Many people just drink too much emotional chicken soup and feel that love can overcome everything, and the other party breaks up with them, but they don't love anymore;If the other person still loves himself, he will definitely turn back;There are so many excuses for breaking up, they are all unloved.
These chicken soups may sound like there is some truth, but each sentence is wrong, and it just takes advantage of your emotions after the breakup to make you resonate.
In fact, love is not as mysterious as everyone thinks, love is also a kind of science, and there are many scientists who are studying "love" and have come to a lot of conclusions about "love".
What I'm going to share with you today is one of those conclusionsIt's that love is not continuous, love is more like a momentary moment.
You can think about it, will you always love each other during the process of getting along?I'm talking about non-stop, and I guess most people will say no.
In the process of your relationship, you must have thought about breaking up, even if you are in love, many people may occasionally have one or two inappropriate thoughts. This is what true love looks like.
I've said it many times before, love is a feeling, and since it's a feeling, there must be ups and downs, which means that you can't maintain the same concentration of deep love for each other.
From this, we can draw another conclusionIf you want to maintain a relationship, you can't rely on feelings alone, because relationships are very unreliable.
A psychologist has also made a similar report, that is, when two people get along together, what determines whether you are satisfied with each other in this relationship is often not love, but the details of how you deal with the relationship. If you are interested, you can check it yourself.
So if you are in love, after you finish reading what I said today, you should leave behind your fantasies, don't feel that the other party is in love with you now, you can not pay attention to the details of your relationship, in this case, the breakup is not far from you.
We will see the breakup of many male friends, and they will not give up completely because of a certain dissatisfaction, but are generally disappointed in many small details, and through the accumulation of these different small details, the final breakup will be caused. It is very consistent with these scientific theories.
Female friends will have a lot of emotional breakups, but most of these are fake, and women who really decide to break up will generally consider the details of getting along after careful consideration.
In addition to being in love, these theories can also be applied in our redemption.
If you think about it, if the other party breaks up with you at this time, it means that they are dissatisfied with you, and the emotional concentration has also decreased.
If you particularly want to rely on emotional concentration to redeem at this time, and you use your previous feelings to kidnap them, what do you think of the effect?It's definitely not ideal, you don't handle the details well when you redeem it, so that the other party is not satisfied, or you want to separate from you.
Or, if your ex told you that he was very ruthless and said that he would never love you again in his life, do you think it is credible?The same is not credible,Because love is ups and downs, dissatisfaction with you at this stage does not mean that you are still dissatisfied in the futureAs long as you get it right in the details, the other party will change their opinion.
Finally, to sum up, today's popular science content is to let you deepen your understanding of feelingsDon't think that love can solve all the problems between you, what can really solve the problem is your control of the details of getting alongThis is the direction you should focus on.
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