I have a pension of 8,000 and take my grandson for free for 5 years, and when I learned that my daughter bought a house for my in-laws, I immediately went back to my hometown.
My name is Uncle Zhang, I am 65 years old, and I am a retired teacher. I have two children, the eldest is a daughter and the younger is a son. My wife passed away 5 years ago and since then I have been living with my daughter and helping to take care of my grandson. My pension is 8,000 yuan a month, and I use part of this money every month to take care of my grandson and family.
My daughter and son-in-law are busy, they are both doctors, work long hours, and often need to work overtime. I'm glad I can help them take care of their children so they can focus more on their work. I know that my grandson is the future of my daughter and son-in-law, and I will do everything I can to make him grow up better.
For 5 years, I have been giving silently, without complaining, without dissatisfaction. I didn't even tell them that I had given up the opportunity to travel abroad in order to take care of my grandson. I know that this is my responsibility as a grandfather and my selfless love for them.
However, something happened recently that left me feeling very disappointed and angry.
That day, my daughter and son-in-law told me at the dinner table that they had decided to buy a house for their in-laws. When I heard the news, I was a little surprised. I know they always wanted to say thank you to their in-laws, but I didn't expect them to use such a big hand.
We wanted to surprise them. The daughter smiled and said, "We have found a good **, and it is also very suitable." We plan to give this house as a gift to our in-laws. ”
When I heard this, I felt a little uncomfortable in my heart. I know that my in-laws are very good to them, but I am also unhappy with their decision. I think of my silent dedication and sacrifice in the past 5 years, while they used my pension to buy a house for my in-laws.
The decision was too hasty. I said, "You should think about your financial situation and your future plans." And you should ask my opinion. ”
The daughter and son-in-law obviously didn't expect me to oppose their decision. They froze, then began to explain their ideas and plans. They said that their in-laws were very good to them and that they wanted to repay the favor. They also said that this decision would not affect my life and the care of my grandchildren.
As I listened to their explanations, I felt more and more disappointed. I know they have no ill intentions, but their actions make me feel betrayed and ignored. I feel that I have not received the respect and gratitude I have given in the past 5 years.
I decided to take action to express my displeasure and anger. I told my daughter and son-in-law that I had decided to stop providing free care services to my grandson. I know this decision may confuse and disappoint them, but I think it's the only way to make a difference in their behavior.
You are responsible for your own decisions. I said, "I can't continue to pay for your decisions." ”
The daughter and son-in-law obviously did not expect me to make such a decision. They tried to convince me to change my mind, but I didn't waver. I think it's a punishment and a warning for their actions.
From that day on, I decided to go back to my hometown and start planning my life and future arrangements. I understand that this decision may come with some inconveniences and challenges, but I am willing to take the consequences. I think it's my responsibility and right as a grandfather.
I also started to rethink my retirement plans and future living arrangements. I started thinking about looking for other jobs or opportunities to enrich my life and income**. I believe I can find better opportunities and options to live a better life.
This decision made me feel a little lonely and lost. I know I'm going to lose some of the time and opportunities I have with my grandchildren, but I believe it's for them to grow and develop better. I believe my decision was right and necessary.