, on the other hand, lived a laid-back life but was in good health. This makes people wonder, what exactly is happiness?