In the TV series "Do You Know", the heroine Minglan finally made up her mind to marry the seemingly rugged, but actually kind-hearted second uncle Gu Tingye. For this ending, the audience's reaction was ** double heaven. Some people cheered enthusiastically, thinking that this was the best place to be;Others look on coldly, believing that this is an infidelity to love.
Supporters believe that Gu Tingye is responsible, strategic, assertive, daring to act, dare to love and hate, and is a man who stands up to the sky and the earth, and is worthy of Minglan to entrust him for life.
Like a sudden storm, Gu Tingye's appearance broke Minglan 's originally peaceful life. This handsome but somewhat wild man stepped into Minglan heart step by step and became an indispensable part of her life. Like a wild lion, he used his enthusiasm and sincerity to conquer Minglan and let her find unprecedented happiness in the flames of love.
Opponents said that Gu Tingye is romantic, the children can play soy sauce, marrying Minglan just values her talent, and she can take care of her home for herself, guard the hospital, and relieve her worries, but she doesn't really like Minglan and feels worthless and sorry for Minglan . and thinks that the little grandfather is Minglan the best partner, after all, the little grandfather has a prominent background, and he has never had scandals, and he is even more affectionate to Minglan . Although the little grandfather was responsible for marrying the county lord and bearing Minglan, it was also forced by the situation, and he couldn't help himself, which is forgivable. So later, Qi Heng was named on the gold list and went to the Sheng family to propose marriage, and Minglan should have agreed.
If it is really as netizens wish, will Minglan be happy if she marries Qi Heng?
From an emotional point of view, the combination of Minglan and the little grandfather should be happy.
* In the concluding remarks, the author writes as follows: "This story begins with a Shengliu girl and ends with a Shengliu girl, and in the end they are all happy. All the emotional turmoil began in an afternoon when a young man surnamed Qi opened the curtain and ended with the death of a young man surnamed Qi, and no one knows whether he will be happy in the end. The author Guan Da thinks that the story officially began on the afternoon when the boy surnamed Qi appeared, which shows the author's attention and love for Qi Heng.
Because as soon as Qi Heng appeared, he showed his difference. In the feudal era when the concept of concubines was deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, he was indifferent to the concubines and favorite daughters of the Sheng family, but he treated Minglan differently and had a deep affection. This is not because he is hypocritical, he is just pursuing the person he likes, that's all, this is his concept of love, and his contempt for the concept of feudal heirs, but also what makes him different.
The two once dated in the backyard of the Gu family, and Qi Heng once said: "The eldest lady I want to marry is only you, Sheng Minglan, alone." This is his declaration of love and an affectionate confession to Minglan . Minglan responded to this: "If he doesn't live up to me, I will live up to him." It can be seen that the two are truly in love with each other, and they are in free love, which is especially valuable in feudal society. Even if Minglan later marries into the Gu family, she will still come to the Gu family's backyard and reminisce about the past, after all, the first love will always be unforgettable.
If Minglan chooses the little grandfather, she is married to love, and from this point of view, Minglan is happy.
From a practical point of view, Minglan and Qi Heng will definitely not be happy together.
The author Guan Da has a passage that is very classic: "Qi Heng's tragedy is eternal. "He was a sane man, clear-headed, knew what he wanted and what to do, but in the end he lost to reality. So should he regret that unattainable relationship, or should he be disgusted with his powerlessness back then, and hate the oppression brought to him by the environment in which he lived?
Just imagine what would happen if Minglan married him. Qi Heng's mother will stuff a concubine into his house, will he resolutely refuse?There is a high probability of compromise. Minglan made a big fuss for her grandmother at her mother's house, will he fully support her and support her like Gu Tingye?It should be said that the possibility is also very small. So in the face of the cruel reality, how long can the marriage of the two last?
In this controversial ending, we see the complexity of life and the many facets of humanity. The love between Minglan and Gu Tingye may be a portrayal of the real experience of many people in real life. People are always full of confusion and struggle when facing love and life choices, and this emotional entanglement is the real emotion that the TV series "Know" wants to convey.