If you beat and suffer a lot, you will naturally have wisdom.
To be a man, you don't need to be too smart, and even smart people are more likely to be "mistaken by smartness". To be able to make as few mistakes as possible and not to make the same mistake is already "great wisdom".
1. The value of a thing depends on the price paid to obtain it. The easier it comes, the less it will be cherished.
2. Communicate with people you don't know, and being "stereotyped" is the safest way. Joking and making a voice are likely to cause disgust from others.
3. When people reach middle age, it is understandable to work as security guards, run takeaways, and work as general workers in order to make a living. But at the same time, it should be clear that its own upward channel may also be closed because of this.
4. "Pretending to be a grandson" is a technical job, not only to pretend well and pretend, but more importantly: to find the "grandfather" who can give benefits in the vast sea of people.
5. No one is obliged to help you, and those who can help you should be cherished. If someone else has helped you, whether it is successful or not, you must express your gratitude materially.
6. "Benefit" is the purpose of interpersonal interactions, if you can't bring value to him, don't waste each other's time and feelings.
7. Poverty is the backing of "ruthlessness". When you are poor, you are sharp and bold, and the result is not much worse. Once you have a harvest, you have more scruples, and you can only be cautious in your words and deeds, and walk on thin ice.
8. When repaying other people's money, even if you didn't say it in advance, you should take the initiative to add interest, whether it is someone else's business.
9. There are only two kinds of words that successful people say: one is to put gold on their faces, and the other is to guide others to deviate.
10. Seeing through is a kind of ability, and not saying through is a kind of wisdom. Seeing through and not saying through is a kind of respect and understanding for others, and it is also a kind of protection for oneself.
11. Any interruption has a price. If you don't have to, don't bother others;If you disturb others, you have to bear this favor.
12. It's best not to say bad things, and if you have to say bad things, say them to your face. Good things to say in front of you and behind your back. Boasting behind people's backs is often easier to believe than flattering people in person.
13. There is no such thing as "right thing or wrong person", the more you say this, the more it is aimed at you.
14. The barriers of social circles are very hard and can only be broken layer by layer. People with a salary of 5,000 should not deliberately make friends with people with a salary of 50,000.
15. The so-called competition is not about who is more powerful, but who makes fewer mistakes. When you do it right, no one remembers, and when you do it wrong, even breathing is wrong.