What is it like to be regarded as a spare tire by a girl?
Who wants to be considered a spare tire?Humans are inherently possessive, and even the presence of an ex can lead to decades-long scheming, let alone in the presence of a "main room". Next, I will take stock of the top five signs that girls see you as a spare tire!See how many of them meet?
Warm as fire when needed, cold as ice at ordinary times.
If she is usually cold and indifferent to you, but only shows enthusiasm when she needs you, as if she cares about you especially and longs for you, then don't be confused, she is just taking advantage of you and doesn't actually like you. Girls who really like you have a consistent attitude towards you and are passionate at all times. She may suddenly ignore you because she is angry, but there will be no inexplicable change in attitude. A girl who likes you will not only respond to your initiative enthusiastically, but also can't help but look for you enthusiastically, which is a healthy love relationship. If she is hot and cold to you, leave her quickly, maybe she is just squeezing your interests.
Accept your efforts but don't want to admit your existence.
If a girl doesn't want to admit her relationship with you, but is willing to go out on a date, have dinner with you, and accept your gifts, it doesn't mean that she is really your girlfriend. Some girls will rely on boys for what they give them, but that doesn't mean they want to be with you, they may just use you as a spare tire. Therefore, they never open up about their relationship with you, and while accepting your kindness, it does not prevent them from finding a more qualified man. A woman who is unwilling to reject you, but also unwilling to admit you, just wants your good, not you. Therefore, it depends on whether she has the will to open up about your relationship, otherwise she may just end up using you as a spare tire.
I only know how to ask for it, but I never know how to feel distressed.
Someone who truly loves you will take you to heart and will feel sorry for your efforts. Although she may want you to spend money for her and pay for her, she will care about you afterwards, think about you, and plan for your future. However, if this girl has an ambiguous attitude towards you, but blindly takes and never gives, then please stay away from her as soon as possible. If she really loves you, she will definitely take the initiative to give for you, even if it is not material. A woman who treats you like a spare tire doesn't care about your feelings, only about her own satisfaction. She will not hesitate to leave you as soon as she finds out that you have lost your value. A woman who is sincere to you will think of you everywhere. If you accidentally fall in love with a woman who only treats you as a spare tire, even if you are reluctant, it is best to stay away as soon as possible. You can't move her, and the longer you delay, the more you will hurt yourself.
Maintain an affair with another man.
Girls who use you as a spare tire tend to use other people as spare tires as well. If she unconsciously keeps her distance from other men, and is ambiguous with other men while having an affair with you, it means that she enjoys the process and doesn't really care about you. She won't cut ties with other men for the sake of a spare tire. Even when you find out that she is having an affair with other men, she can find a legitimate excuse to perfunctory you every time.
Reluctance to establish a relationship with you.
Obviously, your relationship is no different from a couple, but she never admits your relationship and does not announce to the people around her that you are her boyfriend. Even if you confront her, she avoids it. This shows that she is not serious with you, and she does not want to bear the guilt, but likes to be with you and can continue to rely on you. There's a good chance she'll dump you when she meets someone better. Falling in love without establishing a relationship is a sign of irresponsibility.