I believe that many people have ** the show "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", its purpose is to attract more men and women to come here for a blind date, if there are more people, more people will naturally join.
Therefore, in this show, we see a lot of quirky opinions, such as the remarks that we would rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle, or that a hand-holding will cost 200,000.
Unsurprisingly, netizens ridiculed them when they made these remarks. But today we are going to talk about the protagonist not the former, but the latter. We'll dive into why she thinks the way she does, is this what she really thinks, or is the show doing it on purpose?Before she is about to leave the "Me and You" column, is her life really as happy as we imagined?After a series of twists and turns, what will her current life situation be?
Life is full of pain and challenges.
If we want to delve into the situation of the show team, then the part we need to discuss will become richer, because as a variety show, it has aroused quite a lot of discussions and controversies.
This includes the idea that everyone who recorded the show was actually actors, and every part of the show was scripted, and this view was supported and trusted by many people.
In fact, this is understandable, because the number of anti-heaven characters in this show far exceeds the number of anti-sky characters in other programs.
If it's not scripted, or more accurately, the show's effect, many people may be skeptical.
Actually, this view of the audience is acceptable. Although the large Chinese population has led to a relatively large number of eccentric groups, it is incredible to be able to bring these people together.
Not to mention, everyone has the ability to disguise, and if you don't interact with people often, it's hard to really know what the other person really isIn "Let's Date", there are many names of stars and hosts that make you feel unfamiliar. In addition, most of the guests who participated in this show signed up for themselves, and they also participated in this show to find a partner who would like to spend their lives together.
Even if it's just to get out of being single, they will go to great lengths to portray themselves as a positive one first until they succeed in revealing who they really are.
However, these unusual guests showed their true faces at the beginning of the show, which not only caused a series of controversies, but also caused more doubts about the arrangement of the program group because of some rumors that existed in the program group itself.
Zhu Zhenfang came out of a poor rural environment.
The controversial female guest is named Zhu Zhenfang, which is highly consistent with many people's speculation. She was born in a poor rural area, and the elders of the family were not all wealthy, but relied on their own hard work.
Fortunately, despite the fact that their family was not financially well-off, they were forward-looking, and even if they had only one daughter in the family, they did not show any patriarchal tendencies, and the whole family was responsible for providing for the education of the only child.
Surprisingly, to help her accumulate funds, her family borrowed money from everywhere. Seeing that they couldn't find the right person to borrow money, her parents even thought of a way to "donate blood".
Initially, Zhu Zhenfang was very surprised that her parents were able to provide this funding, because she herself was very aware of her family background, and the tuition fees at the primary school level were not particularly expensive, even if they were put together.
However, when they enter junior high school, tuition fees experience a significant increase. At this stage, despite some previous difficulties, they were still able to raise enough tuition fees, which was really a challenge for them.
At first, she even considered giving up her studies, but before she could say anything, her family had already paid for her tuition. However, after receiving the money, she had already noticed that something was wrong.
When they handed her the money, she clearly saw a scar, and in addition to that, she found a note with the words "donate blood" written on it.
Unsurprisingly, she began to think that in order to raise money for tuition, her family would actively choose to donate blood to earn money. However, most blood donation agencies are basically free of charge, and most of the funds that can be voluntarily provided are informal workshops.
The thin piece of paper further confirmed this view, and in an instant, the idea of becoming a rich man swelled in her heart.
Despite her strong desires, reality has always stood in her way like a towering mountain. Throughout her Xi journey, she has maintained a high level of focus, ensuring that every course is in the top few of the school.
Despite academic excellence, monetary challenges are not solved by Xi alone. Today, even junior high school is challenging, and getting into high school and college is even more difficult for families.
After much deliberation, she chose not to pursue a higher professional status, but instead chose to go to a vocational school for further study, which would not only improve her skills, but also work for a very short period of time to increase her family income.
Regardless, those who never went to high school did face some difficulties in the job search process, and despite her numerous job offers, she did not fail in each case.
