As the old saying goes: "A noble son comes from a poor family".
However, a closer look at the proverb reveals that this proverb reflects the importance that people have attached to education for a long time, and pinned on people's beautiful expectations for getting rid of poverty through hard work and struggle in order to realize their own values. If you have a stable job and can support your wife and children, you can get out of the "cold door", and the protagonist Dai Zi can barely reach it.
In the 90s of the last century, Dai Zi was born in a small rural village in S Province, and his ancestors made a living from farming.
In that era when the concept of "unfilial piety has three, no queen is the greatest, raising children to prevent old age" prevailed, Dai Zi became the second member born in this new family after his sister.
Dai Zi's parents have the simple and simple characteristics that a farmer should have. Their ancestors did not leave them a rich family property, and their new home relied on the bricks and tiles of their brothers and sisters to erect it, and they didn't even dare to think about tiling, and the walls were covered with all kinds of old newspapers, and they didn't even have basic electricity.
And Dai Zi's father had to drop out of school because the family had no money, and when he married Dai Zi's mother, he didn't have a heavy bride price, but just bought a few decent clothes for the woman, and the two got married in a hurry.
After getting married, Dai Zi's father went to a foreign place alone with his enthusiasm, and was fortunate to be able to send some money to the family from time to time to subsidize the family;Daizi's mother farms a few acres of land at home and takes care of the children by the way.
Daizi's mother was still doing farm work in the field until she gave birth, looking at the sparse peanut seedlings in the field, she couldn't help but feel a little more sad, but when she looked at her belly, her eyes were full of the brilliance of maternal love.
Wow!Wow!Wow!Dai Zi came to this new world with a loud "trumpet". Different from the current way of parenting, there are no diapers that cannot be changed, there are no milk powder cans that cannot be counted, and there are no various complementary food products.
Dai Zi only had a handful of diapers, and Dai Zi's mother was afraid that the child would pee on the only mattress, so she also separated a plastic sheet between the diaper and the mattress.
Time flies, Dai Zi from a baby waiting to be fed, slowly learned to turn over, stand, toddler, and then run fast in every corner of the village, three or five friends gathered together, at the village goose ** "charge", "quack" cry resounded throughout this small village.
In his childhood, Dai Zi had no shortage of understanding of the big and small affairs in the village, whose apples were ripe, whose cucumbers were delicious, whose cows gave birth to calves, and whose family cooked meat ......It can be said that Daiko's childhood was happy.
Since Dai Zi was five years old, he stayed at his grandmother's house almost during the day, because his father and mother, who no longer went to other places, had to work in the fields. "Grandma, I'm thirsty. "Grandma, I'm hungry. "Grandma, I want to eat instant noodles. "Grandma, I want to eat meat. ”
In Daizi's opinion, grandma is omnipotent. Dai Zi, who stayed at her grandmother's house, lived very comfortably, wanted to eat, sleep, sleep, and played, unrestrained, and did not have the "harassment" of tutoring classes and interest classes.
However, the doll always has to start school. Dai Zi's path to study was quite smooth, and his grades in primary school were good, but because he was addicted to game consoles halfway, his grades have been "tepid", but fortunately, with "later efforts", he reluctantly went to a key high school in the county.
Since he entered high school, Dai Zi has felt the difficulty of studying Xi, and his grades have been maintained at the middle level. Fortunately, Dai Zi, who was "sincerely repentant", was influenced by the classmates around him and finally stepped into the door of a school.
In this way, Dai Zi began his four-year life in college, and Dai Zi, who let himself go when he entered college, until he graduated from college, except that he did not fail the course, he no longer had the strength to study Xi in high school.
After graduation, Dai Zi couldn't resist the persuasion of his family and entered a fairly stable unit in the south, with a stable income just enough to live for a family of three.
As for the parents who do not have a pension in their hometown, they are more powerless than the whip. Fortunately, the parents are still able to support themselves, and they never ask their son for anything in return. In the third year after Dai Zi worked, his grandmother died of illness, but Dai Zi was unable to rush back in time to see the last face because he was busy with work, which will eventually become a regret in his life.
Sometimes, Dai Zi thinks: "In his life, is the life he wants at a glance?"But after settling down in a different place and having their own children, going home and staying are dilemmas after all. ”Even, sometimes, I keep asking myself, "Am I out of the woods?"”
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