It can be said that most people are very anxious after a breakup, and they are always worried that the other party will really run away after a short time late.
In a sense, your worries are rightBecause there are indeed all kinds of uncertainties and accidents in the recovery. You can think about it, two people who were still in love with each other in the last second said that they would break up, such an unexpected thing happened, and after the breakup, the other party is not under your control, and it is very possible to find a new love immediately.
So, your fears are not unreasonable.
But, I'm going to start saying but, these things don't seem to have anything to do with your redemption!
Some people will refute me: How can it be irrelevant, if the other party finds a new love, how can I get it back?
Here I will ask you a rhetorical question: If the other party finds a new love, won't you get it back?
Let me tell you a story that might inspire you:
Once upon a time, there was a person who was worried that the sky would fall at any time, so he couldn't sleep well and eat well every day.
Then his friend went to enlighten him: the sky is a pile of qi, and he is active in the sky all day long, and there is no need to worry that the sky will fall.
The man also said, "If the heavens are gas, will the sun, moon and stars fall?"
His friend continued: "The sun, moon and stars are just glowing things, and it's okay to fall down."
And he said, What if the earth falls?
His friend continued: "The earth is made up of clods of earth that fill all sides, and you are moving around the earth all day, and you are worried about something."
I believe you have heard this story, called: Worrying about the sky.
I often say that feelings are also a part of lifeMany of the truths in life are very applicable in relationships, and the same is true of the topic we are talking about today, you are always impatient to redeem it, and you are always worried that the other party will run away when it is late, which is a bit similar to worrying about the sky.
Because in your fantasies about your ex, there are many things that you build out of fear, so it's no different from worrying about the sky, worrying about messy things.
Including our content today, is there a good time to redeem?
Why is this topic also useless?
We have an old saying, don't do porcelain work without diamonds, another interpretation of this sentence means, that is, you have diamonds before you think about porcelain work.
When it comes to our recovery, I will tell you a very heart-wrenching factIt is in the whole process of your redemption, you will actually encounter many opportunities to recover, but many people can't get the diamond diamond they deserve, resulting in your chances being missed again and again.
So all things considered, do you think the opportunity is important, or is your ability to seize the opportunity important?
What I want to express is also very simple, you are in the process of redemptionDon't reverse the order, when it comes to seizing the moment, the truth is that the opportunity to redeem often appears, but you never have the ability to redeem.
And to put it more heart-wrenching, if you have the ability to recover, in fact, you don't need to wait for the opportunity to appear, you will dig and create opportunities, you are ready, and a small opportunity can be expanded;If you are not prepared, a great chance will be lost to you.
Do you think it's important to redeem the moment now?Listen to me, it doesn't matter at allI've never heard of anyone who breaks up and does nothing and can be reconciled just by waiting for the chance. On the contrary, I know that many people have made their own efforts to improve their abilities in all aspects, and finally redeemed their success.
If you want to win back successful friends, always put yourself first, and if you improve, there will be many opportunities waiting for you ahead.
Redemption