When you reach middle age, if you can successfully survive the stage of drinking tea alone, running alone, traveling alone, and reading books alone, without being disturbed by mobile phones, social ** and noisy parties, then congratulations, you have reached the highest state of life.
At this stage, you begin to enjoy the beauty of solitude. You can quietly sip champagne and sip a classic piece of literature, or hike up the mountain and feel the peace and freedom in the lap of nature. There is no interruption, no shackles of invitations, no pressure of parties, and you can choose the way you like to live your life.
You start to value your body and health, go to bed early and wake up early, and stop staying up late. You understand that being kind to yourself is the only way to have a stronger life force. You no longer pursue fame and fortune, but you have learned to have no desires and no desires, and to pursue inner peace and peace. You have learned to let everything pass smoothly, no longer care about other people's evaluations and external interference, and just live with your heart and go with the flow.
Maybe you think that this kind of life seems lonely, but in fact it is a kind of freedom. You are not bothered by the trivial things of the world, and you no longer worry about them, because you know that only inner peace and contentment are true happiness. You gradually find your sense of belonging and inner peace along the road of life.
The fewer friends, the better the day. You begin to understand that true friends are not in quantity, but in quality. You are able to identify truly trustworthy and companion friends, and you are entangled in the unfinished relationships around you, and you would rather choose to share this wonderful stage of life with a few true friends. The fewer friends you have, the fewer bad things you have, and the more you can focus on what you love and enrich your inner world.
When you are in a mediocre financial situation and do not have special status and power, you are better able to understand that material things are not the source of happiness. You learn how to live a simple and satisfying life with limited resources. You begin to focus on inner satisfaction and spiritual pleasure rather than being swayed by external material things.
The highest state of life is to know how to enjoy the beauty of solitude, and to have inner peace and contentment. When you can face life with a free and easy attitude, you will truly find your own happiness. Whether it's drinking tea alone, running, traveling, or reading a book quietly by yourself, these are your unique dates with yourself, a kind of praise and pampering for your heart. Only when you learn to enjoy this tranquility and simplicity alone can you appreciate the true meaning of life.