Dad cheated and wanted a divorce, my son bought a house for my mother Mom, write your name on the real estate certificate, leave quickly!
Lao Xie returned home at eight o'clock in the morning, and as soon as he entered the door, Wang Meili greeted him warmly: "You are back, you have worked hard." Do you want me to make you something to eat?Yesterday I went out to buy some fresh eggs, and I'll get you some boiled. ”
Lao Xie waved his hand impatiently: "Don't bother me, I'm so tired and want to take a break." ”
Wang Meili was defenseless, and was pushed by him and almost hit the wall. Fortunately, a firm hand behind her held her arm in time.
Son Xiao Xie walked out of the room, holding Wang Meili with one hand, and glaring at Lao Xie angrily: "Mom cares about you kindly, you should at least talk well, right?"Why do you have to do it?”
Lao Xie's eyes widened: "Your mother didn't say anything, boy, are you having hard wings and dare to do it against your father." ”
Xiao Xie was disdainful: "Are you causing trouble outside, and when you come back, you will vent with your wife and son?"If you have the ability, don't come back. ”
Lao Xie saw that his son dared to talk back, and he was about to step forward with his sleeves rolled: "Do you think I am willing to come back?"It's not your mother's stalker, or I wouldn't have come back a long time ago. ”
Xiao Xie was furious: "You are still justified in cheating, you have the ability to go over with that woman, my mother is not rare for you." ”
Seeing that the two were about to make a move, Wang Meili hugged her son's arm and said, "Son, don't quarrel, your father finally came back today, it's good that our family can be reunited, it's almost the New Year, don't quarrel." ”
Xiao Xie watched his mother defend the man who was already absent from home, so he was so angry that he went back to the room and slammed the door hard.
And Lao Xie looked at Wang Meimei's appearance of wanting to cry without tears, muttered: "Unlucky", turned around and walked out of the house.
Xiao Xie walked out of the house and happened to see his back, but Wang Meili kept stretching her neck to watch him leave.
He said angrily: "Why haven't you divorced him yet, what is there to be nostalgic for this kind of man?It's forty or fifty, don't tell me you're reluctant to divorce because of love. ”
Wang Meili sat on the sofa helplessly and sighed: "You don't understand. ”
Xiao Xie said angrily: "I don't understand, I don't understand, I say this every time, I'm not a child anymore, if there's anything I don't understand, you tell me." ”
Your dad bought this house, and if we get divorced, we won't have anywhere to go. ”
House house, every time I talk about the house, and besides, this house is originally your marital property, and if you get divorced, both of you can share half of it. Even if this house is not mine, do you want to build the rest of your life into it for the sake of a house?”
Wang Meili murmured: "For a stable home, I have taken it all my life." ”
Li Yanfang's pursuit of housing has long been deeply rooted in her life.
When she was only three years old, her father died, leaving her mother alone to support her and her brother, and the pressure of life can be imagined.
The deepest memories occurred late one night when she was seven years old, when a continuous heavy rain caused the family's house to suddenly collapse.
The family was sleeping peacefully when they were awakened by a loud noise, followed by a cold rain pouring in, and the family had to get up in a hurry.
Luckily, the collapsed house happened to be another wall close to the bedroom and didn't hurt anyone.
In order to avoid further danger, the mother took the children to hide outdoors and spent the whole rainy night under the trees in the courtyard.
It was early autumn, and the night was like the mouth of a great beast, swallowing up all the light and warmth of the world, and the rain was falling on their heads and bodies, colder than the snow of winter. The mother held her and her brother in her arms, and the three of them could only rely on each other for warmth.
The earthen house stood majestically in the darkness, lonely and deserted in the sound of the rain, and became a nightmare that Li Yanfang could never get rid of.
Years later, Li Yanfang still dreams of rainy days, homeless, and only a dirt wall is left in front of the old house. She was lost in it, and no matter how much she turned around, she couldn't find an exit.
After dawn, the rain continued, but the house was uninhabitable. They moved out everything they could and went to the village in search of a new place to live.
There are many vacant houses in the countryside, and the owners are unable to move in for some reason, and are often willing to lend them to those in need. Because the only way to keep the house strong is to live in it, and it is easy to make the house dilapidated if it is left uninhabited for a long time.
So, her mother took Li Yanfang and her brother around looking for the owner of the vacant house and asked if they could live temporarily. Eventually, they managed to borrow the house and the family moved into their new home.
This is not renting, but borrowing, no rent, but carrying favors, with a sense of self-esteem.
During the Chinese New Year, even if the family struggled to feed and drink, my mother would still buy a large piece of meat and send it to the owner's house to express her gratitude.
During the busy season of spring and autumn harvest every year, no matter what the condition of her own field is, my mother will always take the initiative to go to the homeowner's house to lend a helping hand and help the owner deal with the heavy farm work.
The homeowner's family always politely refused, but her mother took the initiative to help, and the humiliation of groveling has always been deeply engraved in Li Yanfang's heart.
When the friends in the village get together to play, the most common attack they hear is: "You don't even have a house." This kind of remark was like a sharp sword, piercing her heart.
