This is his firstThe second college entrance examination, howeverStill not ashore
His name is Tang Shangjun, and he is known as ".The strongest nail household in the college entrance examinationThis year, I scored 594 pointsExceededGuangxi Province undergraduate score lineMore than 100 points, but it's still because of my own filling errorDownshiftedFinish.
Today, I don't want to go to ** Whether this behavior is his insistence on not dying in the Yellow River, or a premeditated crazy hype in the era when traffic is king, I just want to take a look at his college entrance examination road with everyone.
"But he had more than one way to go. ”
Choice is more important than effort
In 1988, Tang Shangjun was born in a remote rural area of Guangxi, his family was poor, and his parents named him Tang Shangjun, hoping that he could be a persevering person. When he was young, he hoped that studying would change his fate, but perhaps since the first college entrance examination, the gears of fate have begun to turn......
Now this still childish adult actually argues a sentence to us.
Choice is more important than effort”
Tang Shangjun is not a person who is born with an intellectual disability, on the contrary, he has been repeating him for many yearsHe has been admitted to 985 colleges and universities many times, among which there are many liberal arts students' dream schools".China University of Political Science and Law", or the top 985 in the country".Shanghai Jiao Tong UniversityBut he didn't go, not only that, but he didn't go to understand the public examination, nor did he enter the society to work Xi, this "child" stubbornly thought that going to college could change his fate, this university specifically refers toUniversity of Science and Technology of China
In fact, before 2018, it was not as difficult as it is today.
I often think about Tang Shangjun's other life, if he had chosen to study in 985 colleges and universities early, and then went to work in the system with the identity of 985 fresh graduates, he might have married a wife and had children, brought his elderly parents into the city, and lived a well-off and happy life.
People who have 15 years of perseverance in the college entrance examination, how can they not go ashore for the public examination?But he didn't make this choice, and he didn't choose to go directly to social work and start a business.
So heThis year, I am still taking the college entrance examination
He was most sorry for himself
Who did Tang Shangjun hurt?
He hurt15 current year candidates
The university admits a radish and a pit, and he drops out after applying for the exam, but it is impossible for the students who are not admitted to be admitted to the school again. Among them, there are her who want to go to Chongqing University, and there are other ...... who want to go to Jilin University
He hurtown parents
Parents are elderly, and as children, they should be responsible for supporting them. But he has always been a senior high school graduate, and he has never been employed, so how can he support him?School is a child's utopia, because children are simply ignorant, so society should provide an environment to nurture children. But what qualifications does Tang Shangjun have to be a child all the time?The welfare that society gives to children is eighteen years, not a lifetime.
I thought of someone who came from a similar background but was the opposite of him - the future teacher.
is also from a poor background, and has also repeated in the third year of high school. However, she resolutely went ashore at the most opportune time, continued to exercise and improve her abilities during her college years, and became the backbone of her family and society at a young age.
Of course, there are only a few successful people like her, but most people in their thirties no longer need to worry about their parents, and they can still shelter themselves from the wind and rain for their parents, their children, and themselves.
The people he hurt the most werethemselves
In the concept of contemporary Chinese, the first major event encountered in life is the college entrance examination. Every college entrance examination season, employees from all walks of life are ready to go at any time, for fear that the college entrance examination students will make a mistake. But the author believes that the college entrance examination is important, not only because it is the most fair opportunity to compete, but also because it is only "once" for most people.
One test is determined
But this nail household has already taken the exam "fifteen times", and the meaning of the college entrance examination to him is not what it was back then.
The original intention has long been lost in the years of suffering, and it can be said that it used to be a hard life, but now it is more appropriate to call it escape.
The 21st century is the most ever-changing era, 20 years ago real estate sprung up like mushrooms after a rain, civil engineering was popular, ten years ago the rise of the Internet, there will be a computer hundreds of thousands of annual salaries are not a problem, last year ChatGPT released subverted fixed cognition, our future direction is not known......
How can you survive in this era just by learning from books?At least at the age of thirty, a person must have the ability to live in peace.
The ability may or may not be so prominent, but it doesn't matter.
But at least you have to have some skills.
Failure is the way to go
It is often said that ".There is no hurdle in life that cannot be overcome.
If you fail the college entrance examination, you can also take the postgraduate entrance examination. If you fail the graduate school entrance examination, you can also look for a job.
How can one not fail?There are not one or two people who fail in the college entrance examination, and I also want to say to the candidates who lost this year, failing the college entrance examination is not a great crime, as long as you work hard enough in the preparation process, you are actually worthy of yourself.
Whether it is school or Xi work, they are just a springboard for creating the value of life, not a goal of life. The goal can be small or big, small, for example, I want to save money to buy a small donkey this year, and if I am bigger, I want to contribute to the whole society.
And it's just that I failed the college entrance examination, and it's not a crime.
Tang Shangjun,Why don't you muster up the courage to face this defeat?
The road ahead is long and bright
I actually saw the epitome of many college entrance examination losers from a Tang Shangjun, including myself. But the ratio of losers to "Tang Shangjun" is hundreds of thousands to one or even millions to one.
Obviously they all lost, why didn't so many people become "Tang Shangjun"?
Because there are not only 18 years of college entrance examination in life, but also many 18 years of life.
"It's impossible to do one thing in the college entrance examination for the rest of your life!”
Who wouldn't want to live a little richer life with a limited life?You think, at least you have to go to college to see the world more.
Congratulations, you've taken the right first step, which is to get out of the ivory tower and get in touch with the real world. But I know that you are also very confused in college, you are still Xi Xi graduate school entrance examination, you still work in real , project competitions or actively join the party, no one is a hexagonal warrior, but there is always something you can do right away. The future teacher made a suggestion to you and me who are confused:Whether you like it or not, you're done!
Either learn more skills, or Xi Xi more practical work to accumulate workplace experience, the road is a step by step step, not a fantasy.
Instead of dwelling on whether you like it or not, it's better to focus on improving your ability!
The last word, to you, to me, to all those who are tired and confused under the torrent of society:
"It's hard to pass the pass
The long road is long and bright
The light boat has crossed the Ten Thousand Mountains
Those who once thought they couldn't get out of the mud,
In fact, it has long been light and light. ”