A classmate who settled in Shanghai wanted to go back to his hometown of Shaoyang to do business, although there were more Shaoyang classmates, but he did not take the initiative to contact anyone alone. However, he still mentioned it in the group of classmates, saying when to come to Shaoyang, the interesting thing is that the classmates collectively lost their voices, not to mention that Shaoyang classmates are classmates from other places and no one answered, 2 hours later, he himself sighed in the group: The world is as short as a spring dream, and human affection is as thin as autumn clouds.
Is that really the case?I think the first thing is that this classmate is not self-aware. Friends are equal, and you are not a social elite, a popular star, why can you respond to a casual word. Secondly, this classmate doesn't know the rules of communication very well. Not to mention that it is very formal, at least you have to play **, classmates for a few years, there are always one or two who have a good time, right?If you want to go to that place, you should always take the initiative to tell your friends who you see or don't see, and you can help form a game.
The famous writer Mo Yan once sighed: "After retirement, I found that any colleagues, classmates, and friends are all passers-by in life, and they will eventually be wiped out. ”
Walking on the edge of life, we can find:
Life is like a one-way train, some people get on the train, some people get off, and the closer you get to the destination, the fewer people are on the train.
The once small hair has long been cut off, and in order to make a living, we are struggling with all the power of the flood where we can't see each other.
No matter how good the previous relationship was, no matter how inseparable the former classmates were, the relationship would fade after separation. It is rare to have a classmate relationship, which will be like Lao Lei and Lao Cao, which will last for a long time and be as warm as ever.
Once face-to-face colleagues, after separation, we may still have a ** and chat every three or five times, but with the loss of time, the number of calls will only become less and less, until there is no ** and no information.
Once friends, no matter how good the relationship is, once there is a conflict of interests, or each has a new friend, the ship of friendship will be overturned.
Lonely boat, fishing alone in the cold river and snow. Life is originally a lonely journey, time records everything, time releases everything, no matter how much it is difficult to settle, it will eventually return to the endless barrenness. Since adults know that it is normal for people to go to tea and cool, why should we care about the indifference between classmates?Shanghai and Shaoyang are separated by thousands of mountains and rivers, and there is a lack of communication in normal times, even if we meet by chance, there is no way to regain the intimacy we once had, because we both have our own lifestyles and life circles.
Sometimes not seeing each other and not disturbing is the best respect for each other.