Dote on children just don't get love, because it's not the child who needs love, it's the mother who needs to love the child!A mother consults that her child is depressed and does not go to school, and he is usually the only child in the family, so she takes care of him a lot and pays a lot of attention to him, and now the child is particularly fragile, and the mother also feels that it is caused by her own doting, and now I don't know what to do
I said that doting children just don't get love, because it's not the child who needs love, it's the mother who needs to love the child, why the mother can't help but pay attention to the child now!Because there is a hole in their hearts, many mothers were raised when they were young and were sent to their grandmother's house to raise them to the age of seven or eight, at this time a very big hole was formed in their hearts, so they lived in their hearts with a wounded little girl who saw the child every day and was always worried that the child was like herself, there was no lack of love, and she kept paying attention to the child and paying attention to every pore of the child, at this time the child got a kind of suffocating love, such a child has a lot of inner endurance, especially weak, especially depressed, and particularly painful, so if you want such a child to be good, the mother must see that she has a wounded little girl in her heart, and heal the wound in her heart, so as to treat the child normally and correctly, the child can come out completely and get better!
The ideology of parents is to raise children as pets, the school is to raise children to be problem-making machines, and the society is to raise children into wasteI just let parents have a high-dimensional cognition, see clearly the chaos of the family, school, and society, and use the true educational logic of doing things to upgrade the dimension, so as to completely solve the problems of depression, lying down, hating school, not going to school, etc.!