"Qiangqiang, come back, mom misses you. This is the last sentence that 73-year-old Guo Qiaodi said to the camera on the hospital bed, and the loud Jiangsu country voice is full of vicissitudes of sorrow.
* Went viral on the Internet, and countless people choked tears of sympathy for this poor old mother.
And his son is called Wang Yongqiang, this child has been talented since he was a child, he went to university in the college entrance examination, and later obtained a doctorate from Peking University, but now he has not been heard from for more than 20 years when he goes to work abroad.
Now that his mother is lying on the hospital bed, he has reached the end of the strong crossbow, and he is still reluctant to appear in front of everyone, and netizens are lamenting Wang Yongqiang's unfilial piety.
So why did Wang Yongqiang leave his parents who had been raised for several years behind?Even my mother is seriously ill and doesn't want to come back?
Wang Yongqiang was born in a small village with poor mountains and bad waters, and at that time, even if he was full of food, it was very luxurious, not to mention that he was still studying in school.
The family of five lives in a dilapidated thatched hut on the edge of the village, with a worrisome roof leakage and worrisome sound insulation.
The younger brother suffered from polio since he was a child, so that he was lame and bedridden for life, and his mother was originally patriarchal, and Wang Yongqiang was born just to be able to work as a coolie, so the children followed their father to do farm work all day long.
When he was six years old, Wang Yongqiang wanted to go to primary school, but his parents had no intention of sending him to school.
His father, Wang Chuanmao, was a typical pragmatist, who believed that no matter how much he studied, he could not be eaten.
So every day after work, Wang Yongqiang hears his father's words the most, and his father always asks him to grow up quickly and make money to support his family, but Wang Yongqiang, who is still young, hears his father speak like talking about heaven.
But he has been smart and clever since he was a child, this time no, once when the teacher went to the village to teach, Wang Yongqiang stumbled and chatted with others, and the teacher heard that his preface did not match the afterword, and he immediately left a deep impression on him, praising him for being smart and clever, and promising.
Before the teacher left, he deliberately told Wang Yongqiang that his parents must send him to school to study, but as soon as he turned his head, Wang Yongqiang was reprimanded by his father, saying that he would have no energy to work in the field in the future.
Wang Yongqiang held back his anger, he was obviously the material for studying, how could he be willing to send himself to school?
Fortunately, the people in the village can't look past it, after all, the parents were persuaded to send Wang Yongqiang to primary school, and he survived the stage of junior high school with difficulty, Wang Yongqiang really lived up to everyone's expectations of him, and got one of the best results in the village, and then the parents had to let him go to junior high school.
Originally, I also wanted to study for a fee, but I didn't expect my son to be so promising, and if I couldn't do it, it would really change the fate of the family!
Who knew that in the year of the college entrance examination, another big problem was encountered, Wang Yongqiang was admitted to the provincial key university with the top ten results in the county, which is a great thing for a rural child.
How can I pay a huge amount of money for tuition, and for a while the parents have a problem - how can the family have enough savings!
Mother Guo Qiaodi insisted that Wang Yongqiang drop out of school and go home, Wang Yongqiang cried and begged his mother to give him a chance, after all, it was a good opportunity for him to change his fate, Guo Qiaodi heard the news that her son dared to speak back, and she was so angry that she slapped her son on the spot.
The two quarreled, and after hearing about this, relatives and neighbors accused Guo Qiaodi of being unreasonable and talkative, Guo Qiaodi reluctantly agreed to Wang Yongqiang to go to college, but on the condition that he would send money home every year, and not a penny less.
Wang Yongqiang readily agreed, and lived a life that was not as good as pigs and dogs in school, spending all his time on Xi and work, and forgetting to sleep and eat just in exchange for tuition.
When he was a sophomore, Wang Yongqiang joined the club and occasionally went out to travel, but once he encountered a sudden flash flood on the way to travel, Wang Yongqiang and another girl were washed into a cave at the bottom of the mountain, and the mudslide outside the cave rolled, and they were trapped inside and could not move.
In the end, the two escaped the test of fate, and it is precisely because of the test of life and death that the two have since established a bond of love and become a pair on campus.
Who knew that this matter was still leaking and reached Guo Qiaodi's ears, she was furious, and immediately took a night train to drive Wang Yongqiang to school, and couldn't help but say that she would take him away.
Guo Qiaodi had a falling out with Wang Yongqiang hysterically, forbidding him to marry a young lady in the city, and said that he would definitely come back to find a down-to-earth and hard-working young lady for him to marry.
Wang Yongqiang suddenly realized that in his mother's heart, he was just a carrier to support his family, and he had to honor his parents no matter what.
The two fell into a fierce quarrel, and were finally persuaded by the teacher to avoid a major conflict in the family, and then Wang Yongqiang was successfully admitted to Peking University as a postdoctoral fellow.
Relatives and friends in the village came to congratulate them, and in addition to greeting them, they also made some other requests, such as whether they could help find an official in the future.
Wang Yongqiang couldn't help but secretly slander: He is still just a poor student, does he have so many abilities and so many connections?What's more, I have never asked my parents for anything for many years, and I have struggled day after day to complete my studies and scientific research.
Finally achieved a little success, it stands to reason that the second child should be really happy for himself, but he didn't expect that they were only happy for a while, and soon they began to make a name for themselves everywhere, thinking that if their son succeeded, then they would be able to get their own light.
This made Wang Yongqiang very disappointed, and gradually realized that in the eyes of parents, he was like a money-making machine, and he had to tirelessly provide his children with life and social status, no matter how ambitious he was, he must bow his head and obey the family's arrangement.
