Zhou Bingyi's life mentor is Jin Yueji. One of the secrets of her success is that she has a unique lifestyle – a unique and practical approach to life that she uses very cleverly in her work. She usually doesn't raise her level of truth to complete a task quickly. In this era of "no official and one light", her fate can be regarded as smoother.
In the organizational structure, there is basically not much attention paid to her arrangement, and her guesses are basically accurate. Zhou Bingyi was a veteran who was both powerful and could discuss poetry, calligraphy and painting with him, and his fortune was very good.
After Zhou Bingyi was appointed secretary of the party committee of the military factory, he launched a fierce theoretical debate with his mother-in-law as soon as he took office. In his opinion, his daughter is the pearl of his palm, and he can't let her be bullied. Jin Yueji has a deep understanding of her son-in-law's concerns. She said that the cadres are all young people, young and energetic.
This older lady is well aware of her son-in-law's face problem, so she wants to work steadily and gradually climb the ladder. But this time, what she didn't expect was that her daughter would say bad things about her son-in-law behind her back!After retiring, she saw that her son-in-law had not been able to do so, so she used her connections to directly improve her status.
Hao Dongmei's daughter believes that the military factory is like a scorching potato. But she said again, the big truth is to be heard. When she went deep into the philosophy with her mother, Jin Yueji's words were very powerful, and she easily made Zhou Bingyi admit her mistakes. She expressed this opinion:
I see what you mean, you're a guy who really wants to do real things.
Lao Hao cherished you very much when he was alive, because you served at the grassroots level.
As the son-in-law of our family, we should not forget our original intention.
In the original book "The World", Jin Yueji experienced battles and injuries before liberation, and her body was severely injured, which led to her illness. Such a legendary woman, married to the governor of a province, has a rich revolutionary background and a deep historical background. In him, we see an ordinary man in the torrent of revolution, with his own practical actions, practicing his life values and ideal pursuit, which is moving. In the process of promotion, Zhou Bingyi was deeply favored by an elder who was deeper than his relatives, which made his heart feel warm.
During his time in the Corps, he ignored the gossip of the outside world, married the sympathetic Hao Dongmei, and chose to continue his college career in a different place. Zhou Bingyi loved his wife with all his heart, but due to an accident, his wife was unable to have children. The untruths between me and Zhou Zhigang are precisely because of myself. His "officer" is not because he has a son, but because he is a soldier.
It doesn't matter whether the child exists or not, but Zhou Bingyi's "official luck" is very smooth. He was a good husband, a good man, and a man to be trusted. He toiled for the people of Jichun for half his life, and finally sacrificed his life on this land. His whole life is dreaming of being a good father - so that his son can have a good son and a good future. At the moment of his death, he advised his siblings not to be too critical of what the outside world was saying.
Zhou Bingyi is a measured person, he behaves properly and sits upright. In the officialdom, he did not show off as the "governor's son-in-law", but knew the true face of the Hao family's parents very well." His father was a soldier and his mother was a farmer. Although he doesn't say many discordant words in front of his parents, he is a key figure who can endure chaos and properly handle conflicts between the two families at critical moments.
As the eldest brother of the Zhou family, his feelings for his family were not strong, causing his life to become exhausting. In order not to let his daughter be humiliated in front of her mother, he took the initiative to take care of his sister. Thanks to Jin Yueji's care and love, she uses practical actions to care for her son-in-law from a poor background.
1 From the initial dissatisfaction, it gradually changed to treating his own own son like he treated.
After Hao Dongmei married Zhou Bingyi, Jin Yueji became the first person to vote against it. "I'm a woman, I love him, but he loves me too," she said. At that moment, she was experiencing the heartache of losing her husband, as described in the original book:
In a place like the light word film, mothers have heard of it, but in such a place, can ordinary people's homes really cultivate such outstanding young people?Isn't he just a good man?Even if you don't meet, mom can ** what kind of man you marry!
After being an educated youth for a few years, he chose himself as the master and got married. "Why don't you think I can't suffer like you?We are all ** children, and we are not rural people. Her mom said, "That's how I am. Hao Dongmei expressed her dissatisfaction with the hard life to her mother. Surprisingly, the mother actually thinks that her daughter is too hypocritical, born in a ** family, and has the opportunity to experience the hardships of life firsthand, isn't this a good experience.
Zhou Bingyi didn't expect his mother-in-law to be so reasonable. However, what bothered him a little was that he wanted to stay in this small bungalow. His mother was a very literate person and often lectured him about architecture. I live with my mother-in-law every day. "Your son is a good son. "The Zhou family's family did not express too many opinions. Zhou Zhigang, known as the "construction worker", didn't say much and directly agreed to let his son become the son-in-law of the inverted door.
