"I always can't sleep well these days, I wake up in the middle of the night every day, I have a headache and dizziness, and I am always flustered. ”
My mother-in-law said as she looked at me from time to time. The meaning was very clear, and he wanted me to offer to take her to the hospital for a check-up.
I pretended not to see it and continued to feed my son. My husband said that if I don't feel well, I will go to the hospital to see, and my mother-in-law said, you are so busy every day, how can you have time to go?
My husband turned to me and said, you will rest tomorrow and take our mother to the hospital to see, I said"I agreed with my mom that I was going to take her to see my uncle, but I didn't have time. ”
What's the matter if you go to relatives, my mother is not feeling well, of course, her medical treatment is the most important. "My husband said me.
I said, what does it matter to me whether it's important or not, you and your sister are both born to your mother, why don't you two go?
Aren't I busy and don't have time?My husband said. I said I was busy and didn't have time.
What's wrong with you now, weren't you very good to my mother before, you were very positive about what happened to her, why are you so cold to her now?"When I came back to the bedroom at night, my husband asked me.
Why are you so cold about her?Suffice it to say that the heart is not cold for a day. Once, I also regarded my mother-in-law as my own mother, even better than my own mother.
When I first got married, I really regarded my mother-in-law as my own mother, calling one mother after another, buying her delicious food every time I came back, and rushing to cook. I'm ahead of her for everything.
I thought that love was mutual, that I was good to my mother-in-law, and that my mother-in-law would be good to me, but in reality?
In the first year after marriage, I ran the whole county and bought a very beautiful woolen sweater for my mother-in-law, the most popular one that year, the woolen sweater was very thick, ** was half a month's salary for my mother, and I was not willing to buy it so good for my mother.
My mother-in-law was also happy to receive the clothes, she tried them on, it was very suitable, and said that it looked good, and I wore it for the New Year.
On the first day of the Lunar New Year, my mother-in-law didn't wear that dress, but still wore the old smock, and some neighbors came to pay New Year's greetings and said, why didn't I wear new clothes for the New Year, and my mother-in-law said that my son spent so much money on getting married, how could I have the money to buy new clothes?
I felt very uncomfortable, but I couldn't ask her in front of the neighbors, and when the neighbors left, I said, "Mom, why don't you wear the new clothes I bought for you?"
My mother-in-law said that it is not convenient to wear it at home, so I will wear it when I go to your uncle's house to pay New Year's greetings after the New Year.
But until the Spring Festival passed, my mother-in-law didn't wear that dress.
In the winter of the following year, my eldest sister's family gave birth to their second child, and my mother-in-law and I went to visit and found that my eldest sister's mother-in-law was wearing a woolen sweater that was exactly the same as the one I sold to my mother-in-law.
I smiled and said, Auntie's dress is very familiar, the same as the one I bought for my mother-in-law last year.
My sister's mother-in-law smiled and said, Then your sisters have the same vision, this woolen sweater was bought for me by my daughter-in-law, and this is what she said, and I am wearing it a little bigger.
My sister's mother-in-law is thinner than my mother-in-law, and she wears fatter clothes.
My sister's and mother-in-law's faces were unnatural, and my mother-in-law said, there are many of the same clothes, but they are not the same, and mine is still in the kitchen.
It's really three hundred taels of silver here, did I say that the clothes worn by my aunt and mother-in-law were bought by me for my mother-in-law?
It's just that my mother-in-law never wore that dress, and I never mentioned it again, and I never bought clothes for my mother-in-law again.
When my son was 3 years old, I had an ectopic pregnancy, and when I came home after the operation, my mother bought me a free-range chicken and asked me to cook chicken soup to drink.
My mother-in-law brought me a bowl of chicken soup, and said that the chicken was so small that I couldn't see the meat after boiling it.
I said, I'll just drink the soup and give the chicken and drumsticks to my son.
A bowl of soup, with a chicken head, two chicken feet, and a chicken skeleton, looks like a lot, but there is hardly any meat.
After my son came back from school, I said that I would ask my grandmother to bring you chicken legs to eat, but my mother-in-law said that there was no more, and the chicken legs were all dismantled, and I didn't care.
Two days later, my eldest sister came to my house with her children, and after saying a few words to me, my mother-in-law called me out, saying that it would not affect my rest.
I thought that the two children were coming and buying them something delicious, so I slowly got up and wanted to get some money for my mother-in-law to buy it.
As a result, in the kitchen, I saw my sister's two children, one holding a chicken leg and nibbling, and my sister was holding a bowl full of chicken!
My mother-in-law was a little embarrassed when she saw me, and said that you had the rest the day before yesterday, and your sister didn't eat breakfast, so she let them eat first!
I didn't speak, I turned around and left, the old saying is right: mother-in-law is not mother, not the meat that fell from her body, she won't feel distressed!
If you think about it, there are a lot of such things!To tell the truth, since my father-in-law passed away, my mother-in-law has been supporting me in my house, and she has helped me a lot.
Doing housework, babysitting, picking up and dropping off children, and sometimes helping me with laundry and cooking. It's just that in her heart, I'm just an outsider after all!
Since I am an outsider, anything from my mother-in-law, I can just take care of the big picture, and I don't have to dig out my heart and lungs anymore.
My husband blamed me for not caring about my mother-in-law, but no matter what, I used to treat my mother-in-law as a relative, but what about my mother-in-law, she never regarded me as a relative!
In the end, my mother-in-law didn't go to the hospital, she said that her children were busy and didn't have time, and it didn't matter to me whether they were busy or not, and her own children didn't count on what her daughter-in-law would do!