When it comes to second-hand life, many people scoff at it.
It's unpleasant to buy second-hand goods, go someone else's way, and do what someone else says, because we prefer "new things".
Life is the same, when you are uncomfortable, it is easy to wipe the dust. The joy of yesterday will be repeated today.
When people reach middle age, life is no longer "easy", if you are still very generous, what is "new", then your expenses will increase, and the standard of living may not improve.
Learning to live a second-hand life seems to be very powerless, but in fact, it is to keep the money and the blessings of the rest of your life.
Make good use of second-hand platforms to revitalize the family economy.
Furniture, clothes, shoes, etc., when you buy them, you are interested and feel that you really need these things. After buying it, I realized that such a thing was not suitable for me.
But your shoes have been worn for a few days and cannot be returned, and your furniture has been sitting out for a month and cannot be thrown away.
When you can't accept something, you have to throw it away.
However, people who know how to live do not throw away the things in their hands at will, but sell them on second-hand platforms. Although they lost some money, it was much smaller than throwing away something.
There are also many middle-aged people who are accustomed to going to second-hand platforms to "shop" the things they need, spending the least amount of money and buying the things they need most. This is very necessary for people renting or settling in temporarily.
Someone said second-hand life: "It's a return from crazy consumption to rational consumption." ”
Smart people can buy cheap things, repair them, and then use the second-hand platform to become a stage for making money.
When people reach middle age, instead of worrying about life, it is better to live a good life, not to pay for face, and to lose real money**.
Learn second-hand crafts, youth is better than youth.
Chaplin, a famous actor, was dragged out into the street by his father as a child, observed other people's every move, and then went home, thought carefully, and formed his own acting style.
After Chaplin became famous, he came across a show that imitated him - a show that imitated Chaplin.
He quietly appeared on stage as a copycat, eventually finishing third.
From Chaplin's life story, we have discovered a truth: if you imitate others, you will also succeed.
What is even more remarkable is that those who imitated Chaplin were able to "win first place".
Imitation is an art that requires a lot of skill. When a person successfully imitates, he can smoothly launch his own original.
From a practical point of view, "originality" itself also has a lot of imitation elements.
If a person wants to be successful, he must be innovative in everything, which is too demanding of himself. You should have insight into the success of others, and then do something according to your actual situation, and the probability of success is large.
One of my cousins opened a rice noodle shop in a small town, and because of the good craftsmanship, the business is getting better and better.
A southern grocery store next door, because the business was not good, transformed it into rice noodle raw materials, and in my cousin's shop, I did a lot of wine tasting activities, accepted everyone's suggestions, and made the business hot.
The strong help each other, and the weak step on each other. We must seriously understand this truth.
Blind innovation, on the contrary, will be in trouble. A lot of investment, maybe it went down the drain. Not everyone can be the first to eat crabs.
Accept second-hand marriage and have a new life.
When it comes to second-hand marriage, many people are disgusted. In everyone's mind, sticking to one is the best arrangement.
However, if you look at the divorce rate in society, you will know how difficult it is for a marriage to last long.
During the Tang Su period, there was a woman named Chen Xingyuan in Handan, who was very sad when she saw the plum blossoms falling in front of her house. Later, his father, who was an official, sent a scholar Mei Liangyu.
After a while, Chen Xingyuan found that this scholar was very smart and wrote beautiful poems. So he asked the boy how this came about
It turned out that Mei Liangyu was a child of an official family, and due to the persecution of his parents, he had to go incognito and become a scholar.
When Chen Xingyuan slowly fell in love with Mei Liangyu, the situation was turbulent, the north went south, and Tang Suzong decided to go north to sue for peace. Chen Xingyuan was chosen.
Chen Xingyuan walked north, passed by a cliff, and jumped decisively.
Luckily, she was rescued from the fork of the tree.
This incident also touched heaven and earth, and when Chen Xingyuan went home, the plum blossoms at the door bloomed again and he married Mei Liangyu.
This is the allusion to "two plum blossoms".
According to a social survey, 55% of women say they are willing to fall in love or marry a divorced man.
When people reach middle age, instead of being entangled in a certain relationship, it is better to accept remarriage, divorce, and remarriage.
We can also think of it this way: "People who have been hurt by others need true love to comfort them and cherish life more." ”
The flowers are similar every year, but the people are different every year. As time goes by, people will grow old and encounter countless springs, and they don't have to trap themselves in a certain spring.
When we get older, we will find that a family with children is not as good as a half couple.