At that time, unable to live in a new house and his son had no place to live, he had to go to his relatives to reunite. In the original work "The World", Zhou Bingyi's life in the Hao family is like a fish swimming in water, and Jin Yueji gave a full score to this young and energetic son-in-law. The relationship between the two is like that of old friends from many years ago, and every day after eating, they can happily chat about all kinds of interesting topics and life situations.
Whenever Zhou Bingyi and his mother-in-law had an in-depth discussion about the values of life, he would draw valuable lessons from them. In his view, a family is made up of small molecules. As a well-educated young intellectual and worker, he often lacked a fluency in his strategy when dealing with affairs. In the Hao family, the conflict between the husband and wife continues to escalate, and Jin Yueji chooses to take the initiative to act as a mediator, such as this time:
The two sons-in-law changed their views and began to discuss their mother and son. He expressed his opinion in all seriousness, and I had a strong will to be a responsible son-in-law before moving here to avoid disgrace to you. But now, I want to be a good daughter-in-law. Since moving here, the desire to be a competent son-in-law has gradually faded.
There is a deep meaning in the words, and the meaning is far-reaching. He had the impression that the old man liked to chat with him. This sentence has three meanings: Zhou Bingyi has already served his mother-in-law like a family member, which also created favorable conditions for his later officialdom career. He said, I am a very honest person, and I will not tell her the truth. Zhou Bingyi used sincere words to test which way of dialogue can win the love of the elderly. If everything seems too boring under the protection of others, that's not a good thing.
This promising young man who is destined to embark on the "official road", he is able to act without scruples, and at the same time he can maintain peace of mind. Through his introverted way of handling affairs, I observed the temperament and aura that a calm man should have.
In the two expatriate countries of the Soviet Union, his exoticism was questioned by his wife.
The position of secretary of the party committee of the military factory looks very good on the surface, but in reality it requires more effort and energy.
Jin Yueji was shocked when she learned that Zhou Bingyi had been transferred to this place. This is not only the most powerful test for Zhou Bingyi's growth process, but also can effectively identify her mistakes and mistakes in selecting talented talents.
The employees and cadres in the factory warmly welcomed the new leader's visit. After he came to the factory, he was immediately organized to serve as the workshop director. Zhou Bingyi not only solved the problems of this factory, but also personally went to the Soviet Union to conduct a field visit, thus changing the existing situation inside the factory.
He was diagnosed with stomach bleeding after a hospital examination and admitted to the ward. At this critical moment, Zhou Bingyi's body appeared an obvious "red light" phenomenon. For more than three months, he has been working around the clock, which has resulted in a severe stomach ulcer. Conservative as recommended by the doctor** was followed.
God rewards hard work, as long as you put in the effort, there will always be miracles, and those lucky ones who are favored by the destiny of heaven will eventually succeed. I have to express my admiration for Zhou Bingyi's practical ability. When he negotiates with customers, customers take the initiative to ask and cooperate, and he always faces each other with a sincere attitude.
After continuous negotiation and social interaction, we gain meaningful value. In his view, negotiation is a process of constantly identifying opportunities and solving problems, and the more thoroughly the problem is solved, the greater the success!The original elaborated like this:
He succeeded in securing a ship-breaking business for the military factory, and once completed, he would have nearly a million proceeds in his account. He also encountered a difficult problem when dismantling the ship -- how to make the dismantling work proceed in an orderly mannerThe buyer was not familiar with the method of dismantling the ship, but they believed that handing it over to the military factory for dismantling would achieve perfect results.
Zhou Bingyi became famous, not only praised by his mother-in-law, but his mouth was also full of words of praise. He is an influential scholar and a person who can win the world, and he is quite famous in China. The colleagues who worked with him gave him a thumbs up and looked at him with respect.
Some believe that this is because he is fluent in the Russian language and has an in-depth knowledge of the culture and social customs of the Russian and Soviet eras, while others believe that he was assisted by senior leaders of the Shenyang Military District. What kind of man is he?Some people feel that the help of his classmates at Peking University back then was definitely not insignificant.
Hao Dongmei was originally full of praise for her husband's great deed, calling it a military exploit. Frankly speaking, he has received the support of the century, which makes Hao Dongmei feel very gratified. However, another disturbing thing happened suddenly, and things were moving very quickly. On this day, her cell phone rang – it was her husband's voice. Zhou Bingyi's "Peach Blossom Luck" in the Soviet Union received large-scale coverage, and in order to attract attention, that newspaper described it so boldly:
Transnational business activities give birth to transnational romances, which allow both public and private parties to bloom into romantic flowers.
He cursoryly skimmed through his wife's questions and found that the whole article was full of ambiguous literary elements, as if the reporter had deliberately set up a barrier. He said he was doing a "pseudo" literature. Due to Hao Dongmei's questioning, the article ** appeared with the expression of "seeing each other and hating late".
