Venerable Hongyi said, "Blessed people will surely feel the pain of suffering. Most people lose half of their lives after experiencing an emotional catastrophe, but it is this emotional catastrophe that allows you to complete salvation and nirvana, allows you to learn to let go, learns to understand human nature, makes you stronger, learns to be kind to yourself, allows yourself to let go, no longer consumes yourself, and makes you a better version of yourself. ”
Feelings are the topic of life, whether you are rich or poor, handsome or ugly, as long as you are a person, you have your own feelings, I am eager to have a connection with the person I like, and accompany each other.
However, the truly blessed are often not smooth sailing and will experience painful and tragic situations.
The Tibetan living Buddha Cangyang Gyatso is a world-famous monk. However, when he was younger, he had a love that was hard to give up.
Because he is a reincarnated spirit child, from the moment he is born, he is destined to put on the mantle of the Buddha and Bodhisattva. Live in the temple, concentrate on cultivation, and don't get involved in the love of the world.
When Cangyang Gyatso was 20 years old, he was the age of youth and vitality. On the streets of Lhasa, he fell in love with a girl named Dolma, after a thousand years.
Religion forbids living Buddhas to fall in love. Cangyang Gyatso was distressed, sad, and at a loss. He once wrote such a poem:
Once you practice for the sentimental Brahma, you will enter the mountain and fear that you will not fall into the city. ”
The world is peaceful and perfect, and it is irresponsible to do so. ”
How I wish I could have both law and beauty, but it's impossible. He didn't have a choice, because he was a living Buddha, and he had and could only choose the Dharma.
This emotional catastrophe is an unforgettable pain for Cangyang Gyatso. He often sat in the prayer hall of the Potala Palace, repeatedly understanding a word of love.
In the end, he completely gave up the love between men and women, and used Mahayana Buddhism to spread sentient beings and help the world with compassion.
Only people who have experienced love can truly understand feelings and understand the meaning of a person to themselves.
In the TV series "The Condor Heroes", Yang Guo and Xiaolongnu fell in love, but due to various prejudices in secular society, Xiaolongnu held a grudge and did not dare to face Yang Guo's feelings.
One night, the little dragon girl suddenly left. Because of the toxin in his body, he fainted beside Aigu, and happened to be rescued by the Lord of Aigu.
Because of the soft and hard salvation of Master Gongsun Gu, Xiaolongnu agreed to marry him. Fortunately, Yang Guo also came here by chance and avoided this misfortune.
But under the stimulation of Huang Rong, the dragon girl left Yang Guo again, and this time it was 16 years, there was no news, and life and death were undecided. During this period, Yang Guo had the expectation and belief of seeing the Dragon Girl again, mustered up courage, precipitated himself, strengthened himself, and finally learned peerless martial arts and became a generation of Jianghu warriors.
Love is bitter when he can make people mature. People who have experienced love disasters understand the preciousness of feelings more well, and they are more willing to cherish and treat feelings kindly.
No cold to the bone, that plum blossom fragrance.
All the good things in the world must be tempered and painstakingly paved.
Everything in the world, you need to cross if you want to reach the fullness of your life. Walking through, the moonlight wind, a piece of beauty. Can't cross, suffer, can't sink.
If you're feeling bad, if you're having a difficult experience, it's God satisfying you in another way.
Remember, those who are blessed will surely feel the pain of tragedy.