My mother taught me to be sophisticated
1. If there are guests at home, do not clean.
2. No matter how naughty other people's children are, don't discipline them.
3. Don't praise your boyfriend in front of your single girlfriends, show affection, and show happiness.
4. The more polite you are to others, the more unkind others will be to you. Not sad, not far away.
5. Don't say hard things, don't do soft things, things can be done, words can't be said.
6. Returning the gift should be a little more than the gift money received.
7. Bring your ears and close your mouth, and know what you hear, but don't talk nonsense.
8. If a friend invites you, if something refuses, remember to have time to take the initiative to invite a friend to make up for the loss last time.
Field. 9. Ask others for help, and then do it yourself, don't forget to tell others in time, don't let the other party work in vain.
Combine. 10. People who make you feel uncomfortable when you meet for the first time are often really not good people, at least not with you.
11. Don't mix interests between friends. For example, entrepreneurial competition, etc. Human nature can't stand the test, and it's often you who put friendship on the grill. We must keep in mind: empathy does not share wealth, and the two republics do not come.
12. No matter who you go to as a guest, don't be empty-handed, bring some gifts, or people won't even have a chance to be polite to you.
13. Don't casually ask others how much money they make, higher than you, you feel uncomfortable, lower than you, he is uncomfortable.
14. The workplace is different from school, no one takes the initiative to teach you, you must learn to take the initiative to learn and take the initiative to solve problems.
15. When people meet for the first time, they will look at each other's identity and worth, and then choose whether to kneel for each other or let each other kneel for themselves.
16. When you fail, there is always a group of people who come to care about you, ask you what happened, and then leave satisfied.
17. As long as it doesn't hurt your interests, you don't need to refute what others say, and as long as it's not a personal attack on you, you don't need to pay attention to other people's opinions. The more you are afraid, the more people will bully you.
18. The relationship between people is like knitting a sweater, when weaving, it is a needle and a thread, and when it is dismantled, it will be bald as long as it is gently pulled.
19. Don't complain casually, your friend may want you to live well, but he doesn't want you to live better than him.
A beggar will not be jealous of a millionaire, but he will certainly be jealous of a beggar whose income is higher than his own.
20. People would rather see outsiders succeed, but he can't stand the success of those around him.
21. People always praise the aroma of meat when they eat meat, and scold the dishes for being dirty when they wash them.
22. When people are hungry, they will choose foods they don't like to eat. When you are lonely, you will choose someone you don't love. This is the so-called hunger does not choose food, cold does not choose clothing, panic does not choose the road, poor do not choose a wife.
23. Kind people always feel that rejecting others seems to be doing something wrong.
24. Some people, if you help him score 7 points, he often owes him 3 points.
25. Husband and wife can't see their nature when they get divorced, friends don't touch interests, and you can't see humanity.
26. Many times, in ambiguous matters, when there is a contradiction between your ideas, cognition and your boss, please put down your thoughts immediately and choose to follow the ideas and ideas of your superiors as soon as possible. Even if your boss's thinking is obviously incomplete or flawed, you should never point it out in public immediately, but mention it privately, at the right time, and tactfully. Do not do ambiguous things, to see if it is good for you. If there is neither good nor harm in doing something ambiguous or not, then don't meddle in it. The workplace has always been like this, the more you do, the more you make mistakes, the more you make mistakes, and the more you get unfair evaluations!
27. If you have something in your heart, you can still do nothing, which is the pattern. If you have something in your heart and pretend to be nothing, it is experience.
The stupidest thing in the world is to reason with others.
Always remember that the location is different, and less words are more valuable. There is no need to argue about the difference in cognition. The three views do not agree, and the tongue is wasted.
Remember, all negative emotions stem from your weakness.
If the heart is small, everything is a big thing, and when the heart is big, everything is a small thing.
Life is a self-challenge: only by improving one's own pattern can one be proud of life.
The pattern determines the outcome, and the way out is determined by the way of thinking. If you want to become a big tree, don't fight with the grass, the general has a sword, and he doesn't cut mosquitoes and flies.
28. Learn to reply, if the other party puts your dignity on the ground without a bottom line and steps on it again, we must learn to fear going back, so that others will not offend you for the second time.
29. Learn to hide your words, don't talk deeply, and don't talk excessively.
30. Don't bend over and hunch over when walking, you should raise your head and chest, look ahead, and improve your temperament.
31. Don't be too demanding of your partner. Lower expectations and stay away from sensitive constitutions.
32. Learn to be decisive and refuse to be indecisive.
33. Read appropriate books, cultivate a strong heart, and reduce the situation of blushing and stage fright when talking.
34. Get in touch with new things. People with soft personalities tend to be anxious and insecure when they come into contact with unfamiliar things.