3 Unexpected encounters, destined to have their own unique stories.
In the original work of "The World", Zhou Bingyi described the experience of "sexual encounter" in depth, and from his text description, we can feel his deep loyalty to his wife, considering the straightforward words in that report, Hao Dongmei was also deeply moved. She spoke from time to time, worried about missing out on key information.
During the months of his business trip, Zhou Bingyi said too much. After being hospitalized, his life was completely disrupted. When he first arrived, the project was progressing slowly, the buyer and seller had their own rules, and he drank too much at the table and ended up in the hospital.
During his time in the hospital, he developed a deep friendship with an internist named Olya, a man ten years younger than him and who had been divorced. One was anxious to learn about China's reform and opening up, while the other was always talking about Russian and Soviet literature.
The two chatted very happily, and the conversation became more and more passionate, and Olya took Bingyi to her home as a guest, and met her father. "Your family is very nice!This elderly gentleman skillfully used his social networks to help Bingyi and successfully rescued the ** Liangzhongtian military factory.
Hao Dongmei's concern was that her husband had involved friendship in the interrogation, and that it was out of etiquette among foreign friends. She knows that this is also a small habit in her life abroad. At the family banquet back home, two middle-aged men and women who can't stand the loneliness kiss each other affectionately.
The marriage relationship between the two has almost cracked, but fortunately, Zhou Bingyi knows how to be humble, knows that mistakes will be corrected, he will reflect on himself, and when facing the facts, he will not argue.
4 Mother-in-law Jin Yueji's opinion is really unbelievable.
There was a conflict between the young couple, which caused them to be unhappy for many days. Her husband is the vice president of a company and has studied abroad for many years. Kim Yue-hee soon heard the news. Faced with the fact that this parent, who has always followed the principle of doing business and doing business, played a timely mediating role in the issue of children's marriage, she pointed out the core of the problem very clearly, and described it in the book:
I don't want to hear you about the specifics of those flowers, but as a mother-in-law, I only mentioned two aspects. What was the first thing you said?First of all, as Dongmei said, stop there. She said, if you don't love me, send me away!If there is more to say, even if she breaks with you, I will not agree. If she told you and you don't know, then you should keep it in your heart!Secondly, if Olya sends you a letter, you can choose not to tell Dongmei, but you must not hide it from me, and every letter needs to be read carefully by me. “
Thirdly, if she writes you a letter, you can discuss it with her, but it is best to do it inside the factory first, and then pass it on to your factory leader. If you want to write back to me, I didn't object, but supported it. "Third, you should tell her that you are a very good person, but don't look at yourself as a person.
When someone else has put in a lot of effort to help you accomplish such a big task, so that you can win such a huge project for the factory at a critical moment, if they take the initiative to write to you and you don't respond, doesn't it show the indifference and disloyalty of Chinese men?
Zhou Bingyi was deeply moved, and at the same time felt relieved, why did he say this?She is a very nice person, but he also has some shortcomings. First of all, Jin Yueji did not blame him for a momentary mistake, but favored her daughter. Second: Jin Yueji's insight reveals the "confusion" in his heart.
Olya has been a huge help to him, the two are naturally close friends, and as a married man, he knows how to control his emotions and not have too much intimacy with other women. In addition, Kim Yue-hee has a deep understanding of his qualities and loyalty, and she doesn't understand how he betrayed that hard-won marriage.
The most ingenious thing about Jin Yueji is that she personally eliminated Zhou Bingyi's illusions about Auria. She also solemnly reminded Zhou Bingyi that as a member of the party, he should have a basic sense of personality and take appropriate and appropriate ways to appease him. He said, I have done a good deed, which is a manifestation of serving the people. She said affectionately again: For you, this matter may not be important and unimportant, but if someone in officialdom wants to use this matter against you, it will also make you dusty and lose the opportunity to move forward.
This private incident is fundamentally unclear.
Life is a long process, she said. Jin Yueji's reminder successfully unraveled the "knot" in Zhou Bingyi's heart. "Life is a big stage, as long as you can stand on the stage, you will have your own wonderful story and future development space. "Don't get too attached to the plants and flowers of the outside world, and always remember that this marriage is something to be cherished.
You have to be a good woman and don't let others bully you. On your way, I will make sure that you are safe and do not cross the line. Zhou Bingyi did not live up to Jin Yueji's expectations, and this so-called "lace news" was quickly buried in the sea. Her words played a crucial guiding role. As Jin Yueji's dependence, Zhou Bingyi spent half his life expressing his gratitude and achieved very outstanding results.
In his later years, Zhou Bingyi suffered many public reports because of the demolition of light word films. In the end, he was expelled from the party. However, after another investigation by the Central Commission for Discipline Inspection, his body was completely innocent and without any stains. There are also many things worth recalling and thinking about in this story. Read The World carefully, and you will understand the guiding role of a strict mentor and helpful friend on the road to success.