With the rapid evolution of society, socio-economic disparities have widened, wealth has become more unevenly distributed, and the power of the rich has gradually increased, while the poor have remained in poverty.
Many families with an annual income of less than 80,000 yuan are often labelled as "poor" or "extremely poor", and the children of these families are significantly disadvantaged compared to those born in wealthy families.
The "Law of the Poor" is a phenomenon in which parents from poor families hope that their children will be able to come out of the predicament head-on and put their future on their children's shoulders due to poor family conditions.
In the process of pursuing a change in fate, poor parents usually want their children to engage in the following three types of occupations, which is a deep "poor man's law" thinking, have you ever experienced this?
The first profession: civil servants.
As a model of "iron rice bowl", civil servants have stable jobs and generous benefits, which is a dream career for many people. In the eyes of the older generation, becoming a civil servant is basically equivalent to living a worry-free life.
However, civil servants do not have a high salary, which is fixed every month, so for children from poor families, civil servants may bring stability and social status, but they are not ideal in terms of salary, and most families who choose this profession are relatively wealthy.
The second profession: career editor.
The career editor is a member of the "iron rice bowl", including doctors, teachers and other positions, and these professions enjoy a good reputation.
Parents strongly support their children in this type of work, believing that they will ensure that their children will have a worry-free future without worrying about the risk of losing their jobs, but still have relatively low salaries and will not be able to support the whole family.
The third occupation: state-owned enterprises.
State-owned enterprises such as "State Grid", "China Tobacco", "Railway Bureau", etc., are relatively easy to hire.
However, if there is a lack of connections or special relationships in state-owned enterprises, there are fewer opportunities for promotion and may lose competitiveness in the long run.
"Iron rice bowl" has become the first choice for children from poor families.
Poor families have a simpler educational philosophy, believing that as long as their children can find a stable job after graduation, it is enough.
They expect their children to be able to choose a career with high social status and a stable income, which is the expectation of poor families.
Most of these jobs are called "iron rice bowls", especially in recent years, graduates are facing the pressure of "unemployment after graduation", which makes parents pay more attention to this kind of occupation.
In addition, poor families tend to live comfortably and do not desire to change the status quo, which can have a serious impact on children's enterprising spirit.
It is difficult to produce a noble son from a poor family".
There is Yan Ruyu in the book, and there is a ** house in the book", so far, "reading" is still the main way to change fate.
As one of the fairest exams in China, the college entrance examination is expected to change its fate in one fell swoop.
However, in the last two years, it seems that it has become increasingly difficult for students from humble backgrounds to stand out.
First of all, children born in rural areas are usually precocious due to family reasons, and although they are more sensible, they are too cautious in many matters to make bold choices.
For example, they are worried that they will not be able to take care of their home if they go out to study, so they give up the opportunity to go out to study and miss the best time.
Second, there is limited support. Urban students have access to many educational resources, such as companies and majors with good job prospects, while rural children have difficulty accessing this information, and from the starting point, rural students are in a relatively disadvantaged position.
Finally, rural children have a relatively narrow field of vision. Unlike urban children, who have the opportunity to travel from an early age and have a wider horizon, rural children are often less ambitious than urban students due to their lack of knowledge.
Final Summary: The Law of the Poor "is terrible, but if parents can break this law, children have a chance to rise above the predicament." It is better for parents not to impose their own ideas on their children, but to let them choose their own future path.
Origins are not terrible, what is really terrible is the lack of planning for the future. Only by taking control of your future can you live a life without regrets, and don't let yourself have regrets.
Today's topic: What is your profession?Have you ever been affected by the "law of the poor"?