Once a girl is enlightened, her life will be very cool

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In the past, I was a very ordinary girl, dressed in dirt, with a sallow face, procrastination, and unclear logic. Now I am a neat worker, my aesthetics have improved a lot, and my face has become a lot whiter.

It seems that people will always go through a period of hardship before they get enlightened, although I am not a very good person now, but compared to my previous self, it is already great.

Yunyue combined her own experience and the characteristics around her, and summarized the 10 characteristics of girls' enlightenment, and wished everyone to open their minds as soon as possible and achieve a counterattack.

01 Improve execution.

Don't just think and don't do it, be a giant in thought and a dwarf in action. When I was in college, I had a roommate who wanted to take both the public exam and the graduate school entrance examination, but she never took action, and every time she was improvised, she was improvising before the exam, and the final result was not satisfactory.

The unity of knowledge and action, there will be gains only if there is pay. So, if you want to achieve something, act immediately, don't procrastinate, don't be lazy.

02 Finish is more important than perfection.

Finish first, then perfect, throw away perfectionism.

In the past, I always had to do my best, and I was still not satisfied with my homework after changing it over and over again, and my score was not as high as that of my classmates. When encountering competitions, I always want to think about whether I can do a good job and get a good ranking, and finally I feel that my ability is not enough, so I give up.

This mentality has caused me to miss out on many opportunities to grow, and sometimes it has wasted time and made me very irritable inside.

The pursuit of perfection shows that we have high expectations of ourselves, but few people can do everything perfectly, within our ability, just do our best to accomplish it, and don't torture ourselves.

03 Love yourself.

Loving oneself is not to think that you are the most perfect, but to accept one's imperfections and still appreciate oneself. As the saying goes: loving yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.

No one is perfect, but everyone is unique. The earth will turn without you, if you fall ill, other colleagues will take over you, nothing is more important than health, so you have to love yourself

04 Invest in yourself.

Smart people know how to invest in themselves.

Invest in exercise to make yourself healthier;

Invest in outfits to enhance your clothes;

Invest in your mind and make yourself better;

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05 Pay attention to the present and do not have internal friction.

Don't regret the past, and don't be anxious about the future.

In the past, I was prone to internal friction, especially when I made mistakes, I would think about it all day long, resulting in myself not being able to eat, sleep, and I was also easily anxious about the future.

In fact, the reason why you are anxious is because you haven't done enough, and your talent can't support your ambition. When you focus your energy and time on the things in the moment and concentrate on getting them done, you will feel fulfilled and slowly become confident.

I would like to send you a quote that I like very much:Do a good job in March and April, ** month has its own answer.

06 I don't care what others think of me.

I am often annoyed by other people's opinions, and other people's words, actions, and even glances make me think for a long time.

Now, I'm trying to Xi a mentality: It's about your, and I find that I'm much happier. Be yourself boldly and bravely, don't care too much about what others think of you, and you'll have a lot of fun!

07 Learn to set up people and become indifferent.

Establishing a character is not to let you pretend, but to learn to put away your edge and kindness, otherwise you will be easily used or hurt.

I am an iron hanhan in front of my acquaintances, and I am a socially phobic girl who talks little and is not very gregarious in front of my colleagues. The colleague who joined the company with me, she gave people the feeling that she was a social cow and easy to talk, so what work she usually had, the leader asked her to do it first, and I could always escape because of this, which is the benefit of setting up a person.

08 Be an emotionally stable person.

Emotional stability is so important!

I've always been a very irritable person, especially before my period or when a lot of things pile up, I will become irritable and lose my temper easily, so it is easy to hurt the people around me and easily get into trouble for myself.

09 Learn to be alone.

To be alone is to be with your own soul, and I prefer the silence of a group of people to the excitement of a group.

When I was in college, I almost always went to the cafeteria and the library by myself, and when I was alone, I was able to talk to myself and look inward for strength.

10 Learn to say no.

When you don't want to do something, be sure to say no to your face, don't feel embarrassed, think about yourself first, and then think about others.

In the past, whenever someone asked me for help, I would almost always say yes, because I always didn't have the courage to refuse. But sometimes it brings me a lot of trouble, and sometimes I have to do it even though I'm resistant to itSometimes when I don't do what I promised someone, I fall into self-blame.

Now, I've developed a mindset that it's my business. As long as I'm not willing to help, I'll just say no, and it's none of my business anyway, so I won't have a psychological burden, so I recommend everyone to try it

When a person stands on tiptoe to look at the sun, no one can stop him. I hope that everyone can work hard without brute force, achieve counterattack, and become a better version of themselves.

Good night end-

About the Author. Listen to Yunyue, a post-00s girl who focuses on sharing dry goods for growth, cognitive improvement, and self-improvement, and looks forward to making progress with you