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When people reach middle age, they have opened up a lot, and they are no longer like young people, fighting for a little interest. I won't bargain for a little conflict, even with the people around me.
Because they know that being too entangled with such a person will only bring unnecessary trouble to themselves.
When a person reaches middle age, the more experience he has, the more mature he becomes. Therefore, when I get along with people, I also know how to get along with people.
However, if you meet the following three types of people after middle age, then you must know how to fight them.
Otherwise, not only will you be seriously hurt by them, but you will also suffer while dealing with them.
It is said that many people have a bad life because they gossip behind their backs and spread rumors.
Therefore, if you meet someone who likes to gossip and spread rumors behind your back, you must know how to ridicule each other.
Because this kind of person is not only unreliable, he will spread rumors in front of you, then he will also spread rumors in front of others.
What's more, if you don't know who this person is, you're likely to be corrupted by him. Also, this kind of person gossiping behind your back may disappoint you.
For example, when someone reveals a rumor to him, he will not hesitate to shift the blame to you. Even if you don't say it, it's likely that others will suspect you when they see you dating this person.
Gossiping and spreading rumors behind one's back is a shameful thing and immoral. Therefore, after meeting such people, we must know how to oppose them.
When people reach middle age, no one wants to owe money to others, but if someone borrows money and doesn't pay it back, we need to know how to fight them.
When people reach middle age, life is not easy, especially to help others borrow money for emergencies, let alone borrow money.
Therefore, do not condone those who do not pay back the money, and must not be soft on their behavior. Because your indulgence may cause you more trouble.
For example, if you have a few friends, and one of them A borrows your money and doesn't pay it back, and you go to collect the debt, the other party not only says that you are stingy, but may even give your money to B, C, D and others, adding fuel to the fire.
Then encourage them to borrow money from you as well. Do you want to borrow or not to borrow?
Don't borrow money, friends who listen to rumors will think you're stingy;Borrow it, your heart aches and you can't bear it, even if you don't have much money.
It's easy to get yourself in a lot of unnecessary trouble.
The kind of people who don't pay back the money are actually extremely selfish people, they will defend their own interests and find various reasons to evade responsibility, such people are not worthy of deep friendship.
So, if you have this kind of person around you who doesn't pay back, be sure to quarrel with them, otherwise you will be deceived by him very badly.
Everyone has their own privacy, and it is necessary to be cautious, especially when it comes to family matters. Because no one likes themselves, and family affairs are spread by others.
However, there are always people in life who like to blame others and other people's families.
If you contradict them, they will contradict you with "freedom of speech".
To be honest, this kind of person is a small person, and if you let them point fingers, it may be even deeper pain in exchange for letting them point fingers.
For example, those who have done nothing, but have been spreading malicious rumors on the Internet, they are pointed at by those cyber keyboard warriors and thus become depressed.
Therefore, if you have such people around you, then you must know how to go against them, don't accommodate them, especially when it comes to your own family, you must keep the bottom line, and don't let others gossip.
When people reach middle age, they should learn to see through many things, so when getting along with people, don't always be open to people like you did when you were young.
You have to keep your limits, it's better to keep your own principles, and don't trust other people's rhetoric and flattery, otherwise you will be bullied by others.
When you get along with people, you have to know how to keep your distance from them. Especially at this age after middle age, you must be more cautious, after all, you are the most important pillar of the family.
Especially when you meet these three types of people, you must know how to oppose them, because they are not worthy of association, and they will only hurt you with your kindness.