Parents, both first-time parents, have many times, because the child is anxious and short-tempered;Because the child is angry and feels wronged;Because the child is anxious and worried. From having no children to having children, life is actually very different. No children, how to be happy and how to live;If you have children, you will blindly revolve around them. When parents have children, they cannot be as free as they are without children. But parents should pay attention to the fact that no matter how much pressure and responsibility there is, they can't say these 2 words to their children. 
1. "I really regret giving birth to you".Children are the sweetest burden in our lives. When children are cute, we can't put them down;When children are naughty, we are so angry that we tremble. With children, I understand how hard it is for parents. But even if we are angry, we should not always say to our children: "I really regret giving birth to you", "It's better not to have you", blaming the children, complaining about the children, as if a bad life comes from the children. Parents are adults, we must learn to be strong parents, don't feel that there is wind and rain, and feel that it is the pressure given by children. Complaining about your children, abusing your children, you have to be careful of your own children, and form a cowardly character. 
2. "You look at people, you look at you".Parents should not always compare their own children with other people's children. Some children have low grades in cultural classes, but it does not mean that they are not good children. Don't just look at the grades and ignore the child's understanding. Parents blindly complain about their children, casting a shadow on their children's young hearts, it is really possible, it will make a child feel inferior for a lifetime, and even form a character that pleases others, hit his self-confidence, and erase his efforts, which will make the child more blind and have a suspicious attitude towards himself, which is not conducive to the growth of the child. Parents must not always compare their children, encourage their children more, and don't always criticize their children. 
Parents are parents for the first time,We don't necessarily do it well. But the role of parents,For every childIt is an extremely important existence of the life species!This sense of mission,Forcing us to be stronger and more responsibleWork educating childrenFull of patience and pleasantnessDon't say anything that makes your child sadPay more attention to your child's emotionsLet the child grow up happily!