The poorer the parents, the more they want their children to work in three types of work, reflecting the law of the poor
The cost of education has always been a major burden for every family, and in order to ensure that their children receive a good education, parents spare no effort to ensure that they have access to the best quality education resources to create better development opportunities for the future.
For students, knowledge is the most effective way to change their lives, especially for students from poor families, who thrive under the care of their parents every day.
Only by achieving excellent results in the college entrance examination can we get out of the predicament and move towards a brighter future. However, the major a student chooses is closely related to their future career prospects.
The major chosen during college is directly related to the student's future career development. The survey found that parents from poor families are more likely to have their children work in specific fields, highlighting the existence of the "law of the poor".
The book Rich Dad, Poor Dad" compares the education of poor and wealthy families, revealing the educational differences between the two.
Although we often say that "the poor come out of a noble family", the reality is that wealthy families are more advantageous, and can provide the best educational resources and material conditions for their children, so that students have no worries about their studies.
In contrast, poor families have two shortcomings in education: one is the lack of educational concepts, and the other is the lack of material conditions. Due to the influence of the previous generation, coupled with the narrow vision of poor parents, they are relatively inexperienced in educating their children, which restricts the vision and concept of the next generation.
In the concept of poor families, only a certain type of work can change the fate of students, showing the reality of the "law of the poor".
Preferred Occupation: Career Editor.
Career editing has always been the most optimistic employment direction for parents, not only poor families, but also wealthy families are eager for their children to enter jobs in this system.
The traditional category of "career editors" includes doctors and teachers, both of which are public welfare professions and enjoy high reputations and are highly respected in society.
Parents are very supportive of their children's choice of this career path, as it means that their children will not only have no worries about their future in the future, but will not be at risk of losing their jobs.
However, for poor families, career editing is not the best choice, because the salary level of this type of occupation is relatively low, and despite the good welfare package, the salary is not enough to support the whole family.
Alternative Occupation: Civil Servant.
Public *** has always been a high-profile hit, and it is the object of all kinds of students competing to apply for the exam. As long as the student is selected, there is no need to worry too much about the future.
Alternate Occupation: Military.
Defending the country is a noble cause. In the college entrance examination stage, being admitted to a military school means that you do not have to pay tuition fees for four years of college, which will greatly reduce the financial burden on the family. After graduation, they can also get job assignments, and for students from poor families, choosing a military school is undoubtedly the best path. However, it is important to note that post-graduation work options may be limited, often in remote areas and in a relatively difficult environment.
Depth**: Although the above three types of jobs are considered to be relatively stable, have a high social status, and are all positions within the system, in reality, not all jobs are suitable for students from poor families.
Doctor and teacher positions, for example, are both highly competitive and require students to obtain a higher degree of education. This means that students need to be enrolled in a graduate or doctoral degree in order to be recognized by the institution. Otherwise, it may end up being eliminated. In this process, parents need to bear a lot of education expenses, and poor families obviously find it difficult to bear this pressure.
For students from poor families, there are several issues that need to be considered in the employment process. First of all, it is not recommended to choose to work in big cities such as Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, although there are more employment opportunities in these places, the high rent and living costs are not practical for students from poor families.
Another important issue is long-term development. Compared with students from better families, students from poor families may need additional living allowance during the period of unemployment. Therefore, when choosing a job, you need to carefully consider whether the job prospects are stable or not. If the outlook is uncertain, it's best to think carefully before making a choice.
While the "law of the poor" may seem scary, both poor parents and students have a chance to break through. Parents should avoid imposing their own expectations on their children and instead encourage them to make choices based on their own interests and hobbies to achieve long-term developmental goals.
Coming from a poor background is not terrible, what is really terrible is the wrong way of education. Although it is not impossible to "come out of a poor family", as long as parents find the right way to educate, they can also cultivate students who are successful in their studies.
Discussion: Are you using the "law of the poor" to educate your children? If so, change the way you educate now.