It is always the women who suffer from the Cold War. Because after having children, a woman in marriage will always be more constrained and tolerate more parties.
In the Cold War, men can not go home, do not do housework, and ignore children, while women are ruthless and still have to go home to take care of their children.
Lily, a friend I hadn't seen for a long time yesterday at noon, asked me to dinner. She has been in a cold war with her husband for a week, and she went out early on Saturday morning before her husband and children got up. She plans to stay outside today and throw the two children to her husband for a day, so that he can also experience the taste.
Last Saturday afternoon, the two of them had a few words over a trivial matter, and Lily's husband slammed the door and went out, completely ignoring how Lily ate alone with her two children.
Lily's eldest son is in the first grade, and the youngest daughter is only two years old, so it's clingy time. Lily is cooking in the kitchen, and her daughter pulls Lily's leg for her to play with. Lily was angry and aggrieved in her heart, and her daughter was disobedient, Lily couldn't help yelling at her daughter, her daughter cried, and Lily couldn't help crying, picked up her daughter out of the kitchen, and ordered a takeout for her mother.
Lily's husband didn't come back until after eleven o'clock in the evening, and when he got up the next morning, he still didn't talk to Lily.
In the past, every time the two had a conflict, Lily took care of her eldest son and gradually became sensible, and always forbearance not to quarrel with him, and Lily spoke first when the cold war ended. But Lily found that her husband was getting more and more inches, so this time Lily made up her mind, as long as her husband didn't take the initiative to speak and apologize, she resolutely didn't speak.
So the Cold War has been going on until now.
But Lily felt more and more that it was women who suffered from the Cold War. Since the Cold War, Lily has made up her mind to take care of her children and herself. But even if she no longer washes her husband's clothes and collects his clothes, she still has to cook.
My mother-in-law is not very good at cooking, and the two children don't like to eat, so in addition to lunch, Lily cooks breakfast and dinner at home. has a cold war with her husband, but Lily can't even cook her mother-in-law's food, right?What's more, even if he cooks his mother-in-law's food, he still has to take care of the children and help with homework, while a man can go out to eat and drink every day until he comes back in the middle of the night.
I said Lily, you don't care about the childLily said that it was not that she hadn't tried before, but her husband would still throw the two children to her mother-in-law, and her mother-in-law couldn't cook, couldn't help with homework, and it was the two children who were wronged in the end.
Moreover, both children are clinging to their mothers, and Lily is ruthless to care about the children after all.
So the state of the Cold War is that her husband goes out to eat and drink and does not come home, and Lily takes care of the children and does housework as usual.
Therefore, Lily said, only now do I realize that the longer the Cold War, the more women suffer losses.
She finally knew why her husband was cold at every turn.
Therefore, a woman is weak in marriage after all, because children are her weakness.