I still remember when I left my first official job, my former boss told me:It is not necessary to have meaning in life, you have to learn to enjoy meaningless things. At the time, this sentence was particularly outrageous to me. It didn't fit in with the way I was in my early twenties. At that time, I wished I had a label of meaning attached to everything, I was afraid of waste, I was afraid that I would not be able to produce value, I was afraid that there was nothing on my agenda to do today. I spent almost all of my 10 years between 20 and 30 years old. Because I cared too much about whether every day was meaningful, my whole body was tense and sensitive, sometimes inferior and sometimes arrogant, and I couldn't accurately find my place in the world, like an unbalanced tumbler.
It wasn't until I turned 30 that my condition gradually improved. I pondered what had made me change, and finally realized that three years of intermittent home life and a lover who knew how to enjoy life were the key. The former gave me greater curiosity and desire, and the latter taught me to stop being ashamed of enjoying light-hearted moments. 
I accidentally swiped this picture on the Internet that day, and it suddenly made me think about what to summarize in this year's year-end summary. Perhaps it is more important for me in 2023 to tell you about the meaningless things that both of us have done. Then next, please enjoy our 9 of them this yearMeaningless momentsBar:
* This day is very ordinary, when we rode to the river after dinner to walk, the freshness of owning a motorcycle has not passed, I sat in the back seat and took a short **, from which this picture is taken. I loved that moment, as if nothing mattered except for the evening breeze on a summer night. ▼
At the beginning of the year, we stayed at Railay Beach in Krabi for a few days. The picture shows the day we went hiking, and there was a very big tree behind us, and after the shooting, we realized that we didn't take pictures of the tree at all, which was a bit funny. But it doesn't matter, after all, it's more important to remember with your eyes. ▼
We went to Chiang Mai just in time for Songkran. In those days, as long as I went out, I would be watered, and my underwear had never worked for a day. So the two of us took a picture before going out** to encourage each other to avoid other people's big basins today. As a result, he naturally did not escape, and he was blind to this self-encouragement. (As an aside, gastroenteritis in Thailand caused me to lose weight!)）▼
This photo was taken from a homestay cabin on the way to the middle side of the Kumano Kodo. At that time, there was no one else in a radius of five kilometers but the two of us, and because the experience was so special, I set up a tripod to record this moment. We are like a clumsy mountain couple, enjoying a sudden sunset. ▼
This is a commemorative photo in front of the largest torii gate in Japan. At that time, we walked along the hiking trail to the Kumano Hongu Taisha Shrine in Wakayama, and we were asked by passers-by to leave this **. I liked it very much, I didn't expect the passer-by uncle to shoot so well, like getting an unexpected gift. ▼
I like this **, it looks stupid and a little cute hahahaha. Before the fall began, we went to the pool at Lake Youth Park. Actually, when I was a kid, I always went to the water park there, but this was the first time I grew up. The little elephant slide in my memory has changed, and I am still a little sad. ▼
This is the year we ran the Spartan 21km Beast Race together. I didn't expect to be able to do it relatively easily, and even I was shocked. I like this one because we look a lot like playmates, like we're playing a game of It Takes Two. ▼
On Baifu's birthday, we took her to Matianling for hiking and camping. I wanted to say let's take the puppy to see the stars, but it was cloudy that night, and we poked our heads out of the tent and saw nothing. But everything is still beautiful, the puppies love us, and we love the puppies. ▼
This one is our second day of trekking in Amabeng. After walking the line of the glacial lake that crosses Nisser, we lay down on the Niser farm and bask in the sun. Looking into the distance, you can see snow-capped mountains, you can also see the woods, and when the breeze blows, it is as beautiful as in a Zelda game. In fact, after flipping through the photo album, I found that there are far more beautiful meaningless moments than these nine, but these nine are enough to represent all. My 2023 look back looks like a road paved with many fallen leaves, each with its own trajectory and texture, which has fallen and become another trace of life. Meaninglessness must mean another kind of meaningfulness. Time will always slow down to bring this answer, so there's no need to rush.
Another thing I would like to discuss about in 2023 is love . When I talk about it as a whole, I think it's huge. It's like looking up at an incomparably tall ancient tree, with so many branches that you can't grasp any leaf to see its full picture. Now the way I look at it is much more relaxed. Love is not just grandiose, more often than not, it is like a soft label attached everywhere in life. On the back of a kitten and a puppy, on the lips of a lover and on the surface of favorite things, love is everywhere. The reason why I mention this is because I have started writing books again, and I have even written tens of thousands of words, and nearly half of the manuscript is completed. I still remember the last time I wrote a book manuscript was when Pa and I first fell in love, and more than four years have passed, and all my girlish thoughts have become romantic narratives of long-term intimacy, and everything has a more concrete expression.
Ideally, I'll be able to close it in January, and I'll try to get it in the middle of the year. Anyway, this book is written for all friends who are longing for a long-term intimacy. Maybe you can be instantly impressed by many of the pictures in it. Well, I won't sell it before I finish it, in short, once it's online, I'll come and tell you about it!Okay, that's probably all for my year-end summary. All in all, this should be my 11th year-end summary, and it does surprise me that one thing has lasted so long.
Back in the day, I just wanted to keep track of what I did during the year, when I only thought of work as the only measure of growth. Now that the year is over, I find that I can only remember how I felt about a few romantic moments of the year. I also don't want to make too concrete wishes for 2024, the gift of life always comes suddenly. Enjoy life, lie under the tree, maybe the apple will always fall.
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