Although the little girl of the owner's family wore old clothes and ate cold meals like her, in her eyes, the girl was as bright as a princess. Because as long as she is angry, she can threaten: "I will go home and tell my mother that you will not be allowed to live in my house." Li Yanfang could only be cautious to curry favor because she was afraid that one word would make her homeless again.
This sense of helplessness that is easily handled by others makes her live in trembling every day.
Over the years, they kept changing houses, and each time she moved, she felt powerless.
She remembers one time, when the Chinese New Year was approaching, the owner told them they had to move out. The reason is that the owner's son and daughter-in-law are going home for the New Year, and the house is theirs and cannot be lent to others. So, when others were celebrating the New Year happily, Li Yanfang's family could only borrow rooms with smiling faces.
Years later, she developed a fear of the Chinese New Year because she was afraid that she would be kicked out of her house again at this time, with nowhere to go.
Growing up in such an environment, Li Yanfang felt deeply insecure. When she reaches the age of marriage, no matter what kind of person is introduced, she will always ask: "Does his family have a house?"”
As long as there is a house, she will not hesitate to marry it. In this way, Li Yanfang, who was only twenty years old, married Lao Xu.
Once upon a time, the young Lao Xu had a bedridden father and a strong mother at home.
Lao Xu's family conditions are average, and the reason why Li Yanfang chose him is because he is an only child, and after the death of his in-laws, the property is bound to belong to them, and there is no need to worry about no house in the future.
The two are not very familiar with each other, Li Yanfang pays attention to Lao Xu having a house to live in, and Lao Xu takes a fancy to her ability. The two had their own plans, quickly came together, and soon became husband and wife.
After getting married, I found out that Lao Xu's family was not rich. She needs to take care of her sick and weak father, and she has to endure the pickiness of her strong mother-in-law. However, Li Yanfang is very satisfied with this, because during the Chinese New Year, she can finally prepare for the New Year with peace of mind, and she does not have to worry about suddenly returning home due to going out to work, and the family will be homeless.
But there are also unbearable moments.
For example, when Li Yanfang was pregnant for the first time, because of a trivial matter, the irritable old Xu beat her.
This is not the first time this has happened, but this one is particularly serious. Lao Xu kicked Li Yanfang's stomach hard, and the child of more than five months ceased to exist, and Li Yanfang lay on the bed for more than half a month.
Her mother brought her brother to seek justice for her and taught Lao Xu a stern lesson.
However, Li Yanfang, who was lying on the hospital bed, was disheartened. For so many years, her mother and brother have also sought justice for her, but soon after, Lao Xu recovered from his injury, the pain was forgotten, and his fist fell on Li Yanfang again.
The beatings made Li Yanfang feel frightened, and this was the first time she considered divorce.
Lying on the hospital bed, she said to her mother: "Mom, I can't stand this life anymore, I want a divorce." ”
The mother looked at her with a bruised face, a thin body, and tears in her eyes: "Daughter, I know your life is very hard, but after the divorce, where will you go?"Although we built a new house, it was for your brother and sister-in-law, and your sister-in-law will definitely not let you go back, where can you go?”
Yes, a divorced woman, can go to **?The poor countryside limits their choices, and the lack of a family to rely on makes the determination to divorce seem so fragile.
The mother and daughter cried silently, and finally ended with Lao Xu's apology and assurance.
However, as we all know, next time, his fist will still fall mercilessly on Li Yanfang.
Faced with an inescapable predicament, Li Yanfang resolutely chose to resist bravely.
When Xiao Xu swung his fist again, Li Yanfang did not choose to beg for mercy or dodge, but resolutely launched a stubborn counterattack.
Xiao Xu was startled, but then launched a more violent attack, and punches and kicks rained down on her body.
However, Li Yanfang no longer cares, her belief is clear: if you beat me ten times, I will pay you back once, and I will never be willing to be beaten passively.
Although this round of beatings made her tortured, Xiao Xu also felt pain in this fight and began to restrain a little.
After this struggle, life was still difficult, but Li Yanfang's resistance made Xiao Xu's violence less. The days passed reluctantly like this, until Xiao Xu's father died, Xiao Xu went out to work, and came back once or twice a year, although the money was not much, but Li Yanfang's violence was also reduced.
Although life as a woman, she had to take care of her son and get along with her fussy mother-in-law, but she felt that life was beginning to have some light.
Over time, her mother-in-law died, and Xiao Xu became Lao Xu. The wrinkles on Li Yanfang's face gradually increased, and her son left the village and went to the town to study in junior high school, the county to study in high school, and finally to go to college in other places.
In the end, the village was demolished, and the old Xu family's house was exchanged for a resettlement house and 500,000 yuan in cash. Li Yanfang moved into the building and started a new life.
On the day she moved into the building, she went to her mother's grave and recalled the night the house collapsed, when the mother and son sat under a tree in the yard to keep warm in the night rain.
At that time, the autumn rain fell all night, and Li Yanfang knew that her mother's tears also flowed all night.
But now, if my mother is still alive, she may be able to share the happiness brought by the building. However, the mother will never see this day again.
