Introduction:
During the recovery period after the birth of a child, many people will find a nanny to help look after the baby and the mother. However, not every babysitter can do the job well, and sometimes employers get stuck. By exploring the experience of a babysitter at home, this article hopes to arouse some ideas. During this process, we will discuss the work content of the confinement lady and related issues**.
I hired a nanny but didn't get the service I deserved.
It was from a moment when he was about to become a father, his wife was pregnant, and he promised to hire a nanny. Considering his wife's health condition, he specially hired a nanny to take care of the mother and child, so as to ensure the smooth progress of the entire delivery and also prevent postpartum discomfort. However, it backfired.
The soon-to-be father lives in a third-tier city, where the cost of hiring a nanny is 12,000 yuan for 26 days. In order to ensure reliability, he found a more reliable nanny from a friend and asked for fifteen thousand. However, the nanny did not fulfill her due responsibility, not only did she sleep all day, but she did not even have meals during confinement. This made him very disappointed and puzzled.
What should we do in the face of this situation?
First of all, you should communicate with the nanny so that she understands her responsibilities and expectations for her work. We were able to explain that the au pair was paid the appropriate amount of money and wanted to get the proper service. If the babysitter is unable to meet the requirements, they can negotiate with the babysitter to find a solution or consider changing the babysitter.
Second, you can also ask others for help, such as relatives and friends, or ask others to help with household chores. This method can ensure that both mother and baby can be properly cared for, and it can also prevent the nanny from bearing too much psychological burden and expectation.
First of all, we need to relax our minds and understand that pregnant women often have unreasonable requests and behaviors after childbirth due to emotional instability. As family members and spouses, we need to understand and support each other, listen patiently to their needs, and address them through communication.
Scope of Responsibilities and Questions Answered by Escorts.
A nanny is a professional who provides care and assistance to children after they are born. Their job is to take care of newborn babies, including feeding, changing diapers, bathing, and more. In addition, the confinement nanny will also prepare confinement meals for pregnant women according to the needs of pregnant women, and supplement meals and nutrients for pregnant women according to their physical conditions. In addition, the escort will also help the pregnant woman with basic household chores such as laundry and cleaning.
However, in practice, there are many unclear points and problems in the definition of the responsibilities of confinement nannies. For example, some babysitters will spend a lot of time resting and not spending as much time babysitting the mother and baby. Some nannies are not careless at work and do not prepare confinement meals according to the mother's needs and Xi. In response to the above problems, we can take the following measures:
1.Do a good job of communicating with the nanny: Before hiring a nanny, you should do a good job of communicating with the nanny to understand the nanny's responsibilities and expectations. We can tell the babysitter what we need, so that she understands and cooperates.
2.Supervise the performance of the nanny: We can conduct periodic evaluations of the nanny's work, such as: whether she wakes up on time, cooks, takes care of the baby, etc. If there are individual caregivers who are not doing well enough, they should be given advice and corrected to improve the quality of their work.
3.Resolve through negotiation: When you encounter a problem with your nanny, you should communicate effectively with her and find solutions together. We can understand her doubts and difficulties, understand her perspectives and needs, and find a general way to deal with the problem.
4.Hire another babysitter: If you still can't meet the requirements after repeated communication and adjustment, you can consider hiring another babysitter. When choosing a new nanny, you should pay attention to listening to the opinions and suggestions of others, and try to choose a confinement nanny with certain qualifications and high credibility.
The relationship between maternal health care and family.
In addition, when hiring a babysitter, it is also important to pay attention to the mother's physical condition and contact with the family. During childbirth, pregnant women are often in a state of physical and psychological fatigue, with large emotional fluctuations, and are more sensitive to things around them and the relationship between people. Therefore, we strive to create a warm family atmosphere and provide care and support to pregnant women.
First of all, we should spend more time with the pregnant woman and give her some encouragement and comfort emotionally. Talk to her, listen to her, understand her needs and concerns, and respond proactively to her needs and expectations.
In addition, you should be careful with your words and deeds so as not to cause discomfort and tension to pregnant women. We need to listen patiently to her views and respect her choices. If a pregnant woman has mental instability or other problems, she should communicate with her in a timely manner and provide assistance and support to a specialist such as a general practitioner or consultant.
Third, have a positive attitude and have good communication. The conflict between the mother and the nanny can affect the marriage of the couple to some extent. We should strive to communicate with the two sides of the strait, understand each other's needs and doubts, and find ways and means. Mutual respect and understanding are paramount in this process.
Conclusion: Hire a nanny to properly care for and assist the mother and baby. But not every babysitter can do this. As a host, it is necessary for us to have a clear understanding of the responsibilities and expectations of the nanny, and to have sufficient communication and consultation with her. In this process, attention should be paid to maternal and child health care and parent-child relationship, and appropriate care and support should be provided for them. In this process, we need to deal with problems with a positive attitude and create a warm atmosphere.