This depressed mood lasted until Wang Yongqiang met Li Min, who was still a female doctoral student in the Department of Physics of Peking University, and the two had a good impression after several academic exchanges and gradually came together.
For Wang Yongqiang, Li Min is like a beam of light, lighting up his dark inner world, and the days with her, Wang Yongqiang seems to have regained his qualifications as a person, the two don't say anything, and go out for an outing every weekend, which is a rare happy time for Wang Yongqiang.
It wasn't until one day that my parents suddenly came to visit, only to find that the love between the two had already reached the ears of the two, and after seeing Li Min, my mother immediately became furious, thinking that it must have cost a lot of money to marry this kind of woman.
And Wang Yongqiang couldn't suppress it in the end, and it was his parents who made a fuss saying that he was now grown up and didn't need them to care about him.
The parents didn't expect his well-behaved son in the past to have such a rebellious behavior, and at the end of the speech, he and Li Min left with red eyes, she understood that the hope of this love was slim.
Afterwards, the parents stared at Wang Yongqiang stubbornly, afraid that he would contact Li Min again, and for a while, in class and entertainment, Wang Yongqiang's every action was under the supervision of his parents, which made him extremely nervous psychologically.
Fortunately, a test paper rekindled Wang Yongqiang's hope.
His academic ** was employed by top foreign magazines, and the number of online citations soared, making him a popular new star in an instant.
Once in a lifetime!Wang Yongqiang was overjoyed, knowing that as long as he went abroad, he could get a new life and become a veritable free and easy Wang Yongqiang.
Who knew that on the day of the visa, he made a mistake due to nervousness, and his application was rejected.
Wang Yongqiang was completely shocked, he was obviously only a temporary failure, but his parents deprived him of his future so easily, he was very desperate, his complaints about his family reached the peak, and escaping from this cage was his only purpose in this life.
In 1999, Wang Yongqiang finally survived the day of his doctoral graduation, and several years of hard work made him achieve fruitful results.
This job not only has a high status, but also has an annual salary of up to 200,000 yen, which is almost exclusively designed for Wang Yongqiang.
In the era when the yen exchange rate was 1:3, which was an astronomical figure in China, Wang Yongqiang, as a poor doctor who had just walked out of school, was so excited that he couldn't speak.
What excites him even more is that this position means that he will finally be able to live a life that is truly his, away from all the distractions of his hometown, and he has long been tired of the endless ravages and manipulations of his parents.
After arriving in Japan, Wang Yongqiang called ** home to report safety, and at the moment of hanging **, Wang Yongqiang was relieved, as if he had been reborn, so this time it was 20 years.
In Tokyo, Wang Yongqiang has no distractions, and in his spare time, he also lives a middle-class life with clothes to reach out for food and open his mouth, and likes to fish this road, often drives to the suburbs to fish on weekends to kill time, and often takes his wife Xiaokui to high-end sushi restaurants to eat.
For Xiaokui, in fact, she is Wang Yongqiang's college classmate Li Minfaxiao, the two got together at the alumni association, and they only came together after seeing each other, and Xiaokui has a hearty and generous personality, and Wang Yongqiang is also very close to each other, and soon they will worship.
Although life has been on the right track, the scars in Wang Yongqiang's heart have not completely healed, sometimes in the dead of night, still reminiscing about his parents and brothers, although he has brought too much pain to himself, but after all, the deepest emotions are still relatives.
In the winter of 2007, Wang Yongqiang saw his mother's hometown of Jiangsu encounter snow that had not been encountered in a hundred years on TV, and he couldn't help but think of the scene of shuttling in the snow with his mother when he was a child.
However, he didn't want to experience the taste of being under control of everything, so Wang Yongqiang wandered in Japan for more than ten years, during which he occasionally recalled his relatives, but he never took the initiative to contact him.
He has long listed himself as an orphan and has no relationship with his previous family, until 2019.
Wang Yongqiang fell into hesitation, in fact, he was ready for his mother to have today's psychological preparation, but after so many years, is he really qualified to be called a "son"?Although those wounds faded, they still remained in my heart.
Undecided, Wang Yongqiang made the most difficult choice in his life.
Sorry not going back. Please tell your mother: I wish you good health, child. ”
After hanging **, Wang Yongqiang was heartbroken and couldn't speak, Xiaokui silently accompanied her, she understood her husband's helplessness, this may be the most perfect ending, every man has an insurmountable estrangement, not unfilial but waiting in their respective posts.
That is the last scene of Wang Yongqiang and his family, maybe there will be no intersection in this life, but the bonds and attachments of the past will always be engraved in my heart, and I will not see the light.
When the news of "the most unfilial child in the country" went viral on the Internet, countless netizens said that they did not understand what Wang Yongqiang did.
At the last moment of his mother's life, not only did he not go home to visit, but he couldn't resist his mother, and finally left a clear meaning of "it is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs".
In fact, in the eyes of Wang Yongqiang's younger brother, the change of his brother is also reasonable, and it should be said that it is also an inevitable result, as a member of the family who has been "oppressed" for a long time, he knows everything his parents do too well.
The great trauma he suffered when he was young was repeatedly reflected in Wang Yongqiang's life choices in the future. The brothers will only watch as their fortunes become shackles that bind them.
After the news of his mother's critical illness and disappearance came out, his younger brother called Wang Yongqiang ** as soon as possible, and wanted Wang Yongqiang to do it again than anyone else, and even only said goodbye to the last sentence.
But in the end, he chose to abandon it, abandoning the family affection that had made him sad, he endured it for a long time, and it is estimated that it will be difficult to intersect with his relatives in this life and this life, in the end, he is as eager to be his true self as anyone else.