Mr. Yang Jiang said: "Life is your own, don't embarrass yourself, what kind of ability you have, what kind of life you have." "Do your best, do your best, be a warm person with your own preferences, your own principles, and your own beliefs. With a natural attitude, live a life that is at ease with what happens. For the rest of my life, stand at my own height and see the scenery as I should. ”
In this life, it is just a feeling. It is a day to have money, it is a day to have no money, success is a day, and failure is a day. As long as you adjust your mentality, be happy, and live in style, there is nothing you can't let go, and nothing you can't solve.
Don't be too yourself, and don't be too the world. Life is accidental, death is inevitable, of course, let it be.
* The TV station once aired a skit about borrowing money.
The protagonist played by Pan Changjiang is a fair and kind person. He is always there when others are in trouble. He was generous when people asked him for money.
For this reason, his wife quarreled with him many times, but Pan Changjiang still went his own way. The wife said angrily: Your friends can't count on any of them, I don't believe you still borrow money to try.
Pan Changjiang hit ** in turn and borrowed money from his best friend, but was not only rejected, but also uttered sarcasm and blame, which embarrassed him.
As the saying goes, if you want to break up, borrowing money once is enough.
In the world, asking for people is like swallowing a three-foot sword, and borrowing money is like climbing for nine days. If you put your hopes in others, you will only get disappointment and regret.
Not counting on others and relying on oneself in everything is the greatest sobriety of mankind.
I've seen such a TikTok**:
A middle-aged woman and her husband are shopping. She worries about buying toys for her children, gifts for her husband, and finally wants to buy something for herself.
She saw a dress she liked, asked the salesman **, the salesman quoted 2000 yuan **, the middle-aged woman hesitated, she really liked the dress, and she was reluctant to spend so much money, she looked at her husband.
The husband said that you already have several clothes, you don't need to buy any more, so you will take him home.
Sometimes, we are so busy worrying about others that we forget to take care of ourselves.
In life, there are plants and trees. Time will not forgive us. When we say old, we are old. If you can't love yourself, who would?If you're not willing to please yourself, who's going to please you?
Be kind to yourself, put your worries aside, and live each day happily is what this world deserves.
The root cause of suffering in life is because we have too many desires and too little ability.
The monthly salary is 3000, but he envy other people's luxury cars and villas, and luxury food. He was born in an ordinary family, with no one to rely on, but he longed for a prosperous career and stepped towards the sky.
Ability does not match ambition, talent does not keep up with desire, and we are always tossing and turning in a huge chasm, and we are miserable.
As big as the bowl is, so big is the appetite. What kind of ability you have, what kind of life you have.
Yan Hui, a student of Confucius, lived in a narrow alley, eating vegetables and drinking cold water every day, and was equally happy.
Even if you have no money, no power, no status, and are as ordinary as ants, as long as you adjust your mentality, you can still live a comfortable and leisurely life in the deepest red dust fireworks.