It has been many years since I heard from Xiaofei, and I went home last year and saw her at her house.
The "her family" I am talking about should actually be said to be her maiden home. Xiaofei has been married for many years, and her children are all in their teens. This Chinese New Year, she brought her children to live at her parents' house.
According to the old concept, we locals can't accept that a married girl lives in her mother's house with a child for the New Year, unless there are two situations: one is to marry far away, and it is rare to come back for the New Year;Second, because of the conflict or even divorce with the man's family, he had no place to go, so he had to live in his mother's house.
Xiaofei is not married far away, I remember that her in-laws' house is in Xie Zhuang, five or six miles away, and it is very convenient to go back to her parents' house. She took her children to celebrate the New Year at her parents' house, which made me think a little about her marital status, but out of politeness and because I hadn't seen each other for many years, I couldn't help but ask.
Xiaofei wore makeup, a very thick one, with a white and miserable face, red lips, bleached golden hair, and a big wave of perm quite exquisitely. The clothes are brand new, at first glance, they have just been purchased, and looking at the eye-catching logo on it, it is a big brand - she reveals a "rich" atmosphere up and down.
After seeing me, Xiaofei twisted his waist and took the initiative to greet me, I was still as shy as when I was a child, Xiaofei smiled and said that I was still the same, and I couldn't beat a fart with three sticks.
I scratched my head and laughed. Although Xiaofei's appearance has changed a lot, her personality is still the same, spicy, and her words are full of, pee, and fart, which is extremely incommensurate with her current decent dress.
I asked her how she was doing, she brushed her long hair that was blown by the wind, and dusted off a grass stalk on her clothes that she didn't know was stained from **, "Hu D, this dog D day, one day is one day!."”
I was slightly surprised at her vulgarity!I am not surprised that such rough words come out of the mouths of the unkempt old men in the village;I felt uncomfortable, surprised, and even shocked to come out of the mouth of this fashionably dressed young mother in front of me.
We chatted about something else, nothing more than her laughing at me for being a nerd when I was studying, crying nose, and how tight my family was back then. I felt bored (and ashamed at the same time), so I excused myself to make dumplings at home, and turned around and went back.
On the way, I saw two ladies sitting at the door chatting, so I said hello, and the two ladies saw that I was chatting with Xiaofei just now, so they pulled me to sit down and talked a lot about Xiaofei's "news".
When I heard what I said, I was stunned. It turns out that today's Xiaofei has gone astray and has become the "rotten H" in the mouth of the villagers. I heard that one year, a police car drove to her door and took her away, saying that she was suspected of selling Y and would be taken back for investigation.
Later, Xiaofei's father found someone and fished Xiaofei out. This matter was known to the in-laws, Xiaofei's husband was furious and filed for divorce, and Xiaofei came back with the child.
However, usually the children are raised in their parents' house, and she goes out to work by herself, as for what kind of work, the two aunts glanced at each other, pouted, and swore and said: "Look at that posture, it is still the same job!".”
Looking in the direction I came, I was stunned. I can't help but think of the scene when I got along with Xiaofei when I was a child.
I was born in the same year as Xiaofei, I was born *** She was born in July, older than me, but according to the generation, she should call me uncle. We entered school in the same year, and we were in the same class from the first grade to the fifth grade, and when we were in the third grade, we were table mates for a year.
At that time, I was quite jealous of Xiaofei, not only because of her pungent temperament, but also because she was unreasonable. She would draw a "38 line" with chalk on the table, and once my elbow accidentally crossed it, she would prick me with a sharpened pencil, and raise her hand at every turn to report to the teacher, saying that I had crossed the line - fortunately, my grades were still good at that time, and I was honest, and the teacher mostly ignored her "nonsense".
At that time, I was not the only one who was afraid of her, and many people in the class were afraid of her and avoided her. The reason for her arrogance is because there is a third uncle who supports her. His third uncle was a soldier outside, and after he was discharged from the army, he became a family outside, and every year when he went home, he would bring a lot of things to Xiaofei, and one year he also gave her a pair of handcuffs, really the kind that once locked, unless the key is used, people can't open it.
One year, Xiaofei brought the handcuffs to school, and when he didn't agree with him, he handcuffed a boy, who was also timid and cried in fright. At this time, Xiaofei not only did not open the handcuffs, but also said happily: "I will handcuff you for a lesson, see if you dare to be disobedient!."”
Later, it was the teacher who stepped forward and forced Xiaofei to hand over the key, and the handcuffs were successfully opened. Since then, her classmates have known that she has a third uncle, who has been a soldier and can handcuff people and take them away "at will", so she obeys Xiaofei's words and does not dare to disobey.
At that time, Xiaofei was moody. One day, she happily gave me a box of colored paintbrushes, saying that we could paint together, but I didn't dare to take it, but she glared at me and asked me to catch it, so I took it carefully.
The two of them were drawing with a paintbrush next to each other, and as they were drawing, the blue paintbrush in my hand ran out of water, so I told her. Unexpectedly, her face suddenly changed, and she said viciously: "You pay!.""I'm so frightened that my face turns pale, how can I have any money to lose!She didn't give up, and she insisted that I pay for it, and my tears came out of my eyes at once.
Later, she followed me to my house, shook the brush box and told my mother that she wanted me to compensate her for the brush. My mother hurriedly ran to the commissary and bought a box of paintbrushes for her, and she threw it on the ground without looking, still unforgiving: "Don't be new, don't break, just that one!."”
My mother was a little angry and took me directly to find Xiaofei's mother. Her mother was quite reasonable, and after scolding Xiaofei twice, she dragged her home. Although the matter subsided, I was afraid to go to school for a few days. Later, my mother told the teacher that she had helped me change my seat so that I dared to go to school. But every day as soon as I get out of school, I run home, for fear of being blocked by Xiaofei.
After the fifth grade, we were divided into different classes, and later we were admitted to different junior high schools, so we saw each other less often.
When she was in junior high school, she heard that she dropped out of school because of poor grades and stayed at home all day long, so she asked her family to buy her a computer, listen to songs and play games every day, chat with netizens from all over the world, and became an idle girl. Later, I heard the news of her marriage, when I was a sophomore in high school. When I saw her again in the third year of high school, she was already pregnant, holding the eldest neck, slowly dangling at the door of the house.
After going to college, I could only go home twice a year, and I saw her even less. After work, it is even less common to see her. Gradually, she became a vague existence, and I couldn't even remember what she looked like at the mention of her name.
Now that they meet again, I didn't expect her to become like this. As I wrote this, I looked through her circle of friends again:She dresses exquisitely, goes in and out of various entertainment venues all day long, is drunk with gold, and shows all kinds of brand-name bags, like a "big star" on the Internet platform.
I have mixed feelings in my heart. Everyone is adrift in their own circumstances, Xiaofei's life is good or bad, I have no right to evaluate. It's just that I feel a little emotional when I see the domineering child who bullied me in the past living such a life. In this article, I would like to write down this person who has passed through my life.
end– vernacular proseAbout the Author
Su Baibai, male, born in the 90s, a native of rural areas in the north, is taciturn, has few friends and even fewer confidants.
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