Now Li Yanfang seems to be in a dream, which is a dream that she didn't dare to hope for before:
Pastoral homestead, covered roof, no longer get up early and late for farm work, land lease to ensure food and clothing, no longer endure the blame and reprimand of the mother-in-law all year round, and no longer worry about the fist of the husband. My son finished college and found a secure job in the city.
This kind of life makes her feel at ease and cherishes her even more.
However, at this very moment, the husband has a new love outside and develops a relationship with a woman he met while playing cards.
After the relocation, Lao Xu no longer went out to work, but indulged in playing cards and playing with a group of friends day and night. Somehow, he began a secret relationship with a woman, sneaky at first, then became more and more daring, going out frequently, even Li Yanfang, a wife who rarely went out.
At first, Li Yanfang felt angry and didn't understand why Lao Xu had to live a good life. After a few years of quiet days, the two began to quarrel, Lao Xu was still a little conscious at first, and he also took care of face, and after the quarrel, he also said that he wanted to cut off the relationship outside.
However, soon after, the old relationship rekindled, and the two went in and out together again.
This time, Lao Xu actually filed for divorce.
He thinks that his wife is too angry, this home makes him feel unwarm, and even his son is not close to Li Yanfang's teaching. In this home, he felt like an outsider, and he wanted to leave and go to the women outside to find the warmth of home.
Some men are like this, they force their weak wives to be shrews, but they complain that she is not gentle enough;They leave the responsibility of raising their children to their wives and finally blame them for not being close to them;They only covet their own comfort and are irresponsible to their families, but they complain that the warmth given by the family is not enough.
Lao Xu is such a person, he has never found a reason in himself, but he blindly blames his wife and son, and finally wants to go outside to seek warmth.
However, in the face of the divorce proposal, Li Yanfang suddenly felt panicked, because she knew that if she divorced, Lao Xu would definitely ask to return to this house, and she and her son would be homeless at that time.
It seemed that she was going back to the days of wandering.
A great panic welled up in my heart.
She was worried that Lao Xu would really divorce, so she didn't dare to oppose Lao Xu and began to deliberately accommodate him. She no longer quarrels about his affair, and she no longer urges him to play cards at night and never return all night. In the face of his tantrums, throwing things and scolding, she also chose to endure silently.
Her only wish is not to divorce, to keep her home, to keep her home.
Therefore, she deliberately bought local eggs to supplement her husband's nutrition.
The son hated this because he didn't understand why his father was like this, and he didn't know that a person like his father deserved his mother's affection.
Li Yanfang cried and told her son: "The past years have been too hard, and I really don't want to go through those days again." Her heart was filled with bitterness.
Knowing that Lao Xu and this family have nothing to be nostalgic for, she has already felt disheartened about the difficult days.
The son listened silently and did not say a word.
In the following days, Lao Xu still often didn't go home, and when he went home, he would find fault. Li Yanfang can only make compromises, deliberately curry favor, and strive to face all this.
The son was rarely silent, and went back to work after the New Year, and rarely went home.
On the day of the Qingming Festival, Xu Peng accompanied Li Yanfang to the grave of his grandparents.
After finishing, Xu Peng said to Li Yanfang: "I'll take you somewhere." ”
Drive through towns and counties, and eventually stop in a newly developed community in the city.
Xu Peng led Li Yanfang into a building, took the elevator up to the seventh floor, and opened the door.
A small rough house is presented in front of you, supported only by a rough gray frame, and the space is small and clear at a glance.
Xu Peng took out a purchase contract, which marked the owner as "Li Yanfang", which was clearly visible.
This house is a small apartment of 43 square meters, with a down payment of 110,000 yuan, which I saved from my work in the past two years. There is also a mortgage of more than 200,000 yuan, with a 10-year term, and about 2,000 per month.
I've got you a job as a nanny, taking care of a 74-year-old lady in one of the buildings in this neighborhood that you already live in. The probationary period is 5000 a month, and it will rise if the performance is good. ”
The son showed all the arrangements in front of her, looked at her, and said word by word:
Now, take your purchase contract, go, and divorce Xu Shenglin.
You don't have to worry about getting divorced anymore and going nowhere.
From now on, the house will never be your fetters again. ”
Her son's words hit Li Yanfang's heart like a hammer, she took the purchase contract, stroked the three words "Li Yanfang" over and over again, and tears dripped on it.
Suddenly, she fell to her knees, her hands covering her face, like a wronged child, sobbing.
From the age of seven to fifty, from the moment that house collapsed on an autumn night, her tears could only flow quietly on rainy days, swallow silently in the dark night, mixed with blood quietly gushing out under her husband's fists.
For so many years, she has lived without self and dignity, and her days are tormented day by day, with no end and no hope. Maybe it's a relief to endure until the last moment of your life.
Now, her son told her: You have the confidence to bravely say "no" to those who bully you and trample on you.
A rough house with only a frame has become the confidence of her divorce, and an income earned by her own hands has become the confidence for her to straighten her waist and live after the divorce.
And the child who thinks about her and does everything for her is her greatest confidence.
With confidence, do you still need to hesitate to divorce?