My name is Li Mei, I am 32 years old and I have been divorced for four years. I divorced my ex-husband Wang Qiang four years ago because he cheated. After seven years of marriage, we finally died in one of his extramarital affairs.
After the divorce, I took care of our daughter Xiaoqing alone. I worked hard, took care of my daughter, and lived a peaceful life.
It wasn't until half a year ago that Wang Qiang suddenly came to me and said that he had divorced his second wife and wanted to get back together with me.
One weekend afternoon, the doorbell rang. When I opened the door, I saw that it was Wang Qiang, my ex-husband, standing outside the door.
Wang Qiang stood at the door, unable to hide his apology on his face: "Mei, I'm here to apologize to you." I shouldn't have cheated and broken your heart back then. I really know it's wrong. ”
I was surprised that he would come to me out of nowhere. Tentatively asked him, "What about his wife?"”
Wang Qiang said: "We are divorced. She's with another man. ”
I didn't answer. I know that Wang Qiang is now in a state of nothing.
Wang Qiang continued: "Mei, can you give me a chance to start over?We, as well as Xiaoqing, are back together, okay?”
Wang Qiang, I need time to think about it. I said to him calmly.
Wang Qiang asked: "Then how long do you think about it?"A month, or half a year?Please give me a clear answer. ”
I shook my head: "I'll get back to you as soon as I can." Don't contact me again until I've thought it through. ”
Although Wang Qiang was unwilling, he nodded and left. I was so confused that I didn't know what to do.
That night, I had dinner with my daughter Xiaoqing. Xiaoqing is very quiet, without the usual lively chatter.
I asked her with concern, "Xiaoqing, what's wrong?"Why is it so quiet today?”
Xiaoqing raised her head, her eyes were a little red: "Mom, doesn't Dad want us?"”
My heart tightened, it turned out that Xiaoqing saw Wang Qiang coming. I took her in my arms and whispered, "Dad, he just wants to make up for his mistakes." But things in the past made it hard for me to really forgive my mom. Mom will think about it. ”
Xiaoqing asked: "Then if Mom forgives Dad, can we live with Dad and live as a family of three?"”
After more than a week of thinking and struggling, I finally made my decision. I decided to give Wang Qiang a chance, and we could try to get together slowly. After all, we have also been in love with each other, married for 7 years, and the foundation of our relationship is still there. I believe that people will change, and Wang Qiang has now repented and blamed himself, and I can try to forgive him once.
I called Wang Qiang and asked him to come to my house, and I wanted to make my thoughts clear to him in person.
Wang Qiang soon came to my house. He looked at me expectantly, waiting for my decision.
I said straight to the point: "Wang Qiang, after consideration, I decided to give you a chance to start over." We can try to get back together first, but we have to take it slowly, one step at a time. I need time to learn to trust you again. ”
Wang Qiang took my hand excitedly: "Mei, thank you for your willingness to give me a chance!."I will definitely compensate you well and give you happiness!”
Looking at my daughter's innocent appearance, Wang Qiang and I looked at each other and smiled. It's like when we first got married, and we were happy together every day. At this moment, I seem to begin to believe that Wang Qiang and I can regain the happiness we once had.
As the days passed, Wang Qiang's care and consideration for me and my daughter never changed. With him by my side, my life seems to have found its way again. I began to silently plan that maybe in the near future, we could officially register our marriage and truly enter the palace of marriage.
I didn't think much of it at first, after all, he was really busy with his work. Until one day, a colleague told me that he saw Wang Qiang going to the hotel to open a room and hugging a beautiful young woman. My heart rose to my throat.
I hurriedly questioned Wang Qiang. He struggled and finally admitted that he had a young girlfriend. He said that he got a better job opportunity and needed to move to the city to develop, and my daughter and I would drag down his career, so he wanted to develop independently.
Wang Qiang wanted to keep it, but I broke it directly. I decided to divorce this hopeless man!
After a period of self-adjustment and adaptation, I gradually came out of the shadow of this marriage. I began to devote myself to my work and family, and I felt a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction through small successes one after another. I also took Xiaoqing to travel, exercise, watch movies, etc., so that she could grow up happily.
After a deep pain, I unexpectedly found that I no longer hated Wang Qiang. It was the right choice to leave him, otherwise I would have been hurt by him over and over again. Wang Qiang will eventually pay the price for his mistakes, and he deserves to learn and grow in pain. I sincerely wish him that he can meet true love in the future.
The divorce was very traumatic to me, and I was also lost and doubted. But through the ups and downs, I have become more mature and stable. I know I deserve to be loved and respected. I will also continue to work hard to make myself and my daughter happy. Without Wang Qiang, my life can still be fulfilled.
After 5 years. 
I started my own clothing studio and had a successful career. I also met Zhang Lei, a single businessman, at work. We fell in love and got married and had children.
In my marriage to Zhang Lei, I felt truly happy and cherished. Every day when I come home from work, someone cares about my day's work. Every year on my birthday, he surprises me.
Life will inevitably encounter storms, but as long as we are brave and determined enough, we will be able to welcome the sunshine again. I'm a good example of that. The failure of that marriage certainly hurt me, but it also allowed me to grow and find happiness that truly belongs to me.