Have you ever loved someone for a long, long time?Even though I know that there is no possibility between two people, I still can't let go of my heart.
Yes, in the world of emotions, there are gains and losses, wonderful moments, and there will always be helpless scenes.
When the relationship comes to an end and there is no way for two people to continue, breaking up is the best option, but breaking up does not necessarily mean the true end of the relationship.
As the saying goes, I've had a crush on you for a long time and haven't told anyone.
Reluctant to let go, with emotional greed and unwillingness, so there is no way to love the person to be normal.
Instead of dwelling, let's meet.
First, when you see one, you break the filter.
The reason why a relationship can't go on is not one person's fault, it must be that two people are physically, there is no way to run in deeply, and it is the other party's shortcomings that cannot be accepted, so they have to draw an end to the relationship.
However, after a breakup, we often think not of those who have differences, but of the good days we have walked together.
If you don't see each other, you will miss each other, and when you think about it, you will remember the bits and pieces of your experience with each other, and infinitely magnify each other's advantages, but you forget what the reason for getting each other to this is what it is.
When you can't let go, look at one side, let the other side go from memory to real life, and you will find that those factors that affect the original feelings are still flawless in your imagination, and they are as rough as in reality when they land.
When you meet once, you will no longer let the other person live in your imagination, and you will see that the real him is still the same as in the past, not what you want.
A single meeting can break the filter that time automatically imposes on him, making you give up completely.
Encountering is letting go, not retaining.
Best friend and ex-boyfriend have been in love for 8 years, and finally entered into marriage, due to various inappropriate choices to break up, not long after the breakup, the ex-boyfriend took the initiative to meet and wanted to reconcile with his best friend.
The two tried to get their relationship back to the way it was at the beginning, but they didn't expect that the reconciliation in the third month came to the end of the breakup again.
said goodbye like this, after two or three years, my best friend was going to get married, but she found that she couldn't let go of her ex-boyfriend no matter what, she couldn't bear to see each other, but those unstoppable thoughts, like weeds, would be pressed down for a while, and would rise again for a while.
Coincidentally, my best friend's ex-boyfriend is also getting married, and I want to completely end the relationship between the two, so I took the initiative to meet my best friend, and the two met like old friends, chatted about the latest situation, blessed the future, and then generously said goodbye, and deleted each other's ways.
Some people don't dare to see each other after breaking up, afraid that once they meet, the dam in their hearts will collapse after all the hard work to build it, after all, it is someone who loves me deeply, how can I bear to say goodbye to the past completely with my heart?
But when two people really have no fate and can't go on, instead of being bound to them, it is better to let go, which is the best explanation for themselves and each other.
The meeting after the breakup is to untie the knot, not to reconcile, if the meeting cannot achieve the effect of making the heart more comfortable, and to meet, it is better to let the body isolate naturally.
If you can't let go of someone, try to meet him.