When we write things and express opinions on the Internet, we can often hear critical voices, voices raising the bar, all kinds of soft violence, and all kinds of Internet violence in the comment area.
The same is true in real life, when we put forward some ideas, we often hear rebuttals, and there will be many people raising the bar with us.
When we want to surpass ourselves and keep climbing upwards, there are more voices that persuade us to stay where we are.
Although these sound like positive idioms, I also have to have my own backbone, and my own feelings always come first.
As for other people's opinions and suggestions, just listen to them, don't take them too seriously.
After all, they are not immortals, they can't ** the future.
When Ma Yun, Ma Huateng, and Musk first debuted, they went everywhere to give speeches and attract investment, but they were frequently rejected and ridiculed, and all they gained were negative voices: This thing you made has no future at all!
I believe that there must be tens of thousands of people in the world who have the same talent and the same opportunities as these bigwigs, but they are too morally noble and take the dregs of the culture of "humbly admonishing" as one thing, and as a result, 99% of people choose to give up when they hear the "earnest teachings" of their predecessors in the industry, and then they are "oblivious to everyone".
It sounds like chicken soup, but that's exactly what it is.
And it's happening every day. Of course, when I say that humbly accepting advice is a bad culture, I don't mean that you should go brute and go your own way. It's that you have to know for yourself whether this matter is reliable or not, and you have to know the bottom in your own heart.
As long as you have this foundation, then even if thousands of people stop you, you have to do it.
As long as we live, as long as we are doing things, then we will hear negative voices every day, these are objective and cannot be changed.
However, we can choose which part of the information enters our brain and mind, and which part of the information goes from the left ear to the right ear.
If you don't handle negative information well, it can seriously affect your energy field and financial luck.
Below I will share with you 5 *** methods, which are through my own practice, as long as you understand with your heart and implement these principles in place, I guarantee that you are in a very happy mood every day, and the progress is rapid, and the money continues to flow to you:
When you want to progress (such as going to a big city, such as starting a business), and you have a plan in mind, don't easily discuss with people with low income or the same income.
If you are the leader and all the business is opened up by you, then the idioms of insisting on going your own way and being stubborn are compliments in most cases.
If you meet someone who likes to deny others, please break off the relationship as soon as possible.
I've come across a lot of this garbage over the years since I was a kid.
If you talk to him about any topic or express any opinion, he will habitually start by saying: You are not right, it is not like this.
Then his dog mouth would talk nonsense, and finally he found that his views were the same as mine.
But the next time someone chats with him, he still habitually denies the other party first.
This kind of person is a peerless poor ghost, and he still can't escape the fate of a poor ghost after 18 generations of reincarnation. His body is full of mildew, bad luck, and poverty, and anyone who touches the slightest breath of him will be unlucky.
And no matter what the occasion he goes, he is hated by everyone, and avoiding him is like avoiding the plague god.
If you encounter a bar, you should immediately block it.
As long as you want to find faults and want to lift the bar, then there can be endless faults to pick from.
There are only two kinds of people in this world: "creators" and "commentators".
The world is divided into two kinds of people: one is the creator and the practitioner;The other type is those who raise the bar and put forward opinions.
The latter is a very despicable, very inferior creature, they exist in the world without any value, and the purpose of their life is to find fault.
If you are a creator and a practitioner, you must be soberly aware that as long as you create a day, you will be burdened with a day's infamy, thorns or poles. It can't be avoided.
As long as you publish any article on the Internet, no matter how modest and comprehensive you write, there will be people below you who will raise the bar and pick on you.
Treat this kind of person as a brute, don't reason with them, just block them.
And don't let their message get into your mind.
My own handling of the picker is very extreme, and I block even the person who pointed out the typo to me.
There is no such thing as humility with me.
The most disgusting of all are the low-level brutes who raise bars and pick thorns, and every word that comes out of their mouths is very disgusting to look at, because they will bypass the point, pick out the irrelevant things to pick the thorns, and then be ready to argue with you.
Therefore, I will not block the people who scold my views, but I will definitely block the people who find faults, raise the bar, and find typos.
Don't get into the habit of debating.
As the old saying goes: the good do not argue, and the debater is not good. I particularly agree with this statement.
If you meet someone who raises a bar with you, if you want to reason with him and want to debate with him, then you will be miserable.
You have a word, and he has a word. You've been debating back and forth for 50 rounds, and 3 hours have passed, and you're still in a terrible mood.
As for him, he was eating instant noodles in an Internet café, and it doesn't matter if he spends another 10 hours with you, and he still has fun.
And you, can you afford it?
Not only can't you afford time, but you can't afford to spend energy.
Even if the debate ends today, every time you think about it in the future, your heart will be sick for a while. Why bother?
As soon as I see people arguing fiercely in the comment section on the Internet, I know that these two stupid dogs have extremely low income, their time is very worthless, and they don't know how to protect their emotions and energy fields.