Hi, I'm Ai Hee.
The good-looking skins are the same, and the interesting soul is one in a million. A good-looking and temperamental girl can really be seen at a glance in the crowd, and this kind of girl can really quickly attract people's attention.
Of course, at first glance, they must be attracted by their appearance, but after looking at them twice, you will find that it is precisely the confident and elegant light that they exude on their bodies that will make the whole person look "expensive", and people can't help but look at it twice.
So what is it that keeps them "expensive"? Next, Ai Xi shares with you 10 Xi habits of girls who look "expensive".
01.Educated
A girl can not be beautiful, she can be ordinary, she can be dull, but she can't be uneducated.
There is a female colleague in the company, sometimes when she can't sleep at noon, she will move the chair lightly, or lift it directly without making a sound, trying not to disturb others to rest. This colleague's empathetic attitude made me think she was very cultured.
This kind of person's words and deeds make people feel comfortable and respected, and not only enhance their own value and charm, but also infect the people around them.
As the ancient Greek philosopher Heraclitus said:"Cultivation is the second sun of the cultured person. "If the sun gives life, then upbringing gives a soul to a person"The second sun"。
02.Keep exercising and fitness
The girls in the office have changed from loving shopping malls to loving iron. A long-term fitness person gains more than just changes in weight, body fat, and muscle.
Sports and fitness can make girls stronger inside, have a strong aura, and become more confident, these qualities can be expressed through facial expressions or movements, and wealthy women are more attractive.
03.Wear neat and clean clothes and wear light makeup
Appearance is a person's first business card, wearing the right clothes, wearing the right light makeup, can make people exude confidence and vitality.
Wear light makeup every day, you don't need to wear heavy makeup, and you don't need to be too exaggerated, it's just simple. Make sure your hair doesn't look greasy and messy. Decent and clean clothes don't need to be expensive, but they must be clean and tidy.
04.Know how to control your emotions
Yang Jiang said: "Everyone has a spiritual conscience, and often restraining oneself with a spiritual conscience is self-cultivation. ”
After losing their temper, many girls casually explain that "I have a bad temper", thinking that one sentence can make others accept their bad temper.
And people who can manage their emotions well are not only responsible for themselves, but also responsible for the people around them. When everyone has emotional impulses, we need to know how not to be swayed by our emotions. Learn to perfect your personality and control your emotions!
05.High sense of worthiness
I want every girl to believe from the bottom of her heart: "I deserve a better life, I deserve the best".
Girls are really more likely to underestimate themselves, and sometimes they feel that they are unworthy and unworthy, and this sense of low worthiness is an obstacle that hinders the growth and development of girls.
If you want to, go for it, give up if it's not suitable, solve problems when you encounter them, and accept things that can't be changed.
06.Always be confident
Sophia Loren once said, "A woman who lacks self-confidence will never have the beauty to attract others." There is no force that makes a woman appear beautiful more than self-confidence. ”
Truly confident women may not have a beautiful face or a graceful figure, but they have the confidence and freedom released from their bones. Self-confidence is undoubtedly a valuable quality for women.
Confident women, gestures, smiles, all exude the fragrance of life. This confident beauty will become more and more glorious with age and the accumulation of years.
07.Mental independence
Girls have played many roles in this life, being daughters, wives, and mothers. No matter which role you play, don't lose yourself, don't lose yourself, but be a mentally independent, not swayed by the outside world, and be yourself firmly.
No matter what stage of life you are, don't set limits for yourself, act immediately if you want to do anything, and when others deny you, hit you, and think you can't do it, you tell yourself in your heart that I can.
08.Elegant posture
A good posture can determine a girl's sense of luxury. The beauty is not in the skin, not in the bones, not fighting or grabbing, the body is light, and the eyebrows are light and ethereal.
A person's posture is ugly, even if he wears the most exquisite makeup and noble clothes, at a glance, he will be wiped out in the crowd. Like many young people nowadays, lying down and playing with their mobile phones, sitting at the computer for a long time, etc., will affect a person's posture changes.
09.Low-key and not ostentatious
The better the person, the more low-key.
As Yi Shu wrote in his work "Round Dance":
A truly temperamental lady never shows off everything she has, she doesn't tell people what books she has read, where she has been, how many clothes she has, what jewelry she has bought, because she has no inferiority complex. ”
This kind of girl has a rich heart, self-confidence, connotation, not impetuousness or publicity.
10.Speak appropriately
Growing up, I always envied others for being able to talk on the podium, but I was at a loss. Talking, really sparkling in the crowd.
Good expression is never innate, which is inseparable from our acquired Xi and accumulation, you can watch more documentaries, speeches, and read more books.
It takes time and effort to become a "expensive" girl, but as long as you pay attention to details, maintain self-confidence, be positive and optimistic, and insist on self-cultivation, you will definitely be able to stand out from the crowd and show an elegant and noble temperament. No matter the occasion, you can show your best self and become an unforgettable girl.