If I tell you today whether you want to contact your ex or not, whether you can get back together or not, there is no direct contact, will you think that I am talking nonsense, will you think it is incredible?
If you think I'm talking nonsense, then you can think back to the question, if your ex contacts you every day, but just doesn't get back together with you, do you think it's the reason for not getting in touch enough?
Or maybe you contact your ex every day, and your ex just ignores you, do you think it's a problem of not having enough contact?
Or do you think that your ex deleted and blocked you, and gave you a chance to talk to your ex, do you think your ex will come back?
I think if you think these questions clearly, you will knowWhether you want to contact your ex or not, there is no direct connection to your reunion.
Then the question arises, what does it have to do with redemption?
In fact, this question is also very simple, you contact your ex is just to deepen an impression of your ex, which can be good or badThen the impression created by your connection is related to your redemption.
You can read this sentence several times to understand the truth.
Let's answer a few more questions from this:
If you are in contact with your ex every day, but you just don't get back together, it's not that you don't have less contactIt's that in the process of contact, you don't give your ex the feeling that he wants to fall in love with youThere are many reasons for this feeling, for example, I feel that you have a problem and have not changed, for example, I feel that you are always talking about getting back together, which puts pressure on the other party.
The considerations behind your ex's chat with you are the key to your chat.
For another example, if you contact your ex every day, and your ex still ignores you, then it is not a problem for you to contact at this timeIt's that your behavior of looking for the other party every day brings a kind of impression to the other party, and this impression prevents the other party from getting back together, so do you have to consider stopping this entangled connection?
For another example, the other party blocked you and deleted you, giving you a chance to talk to your ex, why most of them still collapse, because this is not a matter of contactIt's that the impression you bring to the other person at this time is not good.
To understand our central idea today, we also need to understand a characteristic, that is, the quality of impressions is different from the actual situation, and impressions are a form of brain weaving.
You may not understand what I say, but let me give you an example:
For example, after a breakup, you will feel happy and beautiful with your ex, and you will often think about the good times you have with your ex. But your imagination is somewhat unrealistic.
Because your imagination at this time is enhanced by your brain, and you are driven by the desire in your heart to imagine a beautiful pictureIn fact, it may be that in the final stage of getting along, you may be in a very flat relationship, your relationship is no longer good, plus all kinds of unpleasantness in your usual relationshipYour whole relationship is actually a mixture of joy.
In the same way, the other party's impression of you also has the addition of TA's brain, TA always wants to break up with you at this time, but if you keep preventing this from happening, TA will quickly deteriorate your impressionIt's so bad that the thought of you is a negative emotion, I think you're annoying, you're annoying, and so on.
Under the influence of these negative emotions, they have already ignored the care and consideration you have for them in your relationship, etc.
Therefore, I hope that the friends who want to redeem can understand today's truth, link your various things with the impression of the other party, and you may be able to know your course of action more clearly.
Redemption