Eventually, she decided to become a salesperson, but as a salesperson, her initial performance may not have been ideal, and even then, she didn't choose to let go.
Considering that she didn't make much money, she decided to spend less. As for the rest of the head, she chose to mail it home. Although they are not particularly wealthy, the family's financial situation is already showing signs of gradual improvement.
A huge blow triggered by reality.
However, the saying that "difficulties are only looking for suffering people" is not groundless, and sometimes, even Zhu Zhenfang's family is no exception, and they will receive the final blow of fate.
As a result of a sudden accident, her father passed away. When she learned the news, she felt a deep sense of despair. But when she realized that she wasn't the only one in the family, her mood gradually stabilized.
Considering that her father has died, she must take on the responsibility of caring for the entire family, which can only be considered truly destroyed when she loses it.
After recovering her spirits, she returned to her work, and over time, her experience grew and her salary increased, but as time went on, she eventually wanted to find a partner.
It happened that she overheard the content of the show, so she sent a letter to the program team with a hint of luck. Many of her views are expressed in the letter, but the suggestions may not be entirely appropriate for others. When many people learned of these suggestions, they were furious with her.
However, the program team really needs such talents to increase their attention. In order to achieve this goal, the program team even decided to adjust her schedule with other guests, directly stood at the forefront of the show, and appeared in the 20th episode of the very Do Not Disturb program.
The phrase she said was actually mentioned when the second male guest appeared, and the episode before this sentence described the scene where the second male guest wanted to shake hands with the female guest.
At this moment, the serial number where Zhu Zhenfang is located is No. 2, and the female guest in front of her has already shaken hands with her, which means that the next person to shake hands is her.
However, her subsequent remarks sparked a heated discussion, and she mentioned that everyone who shook her hand except her boyfriend would need to pay 200,000 yuan for the handshake.
As soon as this sentence was broadcast, it immediately caused a huge response in the audience. It is conceivable that after the show was broadcast, she suffered cold words from netizens all over the country, and some even criticized her appearance.
Although she may have left the show and returned to her previous workplace, she still had to face the taunts of her colleagues. In order to express her views more clearly, she submitted applications to the program team many times after the end of this program, but each application was unsuccessful.
Considering that the program team has attracted a lot of attention because of this matter, then who cares about you, a participant who is facing a difficult situation?
As a result, she continues to live in an environment of misunderstandings, occasionally being treated coldly by others, and even the company's top management will consult her about it.
Fortunately, despite all the setbacks, she was not defeated, but instead became a boost in her life. Now that the previous misunderstanding has happened, she decides to show her true colors through her own practical actions.
Luckily, since the end of that massive crusade, attention has decreased significantly, and she has seized this rare opportunity and has been living a stable life ever since.
Today, Zhu Zhenfang not only has a husband and children, but she also creates her own online account and often shares the latest news related to herself.
Upon closer inspection, you will see that she lives in great harmony with her husband. In addition, her career has also been smooth sailing, and with her persistence and hard work, she has successfully become the company's sales champion.
The most important thing is that this sales champion belongs to Mercedes-Benz, which means that her salary will definitely not be reduced. From this perspective, those who are resilient at heart are more likely to succeed. If this incident led to her self-abandonment, then what about her current achievements?
In this rapidly evolving society, people's values and goals are constantly changing. While we can't be sure whether Zhu Zhenfang still clings to her past views, her presence and her past remarks do provide us with some deep food for thought about marriage, love, and personal pursuits.
We may never fully understand the true situation of Zhu Zhenfang, but this story is still worthy of deep reflection. In the journey of life, everyone has the right to choose the goals and values they pursue.
Most importantly, we need to maintain an open mind to understand and respect the decisions of others, while also constantly reflecting on our own life goals in pursuit of true happiness and fulfillment.
The content of this article is taken from Episode 20 of the show "Do Not Disturb" on April 18, 2010.