Once the elderly in the city have passed the age of 60, they will have more leisure time because they no longer need to think too much about work. It is worth mentioning that due to the high pressure of work and life among young people, family members will also focus on children, and the elderly are often ignored by family members. As a result, when the elderly feel that they are not being taken seriously, they often go out to find someone to talk to and vent their emotions.
However, some people have reminded that when people are old, they will reveal these three things at home to others, which is either "stupid" or stupid.
In fact, people are like this, they have learned how to say beautiful for half their lives, but once they are 60 years old, they need to learn to "shut up" in the second half of their lives, and never mention what they should not say to others.
Chinese have always heard a familiar word called "sharing joy" since childhood. But in fact, everyone has a selfish side, and there are very few people in this world who really want you to live well, except for your parents and siblings.
If you pay attention to life, you will find that most of your friends don't want you to live better than him, which is due to human nature. Many friends, they may be happy for your happy event on the surface, but their hearts are full of jealousy and comparison.
In life, many old people often like to show off their children everywhere outside, such as buying a house in **, what car to drive, what business to do, etc., these things will actually only make people jealous, not get the sincere blessings of others, and even make people alienate you because of this, so it is best not to mention all kinds of "good things" at home.
There is an old saying in China that "good things don't go out, bad things spread thousands of miles". Many elderly people have no one to confide in because they have been wronged at home, so they want to sue others for their grievances, hoping to let others "comment on the reasoning" in order to prove their innocence.
But in fact, for this kind of family matter, others don't care if you're right or wrong, they just listen to it as a joke. Moreover, these bad things often become the talk of some elderly people after they are full of food and drink, and if they accidentally spread this matter to the ears of their families, it will also cause conflicts among family members, which is really unnecessary.
Money and wealth is a very sensitive topic. After retirement, many elderly people show off their pensions and savings outside to show their superiority, but they don't know that doing so is not only easy to make people jealous, but may also get into trouble.
Because now, whether in the park or in the shopping mall, there are always some people with ulterior motives who are staring at the pockets of the elderly, and they will try their best to sell health care products or sell some messy health food, and some will even deliberately recommend the elderly to buy high-risk financial products, which happen from time to time.
As an elderly person, if you want to avoid being deceived, don't easily disclose your wealth outside, so as not to be set a trap by criminals. There is such an elder who often says that he has money outside, and then he is deceived into buying health care products, which can only be said to be "deserving of being deceived". Therefore, it is very necessary to keep a low profile when the elderly are away.
All in all, no matter whether your family is good or bad, whether family members live in harmony or not, it is best not to talk about these topics with others, because there is no benefit, the good aspects do not need to be show-off, and the bad aspects should not be revealed to others. Most of the time, learning to shut up is actually the wisdom of the elderly.