In life, there are some things that should only exist in our own hearts, but some people are open-mouthed, and all what should be said and what should not be said are shaken out, and ignorance is really stupid. Don't tell anyone about the following three things, especially the last one that may have serious consequences, so be sure to take a few seconds to read it carefully, and you will definitely gain something after reading it.
First, let's take a look at the first thing: personal finances. Whether rich or poor, we should be cautious about our financial information. There is no doubt that money is a sensitive topic, and talking excessively about your finances in social situations can cause others to misunderstand or be jealous of you. In addition, divulging personal financial information can also make you a target for bad actors. Therefore, it is crucial to protect the privacy of personal finances.
Next, let's take a look at the second thing: personal health issues. Health is one of everyone's most valuable assets, but not all health issues are suitable for sharing with others. There is an example of my neighbor Granny Li, who has a chronic disease of hepatitis B, and she told others about it when she was walking around the community, but instead of sympathy, the mother-in-law in the community stayed away from her, causing unnecessary worry. In the perception of the older generation, hepatitis B is an infectious disease, so the mothers-in-law in the community are afraid to approach Granny Li, resulting in Granny Li not wanting to find someone to talk to in the community, and everyone is alienated from her. Therefore, we should be cautious about choosing to share our health concerns with others and keep them private.
Finally, let's take a look at the third thing: the private family problem. Family is one of the most intimate and intimate areas of a person. Whether it's marital issues, family disputes, or troubles in intimate relationships, these should be considered personal privacy and not appropriate for public discussion with others. It is said that the ugliness of the family should not be publicized, and you said that you want to get the sympathy of others or what do you say about your own contradictions?I'm afraid it will bring more escalation of contradictions, and become a joke for others to discuss after dinner. Some people are just open-mouthed, and even say what their men can't bear, lest the world don't know. It's no wonder that such an open-mouthed person doesn't suffer in the end.
Everyone said, does it make sense?
Do you have such people around you?